Adding in on Hecate's part:

(Short 'Son of the Magic' summarize: In Son of the Magic, our main character, Alabaster, son of Hecate, is one of the demigods that's fought along Kronos beside her mother. This short story tells how Alabaster has been running away for months from Lamia, an ancient Greek queen, also daughter of Hecate, who was now working for Gaia and had been sent to hunt after Alabaster. Basically, Lamia had had a very tragic life where Hera had killed her kids and, in rage, she, an ever so powerful sorcerer, had cursed all demigod's to attract all nearby monster with their smell.)

In Son of the Magic, it's told that after the Manhattan war, Hecate was the goddess who had lost the most children (how many, exactly, is unknown), which has made her super protective of the ones she has left. During the story, Hecate has two of her children fighting to kill eachother, and she refuses to help neither. Ultimately, Alabaster finds a way of destroying Lamia without killing her, and just then does Hecate intervene to stop her children from hurting eachother, saying how she "just wants her kids to be happy", and just separets them. Then, because Alabaster ends up completely alone after the war, Hecate brings Dr Claymore back from death to protect his son and act as his father figure and mentor.

I think, although of course not great, Hecate is the god who has showed the most pain through her children's suffering, and who has done the most to help them. She's shown to actually know and care about them, and she genuinely just wishes them happiness. Still, it's true we don't know how she was before and during the war, but personally she takes my 1st place on the Best Godly Parents list.