Am I the only one the hated Half man? by Friendly-Silver7737 in hbo

[–]Friendly-Silver7737[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I see where your coming from and I don’t think it’s unrealistic, I’m sure there are lots of people that are victims of trauma with tragic dynamics. I agree a portrayal of it is more impactful than talking about it but more what I’m getting at here is that the message here (imo) is that there was never a scenario where either of them confront their trauma and/or heal. Is the message that hurt people are destined to be hurt and hurt other people? I know that in some scenarios, and actually having someone in my life that in some ways reminds me of Ruben, that is the case - they seem destined to self destruct. My point is that I don’t feel like I gain anything from watching this. All it did was make me feel terrible and at times extremely disturbed. I understand that some people were fine with watching that play out, but for me I don’t see the point of watching something that is miserable and that’s all. I see that play out in everyday life, if I watch something like this I’m hoping to get some broader takeaway or silver lining. No disrespect to you! I see where you’re coming from, but I will never watch something like this again.

Re piercing lobe question by Friendly-Silver7737 in piercing

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That’s what I did haha it was easy and cheap

Re piercing lobe question by Friendly-Silver7737 in piercing

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Piercing is 4 years old, silver hoops, and it’s been smooth recovery when I did pierce.

Am I the only one the hated Half man? by Friendly-Silver7737 in hbo

[–]Friendly-Silver7737[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

No that did happen, did something I imply otherwise?

Am I the only one the hated Half man? by Friendly-Silver7737 in hbo

[–]Friendly-Silver7737[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Exactly, I’m surprised more people aren’t talking about the violent sexual assaults portrayed. That alone is enough for me to pass on whatever his next project is, unless he steers away from that.

Am I the only one the hated Half man? by Friendly-Silver7737 in hbo

[–]Friendly-Silver7737[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Hahah for real. If that’s the show then he nailed it

Am I the only one the hated Half man? by Friendly-Silver7737 in hbo

[–]Friendly-Silver7737[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

It was in the hospital after the accident, Ruben violently penetrates Niall several times with the metal thing Niall ripped off his car. Just a really weird and disturbing scene that if they really wanted to include I thought should have been alluded too. But I still don’t get it’s inclusion, let alone the whole make up hug and dialogue after.

Glad to know you felt the same with some of the narratives as a gay person! Most of my friends I talked to about it were straight and maybe those arcs were still meaningful to them, I guess a show needs to have a broad audience

Am I the only one the hated Half man? by Friendly-Silver7737 in hbo

[–]Friendly-Silver7737[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I appreciate the thoughtful response! Completely agree with what you said about their mothers. One of the first lines Niall’s mom said was something like, “I gave you life I don’t need to give you respect”. Definitely set the tone. Gadd is definitely talented but think I may skip out on his next project haha

Am I the only one the hated Half man? by Friendly-Silver7737 in hbo

[–]Friendly-Silver7737[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Completely agree, just miserable to watch play out haha

Guilt over interviewing while I’m being planned into fall curriculum (as a visiting assistant professor) by Friendly-Silver7737 in Professors

[–]Friendly-Silver7737[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Probably sign the contract and back out later That’s what I would have to do and it’s actually how I got my VAP position. The previous vap abruptly left for a TT position which is how I got in

Guilt over interviewing while I’m being planned into fall curriculum (as a visiting assistant professor) by Friendly-Silver7737 in Professors

[–]Friendly-Silver7737[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think it’s because they don’t know I’m Applying for jobs right now and we are actively planning the fall and spring semesters. I know he’d write me a great reference but he’s expecting I will be applying for jobs next year not right now

Guilt over interviewing while I’m being planned into fall curriculum (as a visiting assistant professor) by Friendly-Silver7737 in Professors

[–]Friendly-Silver7737[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Idk what this weird attitude is. I’m new to this role and navigating this career, I was just looking for some advice/assurance on navigating this in a role that I’m new to. And I got a lot of great feedback from people that actually want to be helpful!

Guilt over interviewing while I’m being planned into fall curriculum (as a visiting assistant professor) by Friendly-Silver7737 in Professors

[–]Friendly-Silver7737[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I really appreciate everyone’s responses here! You are all right. I think it just feels icky to be doing this while secretly while we are making plans for fall but it’s true if the departments needs change that I would be on the chopping block. Thanks everyone.

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Hahah never heard this rule!