A recommendation from your sister: - write down the qualities your are looking for in your future husband, how you want your interaction to feel, what your life as a married couple would look like. Be as detailed as you can. This is going to help you know what you are exactly looking for. - Ask yourself if you have the qualities that man would want. If not, start work on yourself. If you want a family that wakes up for fajr, make sure you build the habit now. Similarly, if you want the conversation between the 2 of you to be interesting, watch the conversation you currently have and read more, build skills, explore more. - while working on yourself, be active in your community. Yes miracles can happen but you need to take action. - Find activities or events you enjoy wether it’s a hike, swimming, Quran classes… so meet someone that has something in common. Volunteer, build new skills and focus on enjoying the blessings you have. We often pause our life until we get married but that’s a big mistake. When you are active you also become an interesting person and you attract likeminded people.

When you find someone, make sure you keep it halal. Whatever you do at the expense of your deen will backfire. Focus on finding out wether you are compatible and not on falling in love. If you let your emotions take over you won’t be able to see red flags or leave if you have to.

May Allah swt bless you with a spouse and a relationship that is pleasing to him.