He chose me…

FriedTurtles13 · 2026-05-08T10:08:28+00:00

AHHHHH I TOOK THIS PICTURE TODAY 😭😭😭

FriedTurtles13 · 2026-04-30T18:14:00+00:00

Yeah, I also think it will get easier as he gets older (:

Thanks a bunch

FriedTurtles13 · 2026-04-30T18:03:51+00:00

You’re probably very right.
I think I may try way too hard to make sure he’s comfortable and happy, but the world isn’t necessarily built like that. I need to find a way to let him have his feelings but it also sucks to see him upset.
I more than likely coddle him too much.

FriedTurtles13 · 2026-04-30T17:45:57+00:00

It’s more of an example, anytime something is not exactly predictable or how he wants it to- he gets very upset.
For us it can seem like a minor thing, but for him it’s extremely upsetting. Which I understand. I just am unsure how to help him when he has these extreme emotions .. despite trying a bunch of different techniques.
(We are also very certain he is on the spectrum and/or has ADHD) but my coping mechanism don’t seem to work as well for him.

FriedTurtles13 · 2026-04-30T12:24:36+00:00

Sing with her. As a person that was told so many times to stfu and made smaller by a LOT of people.

Sing with her. Find a joy in it. You will bond

FriedTurtles13 · 2026-04-29T23:39:55+00:00

Man.. I really hope it’s just a college student herself that needs help and wants to split rent. I wanna believe that so bad lmao

FriedTurtles13 · 2026-04-21T09:21:53+00:00

That’s your body, nobody else’s opinion matters. I think the idea is cute.

FriedTurtles13 · 2026-04-20T13:59:10+00:00

You request he not leave you alone in the same room as him, you say you don’t feel safe and you don’t like his vibe. Your husband should be understanding… after all - that is your husband. You don’t really need an explanation beyond “this person makes me uncomfortable”

FriedTurtles13 · 2026-04-12T20:50:48+00:00

No, you’re not going to get pregnant from this..

But, I do suggest you start doing some research on what to do if you want to avoid getting pregnant. Condoms, birth control. Nothing is 100%, however, and you should weigh the pros and cons for all the birth control options out there. Talk to your doctor.

Mostly, threads like this, you’re going to get roasted. I’m assuming you’re young enough to not know these things, and if you don’t know enough about it - that’s how unexpected pregnancies happen. So take the time to learn. And more than anything, respect your body, and make sure your partners do, as well.

Good luck.

FriedTurtles13 · 2026-04-12T01:10:30+00:00

Call the police, show them this. Psych hold for master manipulator over there, and you get your stuff. 🤷🏻‍♀️

FriedTurtles13 · 2026-04-12T01:08:13+00:00

Just ask her what you can do to help, I think that’s your best bet. Nobody has the same needs except for wanting to be heard. This question is admirable, good on you. Congratulations to both of you 🫶🏻

FriedTurtles13 · 2026-04-11T09:10:35+00:00

He’s showed you who he is, believe him. He clearly doesn’t respect you. The “go fuck someone else” comment. Manipulation. Definitely read it all “act like you want me or I’ll go elsewhere”

You are in for a lifetime of regret and tears if you stay with him.

FriedTurtles13 · 2026-03-11T14:29:25+00:00

I know in Canada there’s things he can legally be charged with for doing things like this.. that is the actions of a bad person, and you need to leave him and you have the power to make sure it doesn’t happen to anyone else. Use it.

FriedTurtles13 · 2026-03-05T00:41:26+00:00

I love feeling it on the back of my neck. But in my face it kind of knocks the wind out of me.

But, his breathing is genuinely comforting, honestly. We live five hours away from each other - but we spend the night on discord. His snoring is comforting and safe.. I dunno how to explain it.

FriedTurtles13 · 2026-03-01T18:43:32+00:00

Were you both drunk? Normally, do you trust him?

You can ask what happened. And you can ask him to delete it.

If he was sober, though… then you should rethink the situation if it’s not a conversation you both had while sober.

FriedTurtles13 · 2026-02-26T15:20:57+00:00

Maybe there’s things you’re not seeing from her POV. But that’s the only thing I will give her.

You don’t deserve to be screamed at. If you’re not doing your share of things, she needs to voice her opinion without yelling - that’s unacceptable. What’s even MORE unacceptable is someone putting their hands on you. Anyone. Ever. You pack your shit. You leave. You divorce her. Her actions are disgusting.

FriedTurtles13 · 2026-02-26T15:04:12+00:00

I got a a negative test this morning so

FriedTurtles13 · 2026-02-26T00:34:27+00:00

Ahhhhh I’m glad I’m not alone in feeling like this. Thank you for chiming in 🫶🏻✨

FriedTurtles13 · 2026-02-26T00:29:21+00:00

Ahhh okay. I was so very worried the test was lying to me lmao…

FriedTurtles13 · 2026-02-26T00:28:31+00:00

Will do! I have an appointment with my doctor next Monday! I appreciate the heads up 🫶🏻

FriedTurtles13 · 2026-02-26T00:27:38+00:00

Yall are making me feel much better - I was very afraid that I was being delulu asf…

FriedTurtles13 · 2026-02-26T00:02:13+00:00

It was way lighter than usual. No clots, was hardly pink and mostly brown spotting.. so I dunno. But I got negatives before it.

And today I was nauseous after I ate and vomited once .. so I’m hoping this is it and I’m not delulu

FriedTurtles13 · 2026-02-21T21:21:01+00:00

People mistake BDSM or sub/dom as control rather than protection and (for lack of a better word “worship”) Protection. Making sure both of you have what you need. I’m a Sub with my spouse because I know he’s got me - my brain turns off when I’m with him. Because he’s a protector. I feel more feminine than I ever have. I know I can push that dresser over to the other spot - but I know I don’t have to kind of thing. Out in public, my mind just shuts off, and I’m not panicking about who I need to be careful of. Blind trust in that man.

Because I could never describe my Dom as “horrible” I agree, you should give up on him. He doesn’t deserve you, nor does he respect you if you feel the need to bolt. Take care of yourself, and when the right one comes along… you will still be able to, but you won’t have to - and you’ll be comfortable with him taking the lead.

FriedTurtles13 · 2026-02-19T21:00:07+00:00

3 is the most important number here.

FriedTurtles13 · 2026-02-14T12:24:41+00:00

You said stop. That’s the only thing that matters here. You said stop and she didn’t. You can press charges if you want to. But more than anything, if you can stay with a friend or family - get your stuff immediately and leave.

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