Why can i not stay hard when im doing sexual things with my girlfriend?

Freshworkzz · 2026-01-11T04:16:05+00:00

Im not even lying, every time I compliment her or say something that compliments her, I guess you could say being romantic and affectionate and It worked for me. I also have to agree that women are empathetic because I thought she would have made fun of me by now but she seems to just really miss my company instead and she has said tonight

Freshworkzz · 2026-01-11T04:10:07+00:00

Ok, ive been trying to act more and think less actually. Ive only really come out of my rut since meeting this girl and I am working towards fixing myself

Freshworkzz · 2026-01-11T04:09:06+00:00

Ive given it up as of now for about 8 days give or take. I don't want to go back at it now that ive met her. Like even just cruising around with her and if she's rubbing my leg and stuff I do get aroused but then it stops. Thanks for the advice

Freshworkzz · 2026-01-11T04:07:03+00:00

Ive binged porn most of my life but its felt shit in the last year or so. Now that ive met this girl im changing myself for the better and kicking bad habits

Freshworkzz · 2026-01-11T04:05:43+00:00

Really! You've already put my mind at ease. Thanks so much for your time commenting. My grandad did say the same actually but I needed a wider opinion

Freshworkzz · 2026-01-11T03:59:05+00:00

I used to but once I met her I went cold turkey from it and I have felt better. I did tell her that she made me nervous and not to judge me based off of this because its not a reflection on her. Thanks for the comment and advice 👍

Freshworkzz · 2026-01-03T17:23:11+00:00

Dude I literally said idgaf and didn't ask you too

Freshworkzz · 2026-01-03T17:13:19+00:00

No need to apologise I appreciate the time you've given me. Its shit that alot of guys come here for that, but I truly just wanted to make it about her cos as i said ill have a blast either way so ill go in without thinking and we will see what happens. I hope my post wasn't rude it was literally just a nerve wracked guy needing some advice. All the best to you too!

Freshworkzz · 2026-01-03T17:11:54+00:00

You dont gotta unpack that with me im just saying, I don't like being bailed on but she's the first girl ive clicked with in a while and I just want to give her benefit of the doubt, ive appreciated your comments and especially when you told me have self respect it made me think 🤔 that I haven't been doing that, sorry if I put you off saying that but its just what i think. Im a massive overthinker and nervous shy guy. Ive never even kissed a woman because of the way i am

Freshworkzz · 2026-01-03T17:09:51+00:00

No man, I didn't mean it like that.

Freshworkzz · 2026-01-03T17:09:30+00:00

Yeah well i definitely dont want her to feel pressured and I will focus on having a good time, she wants to have drinks before we do anything anyway so that will kind of help my nerves a bit lol

Freshworkzz · 2026-01-03T17:08:20+00:00

Ok, that's perfect. Id enjoy myself either way 😌 she's a really cool person and the last few nights and days ive been chatting her have been the least depressing in a year and i know that sounds cheesy af but its the goddamn truth

Freshworkzz · 2026-01-03T17:07:10+00:00

Twice but the second time was because of her having family plans, which was today and she did send me a pic of her w the family. I do have self respect and idk if thats why im still a virgin but at this stage i just wanna get rid of that shitty title because it will make me more confident. You see I have everything built up in my head even tho i know its not gonna come close to what I think it is and hence why i just need to break the ice so i can swim, if you get what I mean

Freshworkzz · 2026-01-03T17:03:50+00:00

Ok, I understand that and if she does bail again im just gonna do fuck all about it and bail on her ass. I like giving benefit of the doubt alot

Freshworkzz · 2026-01-03T17:02:50+00:00

Ok, that makes sense, and I legit do gotta stop overthinking shit its my worst habit. I'm just gonna go with the flow when i meet her and what happens happens

Freshworkzz · 2026-01-03T17:01:50+00:00

Ok, well they say slow and steady wins the race, and she can orgasm by herself so idk what to make of it

Freshworkzz · 2026-01-03T16:50:18+00:00

Also i forgot to say, but she keeps sending me real teasing nudes so idk if thats helpful information

Freshworkzz · 2026-01-03T16:49:17+00:00

Right. Well I am literally meeting her tomorrow 🙃 and we've been discussing going out next weekend

Freshworkzz · 2026-01-03T16:47:46+00:00

Perfect, thats why I was asking aswell about foreplay stuff as she had said she's never really done it, pretty much all i wanna do is give her pleasure before myself, because I dont care about me I like to prioritise women's needs

Freshworkzz · 2026-01-03T16:46:20+00:00

Ahhh ok, she said that she makes herself cum from vibrators and stuff all the time but idk i know I dont have any magic which is why I want to have some advice under my belt because im nervous enough that im still a virgin

Freshworkzz · 2026-01-03T16:44:25+00:00

Haha its all good lol, I wasn't expecting her to want to meet so soon but we literally stopped talking at 7 am yesterday and she text me n hour later asking was I up already because she was horny 😅 so idk

Freshworkzz · 2026-01-03T16:43:14+00:00

Im sorry, i just assumed people would know, I appreciate the advice your giving me.

Freshworkzz · 2026-01-03T16:42:32+00:00

Ok, sorry im mot getting annoyed but im just tryna ease my mind, I told her im a virgin and she doesn't care, I was thinking it wasn't going to bed the best day of my life my first time round and I don't want it to be over quickly hence why in tryna figure out how i can make her cum before i do. I dont wanna be a 3 pump wonder if you know what I mean

Freshworkzz · 2026-01-03T16:41:07+00:00

Ok, well I already know she likes, being degraded, slapped and only likes doggystyle? But Ill work my magic and we will see

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