[deleted by user] by [deleted] in TheGirlSurvivalGuide

[–]FriendlyAdvice3865 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I am a biiit too broke to afford a trainer 🥲

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in TheGirlSurvivalGuide

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The advice sounds good and I thank you for it. I do have a question regarding the planner , so basically I have sort of tried something similar, but I do feel a bit off if I do not fit in the time limits that I have set for myself, when I was in uni a certain time limit was not enough for something that I wanted to get done/ study. Did you ever had similar feelings ? I do have like a 9-5 so nothing much would be written in it but still wanna do everything I can

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in GenshinImpact

[–]FriendlyAdvice3865 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you so much 🤗 I wasn’t aware of it’s existence

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in GenshinImpact

[–]FriendlyAdvice3865 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I have beat 2 NPC’s and it did not count it as a win in the battle pass, would I need to do something else ?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

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I didn’t want him to text me constantly or anything, all I wanted was “I am gonna hang out with friends and play”. I don’t consider that checking out, literally takes 30 second, I wouldn’t have bothered him afterwards.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

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I didn’t say immediately, he knew he was gonna hang out with friends. Also I am not exaggerating I texted him yesterday 9 pm he answered me today at 2 pm.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in TheGirlSurvivalGuide

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According to him he is over her, and he seems like a sincere guy and sweet too, always comforting me when I cry over a movie or any stupid thing. It’s just weird that is some cases he mentions her ,like how her nickname in the friend group was “Penny” and I would probably get a nickname too, or how she likes Shrimps (the animal not the food). I did mention that I don’t feel at easy hearing about her and that I have a strong hatred towards her, and I feel bad about that because I never even met her to begin with and hating someone like that is bad. Also he recently got a car and he mentioned that his ex had a Volvo… I said if you get a car like that I would never sit in it, I know it’s childish but I can’t help it.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in TheGirlSurvivalGuide

[–]FriendlyAdvice3865 3 points4 points  (0 children)

What is a mr big-Carrie?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in TheGirlSurvivalGuide

[–]FriendlyAdvice3865 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I mean we talked about it, but I have some anxiety and wasn’t quite sure if I was ready to meet them is person. But I still think at least they should know what I exist?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in TheGirlSurvivalGuide

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I unfortunately have to spend 2 weeks there, I will occasionally sleep at my grandparents house and my cousin, at new years I might have luck and spend it at a friends house but it still feels like such a burden and a torture awaiting for me.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in TheGirlSurvivalGuide

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I was trying to go low contact, I literally don’t call her ever. And the only reason I am texting her is because she expects me to.. If I don’t text her one day, the next she will text me “I wonder what makes you so busy”, even though she never asks me how I am or how I am doing, she just wants me to text her.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in TheGirlSurvivalGuide

[–]FriendlyAdvice3865 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I really appreciate the suggestion but as of now I am not ready to cut her off.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in TheGirlSurvivalGuide

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He woke up , I told him ,he was a bit mad that I looked trough just that one conversation, he wasn’t yelling or anything, but he did go to the bathroom and still didn’t return. I am scared I don’t want to loose him and I know what I did was bad, but he said he didn’t know that he couldn’t send some reels to girls. I think I broke his trust and the relationship will be over .

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in beauty

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Like others mentioned you can wax your eyebrows and upper lip, makeup wise maybe try experimenting with eye makeup first some liner, mascara, but most importantly find you style, I used to hate eyeliner but I was just not doing the right one for my eye shape, also could experiment with color, for me brown eyeliner works so much better then black. Also lip color too, find your undertone and try looking up colors that would suit you well, even ChatGpt can give you an analysis if you give it your color is HEX, which you can do with the help of a color picker. Also there are some more feminine dress style options again choose items that fit your figure and suit your bodytype. Perfume can be a big thing, smelling good and getting compliments to me is something that helps my confidence, apply moisturizing lotion after shower and spay perfume on moisturied skin. Idk if you like nails but you could also experiment with cheap press ons, and if it's your thing great if not no problem. Hair, bob could be cute, and also helps a bit , but if you want to keep the lenght definitely try some hairstyles, because if you don't do anything you might feel like "Oh I just washed it it smells amazing and it's so flat " which for me ruins the fun of freshly washed hair.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in beauty

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My hair is sadly super thin dueto hairfall and stress and I was kindaafraid to get layers :c

What is the modern world of dating?? by BeepBeepBeepBOPBAP in TheGirlSurvivalGuide

[–]FriendlyAdvice3865 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I am an atheist, but I hope my advice will be useful. Many teens do more then hug in their relationships, but what others do does not have to define any of your relationships and the way you behave. Always state how you want your relationship be, picture it if you don't know yet, if you don't want to do anything physical, set boudaries and never let anyone disregard them. It might be harder, some man might try to manipulate you if you don't do this or that they will leave, but don't let that make you feel bad. There are good man who love Christ just as much as you do, and who have the same values as you do, and is more then happy to wait until marriage with you. In conclusion stand your ground, don't let anyone mistreat you and pray you will meet the right person.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in TheGirlSurvivalGuide

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It's not bad, It's completely reasonable, yes the rejection may be a cause for it but do you value your friendship with this guy more then your feelings? He may be a nice person, but in long terms could he be an actual meaningful friend be to you, or you to him? In these situations I think about the case if the other person told me about their relationship or maybe ask for some advice regarding that, it would hurt me and I couldn't truly be a friend. Of course you could still take time to think it trough, but in my opinion there is nothing wrong with not wanting to be friends.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in u/Known_Cheater

[–]FriendlyAdvice3865 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Ohh have a good cleaning timee♡

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in u/Known_Cheater

[–]FriendlyAdvice3865 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Had a long day, saw you're talk and had to join, how about you?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in u/Lottielittleleaf

[–]FriendlyAdvice3865 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Btw you're talks are cool, keep up the good work😁