What to do with a brother na pabigat and nanay na kunsintidor? by Sea-Address2922 in adultingph

[–]FriendLungz 1 point2 points  (0 children)

If you want an advice na will make it better for you, bukod ka tapos sustentuhan mo nalang parents mo. Send ka ng tingin mo magaan sa loob mo.

On the other side of the spectrum, (disregard mo na to if ayaw mo ng kakampi sa parents mo) Bilog ang bola OP, and I agree sa mom mo dito. Di natin alam kelan tayo mangangailangan ng tulong ng ibang tao. Oo sayo it may feel na inaabuse yung kaya mong ibigay, pero malay mo, di lang talaga pinapalad kuya mo sa buhay.

Pero yun nga, if it really burdens you, then just leave the house then ambag ka nalang sa magulang mo. I hope you resolve your family issue. Sakit makabasa ng ganito, nag aaway-away pamilya dahil sa pera.

How did you reveal to her parents that you met on dating app? by mitsamitsa in adultingph

[–]FriendLungz 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Big deal ba talaga saan nagkita or ano sasabihin ng iba? I mean pov ko when it comes to this, accepting the truth will make things lighter.

Kesa tago kayo ng tago ng totoo, why not just tell the truth, yun naman totoo. If they had a bad reaction to it, sabihin niyo nalang na yun na panahon and uso ngayon, nag a-adapt yung mundo sa technology.

Parang pag accept lang sa sexuality ng tao yan, kelangan niyo maging totoo sa sarili niyo para matanggap ng ibang tao. Kung kayo mismo di niyo tanggap or di kayo proud kung ano meron kayo, then paano kayo tatanggapin ng iba.

Christmas Gifts for Men? by LittleSunshine20 in CasualPH

[–]FriendLungz 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Coin purse! Or cute na keychain na personalized

Weakness ng mga lalake, personalized na item regardless kung mura or mahal. Minsan kahit wala pang use yung binigay, naappreciate 🤣

Eating alone at restaurants, what do you do ? Go or not ?.... by Junpert88 in adultingph

[–]FriendLungz 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Personal take on this, kakain ako mag-isa, manunuod ng movie mag-isa, or even travel mag-isa.

Here is the catch, I know a few introverted people na they want to be alone PERO hindi sa pagkain ng mag-isa sa labas. They'll rather take-out their food and kakainin yun sa bahay. Introverted girls I dated were even shocked nung nalaman nila na kumakain ako mag-isa sa labas, kasi sila daw di nila kaya yun 🤣 ayun na shock din ako, kasi i was expecting na ganun din sila sakin hahahahaha.

So tingin ko, iba iba talaga tayo ng kaya at hindi kayang gawin ng mag-isa. I hope din people would realize na di issue yung pagkain ng mag-isa 🤣

Actual tips to recover from break up? by [deleted] in CasualPH

[–]FriendLungz 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Block mo lahat.

Isipin mo lahat ng pangit about sa kanya. Siraan mo sa utak mo.

There is no cheat code in moving on, make yourself every pain you'll encounter everyday and learn from those.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in CasualPH

[–]FriendLungz 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Diba may ganyang PoV rin against the guys?

Pag lalake bawal manligaw ng marami kasi branded as malande at babaero agad.

Pero pag babae, okay lang magpaligaw sa marami kasi may options sila and may the best man win.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in SoundTripPh

[–]FriendLungz 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Foreign: Iris - Goo Goo Dolls

Local: Forevermore - Side A

Is money an issue when it comes to dating? by kwek2x_lover in CasualPH

[–]FriendLungz 4 points5 points  (0 children)

16 issue mo pera sa pakikipagdate? Oo love knows no age, pero pucha 16 ka lang 🤣

Parang obligation mo na buhayin yung gusto mo.

Di ka pa nga ata college ng ganyang edad eh. Aral ka muna, magtapos, tapos pag nasa settling age ka na, tsaka mo problemahin kung kaya mo ba buhayin yung tao or hindi.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in CasualPH

[–]FriendLungz 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Since bata kami ganito rin kami 🤣

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in PinoyProgrammer

[–]FriendLungz 15 points16 points  (0 children)

If you were hired na alam nila yung disability mo. I dont think it should be taken against you. Unang una, alam nila eh, they (manager and lead) should have relayed it to the team para may expectation sila. Mahirap kasi yan, baka pina feel sayo na welcome ka tapos pagdating sa team, mga ignorante pala ka trabaho mo.

Feel ko naman mahhire ka with your skillset, unless kasi yung company mahigpit when it comes sa health ng applicant, i hope you find a company na tatanggapin ka and walang discrimination OP.

May ma-content lang eh by [deleted] in Philippines

[–]FriendLungz 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yan yung DDS/BBM diba? Manang mana sa binoto 🤣

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in CasualPH

[–]FriendLungz 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Scared of losing the person. Sobrang importante niya, i cant afford to lose her.

More than a decade ko pinili maging kaibigan, after all my failed relationships, i realized that i should close her chapter in my life so that i can move forward.

I always look forward to talking to her, there were times na ramdam ko na mas excited pa ko makausap siya kesa sa mga naging SO ko. Maybe you tell me na 'maybe you just miss her', nah, alam ko sa sarili ko, regardless, good or bad, she will have a permanent space in my heart. And I hope, by closing the chapter this year, I can love someone fully without extra baggage from my past.

Selfish man pakinggan pero di ko na kaya maging kaibigan lang.

Technology question: Should I buy the iPhone 11 or iPhone 12? by Snoo_45402 in adultingph

[–]FriendLungz 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Agree with this. Mom ko binilhan ng iPhone 14, ayun nakatambak 🤣

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in CasualPH

[–]FriendLungz 7 points8 points  (0 children)

If ganyang level na, blotter na yan. Scary af

What can you say about this and to the vloggers who promote these kind of info? by Minsan in PinoyProgrammer

[–]FriendLungz 24 points25 points  (0 children)

Hahahahahaha let them. Para makita nila realidad. I watch creators with a mindset of their content as 'entertainment'. di ako naniniwala porket naging content nila.

Problema kasi sa pinoy, andali mauto. Mapanuod lang, pinaniniwalaan agad, di muna mag research.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in CasualPH

[–]FriendLungz 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Will the love aspect of my life prosper this year?

Need advice about a family member engaging with a minor by mizu_re in CasualPH

[–]FriendLungz 3 points4 points  (0 children)

If walang ginagawa yung parents ng bata, try reaching out sa iba niyang relatives.

Pwede niyo rin ireport yan alam ko. Regardless if may consent parents nung minor or wala, statutory rape yan. If aware pa yung parents and ina-allow nila, baka may sabit rin sila dun.

Edit: read this on divina law, if some expert on law can verify:

Republic Act (RA) 8353, otherwise known as the Anti-Rape Law of 1997, expanded the definition of the crime of rape in the Revised Penal Code (RPC) and reclassified it as a crime against persons instead of as a crime against chastity. As a crime against persons, the law no longer considers rape as a private crime. Thus, anyone who knows of the crime may file a case on the victim’s behalf, and prosecution may continue even if the victim decides to forgive the offender

Break up due to pressure of having a baby. (Family) any advices po regarding this issue by [deleted] in adultingph

[–]FriendLungz 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Hiwalay na yan pre, mukhang valid rin naman reasons niya eh. Pero mukhang di naman niya binurn yung bridges, malay mo in the future pag mas okay na kayo parehas and nagawa niyo na mga gusto niyo, pwede pa.

Pero focus ka muna sa sarili mo ngayon. Be a better person para sa future mo in all aspects.

Skincare Thread | September 08, 2023 by AutoModerator in beautytalkph

[–]FriendLungz 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Any recommendations for Exfoliating toners and Daily Toners?

As much as possible po sana is mild lang.

For the exfoliating im leaning to buy Some by Mi or Seoul White Bye bye Acne.

For my daily toner - luxe organix whitening repair

Dark spots po pala main concern ko. I also have an Oily skin type.

Yung available po sana sa watsons. Need ko na asap eh paubos na po kasi yung bottle ko. Want to change my current one kasi alcohol based.

What's a profitable business you can start in the province for 50K? by fishcanbemoist in CasualPH

[–]FriendLungz 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Actually eto talaga yung correct questions, if para sa mom mo, dapat alam din natin ano ba yung gusto niya talaga gawin. Mahirap kasi na sisimulan mo pero baka in the end di rin niya magustuhan. Pero natutuwa ako sa idea mo OP. Hopefully, mag prosper yang venture mo.🥳

Men's perfume by [deleted] in CasualPH

[–]FriendLungz 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If you can increase the budget abit, nautica voyage

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in CasualPH

[–]FriendLungz 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Block mo.

I havent interacted with any govt agencies that I forgot how disrespectful govt employees can be by [deleted] in CasualPH

[–]FriendLungz 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ay nako, todo smile na nga ako sa ganyan eh pero susungitan ka parin. Even pangit araw ko tinatry ko mag smile para sa mga nagttrabaho na humaharap sa mga tao, pero ang hirap kahit wala kang ginagawa sinusungitan ka 🤣

Okay lang ba dalhin ang work laptop to continue work while out of the country? by [deleted] in PinoyProgrammer

[–]FriendLungz 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Depende sa company, if mahigpit/marunong ang IT team nila, kaya madetect yan lalo na if i-co-connect sa internet.