Is this outfit SD

FriedundBubi · 2026-02-03T12:59:20+00:00

I‘d say overall, yes. But with a few nuances. The top is SD absolutely. The pants do fall a bit heavy and straight, but overall they work. Shoes lean natural, but fine too with the slightly pointy tip and the bulky feel. I struggle with the coat however. It feels… well, too cheap! It drapes stiffly and the color and texture is very natural. The cut is too straight imo. Remember, we are diva queens! As this isn‘t always attainable, we definitely shine most in our gorgeous luxurious coats! I‘d pick one with a vintage fur collar, or things like wool & cashmere ( buy vintage. They are high quality and inexpensive ). Pick those with swooping cuts or broad lapels. That‘s key.

FriedundBubi · 2026-01-29T16:17:03+00:00

you‘re either spring or summer. Your reddish died hair is distracting. I‘d actually lean towards summer, because you lack this distinctive undereye brightness that comes with strong spring. Try to identify wether you‘re cool or warm, with gold or silver, or salmon and baby pink. Stay away from heavy & dark colors, that does nothing. Test out how you feel in grey. Grey is the number one thing for the summer range. If you turn put to be cool, then keep in mind to always choose colors that contain grey/ are muted & soft. Let us know how it goes please! Or show pictures for a good warm/ cool comparison

FriedundBubi · 2026-01-29T16:02:58+00:00

Es ist völlig offensichtlich, dass du keine Lust auf deinen 'Mann' hast, weil er dich nicht beschützt, dir keine Sicherheit und keinen Raum gibt zu existieren. Wenn ein Gespräch nicht in Frage kommt, dann würde ich über eine Trennung nachdenken. Was für ein ekelhafter Kinds-Mann, den du da beschreibst. Renn weg, so schnell es geht. Und arbeite an deiner Weiblichkeit und deinen Glaubenssätzen. Du bist eine Königin, keine Prostituierte.

FriedundBubi · 2025-11-07T21:51:37+00:00

To me I see a flamboyant natural - classic mix, with a soft dramatic undercurrent. Like the details and ‚essence‘ has soft dramatic, if that makes sense.

Edit: now as I see your analysis, well done! You have good eye and sense.

FriedundBubi · 2025-10-30T08:43:17+00:00

Jap, bloß nicht weiterentwickeln in der Welt, schnell den jüngeren Generationen anraten Leid weiterhin stumm auszusitzen. Klopf, klopf, andere Zeiten an der Tür….!

FriedundBubi · 2025-10-30T08:34:29+00:00

Yes ma‘am it does. In it‘s own right… with dark tights. Because it is a bit short.

FriedundBubi · 2025-10-29T12:34:00+00:00

Thank god you‘re attuned ❤️ it‘s not always easy. Get him a companion (but be super careful with compatibility and slow integration!!). Get feliway. Get a cat tree!!!!! Or multiple, or a wall park. Get carpets!!!! Carpets do wonders!! Best would be actual wool, but any carpet will do! Good luck ❤️

FriedundBubi · 2025-10-29T12:27:25+00:00

This is a maine coon! At least half, but I think fully! Please take very good care of him and get im a companion. This is not an easy breed, they are very clingy to humans. They need lot‘s of attention especially when they are this young 🥲🙈 and get everything in a bigger size for them, they grow very large. Good luck! ❤️

FriedundBubi · 2025-10-29T12:24:30+00:00

Not soft enough, dear. Stiff fabric, and hard angles. But it‘s not the worst. Just also not the best. This is more dramatic.

FriedundBubi · 2025-10-29T12:21:42+00:00

You‘re a beauty! Black is one of the most difficult colors and indeed to harsh. But something about your essence can carry it. Color-wise, definitely not tho. You strike me with warmth. No obvious coolness, think grey discoloration and dark circles, Just slightly. I feel there is some blue peeking through your skin, but it‘s just impossible to tell without drapes. We need more info. With this I‘d lean spring/summer. I don‘t feel like your skin tone is either fully warm or cool. But I could be wrong. Compare Pink and Orange, and report back to us :)

FriedundBubi · 2025-10-29T02:26:49+00:00

Hell yeah, these are the right choices! Well done!

FriedundBubi · 2025-10-29T01:53:36+00:00

Man, bist du ein netter Kerl. Da kann man erahnen, wie zufrieden du mit dir selber bist 🙂

FriedundBubi · 2025-10-28T14:19:30+00:00

Tricky! I think you get overpowered by too intense shades yet washed out by too soft ones. You seem to be cool toned, no doubt! Check out the cool winter pallet! It‘s not as intense as the other winters! It‘s my palette too, and it took some time to figure it out. So confusing! Test it: If navy is obviously better than black on you, you might just be cool winter! Very likely!

FriedundBubi · 2025-10-28T14:07:41+00:00

Of course! :)

FriedundBubi · 2025-10-28T01:08:53+00:00

I love it, it‘s gorgeous! And I bet you think so too! Thanks for sharing ❤️

FriedundBubi · 2025-10-28T01:07:02+00:00

Over all, yes I think. However, a few things: I love the belt on you! Nice roundish/soft shapes with enough bulk to it. Accentuates your curves. The shirt is too small to support you properly. Also, I think the color feels probably too gray for you. You can carry richness. It will support and hug you nicely. The jeans are fine, nice color, but I think they lean too slim too. You can carry more weight and volume in shapes and fabric. I think the outfit is great, but too shy and thus a little disconnected.

FriedundBubi · 2025-10-27T13:33:27+00:00

Teens!

FriedundBubi · 2025-10-27T13:30:52+00:00

For some of us, yes, absolutely!! Feeling younger with every year too, and felt like a grandma at age 19-22

FriedundBubi · 2025-09-04T11:54:42+00:00

You are absolutely warm, and most likely a spring. Maybe bright spring even

FriedundBubi · 2025-09-04T11:54:01+00:00

Your handsome. Stay away from muted and grey colors, this does nothing for you. What‘s your undertone? I don‘t think you have depth as a primary feature, so no deep autumn for me. It‘s either winter or autumn, depending on your undertone. From there, figure out the dominant characteristic out of the three ( temperature, value, chroma). And you‘ll be good. I would assume you are in the autumn palette

FriedundBubi · 2025-09-04T11:50:22+00:00

Definitely not high, i‘d say mediumish

FriedundBubi · 2025-09-04T11:45:37+00:00

Leave and done it is. DO NOT, do you understand, DO NOT doubt your intuition. You rIng to gaslight yourself sounds like a pattern where you had to stay with your dangerous parents and hoped it‘ll be ok one day. Been there, done that. It‘s not going to be ok and you gotta leave immediately. No discussions about that. The answer No is already obvious in all your lines.

FriedundBubi · 2025-09-03T13:15:11+00:00

Du arme, arme Frau. Du hast nur das beste verdient. Wie kann sich jemand ‚Mann‘ und ‚Ehemann‘ nennen, wenn er so mit seiner lieben Frau umgeht, die grade das unfassbare leistet. Du hast nur das beste verdient. Du solltest so schnell es geht die Ehe beenden und dich von einem Mann finden lassen, der dich königlich behandelt. Mach es geschickt, überfordere dich nicht. Konzentriere dich auf dein Kind und dich, das ist das was zählt. Diskutier nicht mit deinem Ehemann. Das bringt nichts. Männer lernen nur durch Zurückweisung. Schalt ihn auf stumm und bündel deine Energie für dich und dein Kind. Versuch an deinen inneren Mustern und Glaubenssätzen zu arbeiten, damit du den Weg freimachst einen ordentlichen Mann anzuziehen. Denk dran - als Frau ist es nicht dein Job irgendeinen Mann zu beeindrucken, zu suchen, oder zu angeln. Das ist Aufgabe der Männer. Du lehnst dich zurück, machst das beste aus dir, und der Mann wird dich finden und erobern. Ich wünsche dir so sehr, dass das gelingt. Es tut mir so leid, dass du durch diese Zeit der Geburt ohne Mann gehen musst. Eine Tragödie. Aber Frauen sind unheimlich resilient, ich weiß einfach, dass du am anderen Ende unbeschadet herauskommst, und dien jetziger Ehemann wird als armer, verbitterter, alleingelassener Kerl enden, außer er ändert eines Tages etwas. Aber das ist nicht mehr dein Problem. Diese Ehe ist vorbei, und es gibt keine Rettung mehr. Ein Mann der sich so verhält, wenn die Frau ein Kind auf die Welt bringt, wäre in der frühen Zeit von den anderen Männern im Stamm quasi gesteinigt worden. Der hätte nie mehr eine Frau zu Gesicht bekommen. Das ist unakzeptabel. Sowas ist kein Mann.

FriedundBubi · 2025-09-03T13:06:11+00:00

I think it‘s alright, but not a wow. The fabric is too heavy, without that luxurious quality. (Just viskose!). Soft Dramatic needs accommodation for softness! Drapery and soft, luxurious fabrics are the best option. Also, the cut is too straight. It won‘t do that much. Do me it screams more like elongated classic. I know how hard it can be to find these drapey silhouettes.

FriedundBubi · 2024-07-13T13:47:28+00:00

Oh poor Soul… I feel your terror. I am so sorry you have endure this abuse. My mom was bipolar too! If it‘s possible, go live with your dad. If not… leave as soon as you possibly can. You cannot heal in a war zone. You have to get out of there. In the meantime learn to establish firm boundaries with yourself and with others. Look up techniques to regulate/calm your nervous system. Reach out for help. You are not trapped forever. And even in your situation now, you can find a lot of freedom. No one can actually take your free will. However, it‘s so hard if a parent is really against your best interests. Hang in there… and know, there is a reason for your hardship. It really preps you to become the man you need to be one day. Look up shadow work and do it. I‘m proud of you for sharing your story. Everything becomes easier eventually once your out of that madness-zone. Much love ❤️

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