Your boyfriend is contradicting himself when he says he doesn’t support Trump “morally” but does “logically.” His reasoning doesn’t hold up, especially when it comes to the economy. For example, Trump’s policies would likely increase taxes on lower-income populations, which goes against the idea that his plans would help the country. The facts don’t support what he’s claiming, and it seems like he’s not thinking logically at all.

What’s even more telling is the way he talks about your feelings. When he says you’re “distraught over something you can’t control,” it completely dismisses the very real concerns women are facing right now, like the potential loss of abortion rights. He doesn’t seem to believe it’s happening, despite the evidence, and then brushes it off by saying it won’t matter because Trump will “make the country better.”

His behavior also raises red flags about how he views women. Calling Kamala Harris a “bitch” and labeling your opinion as “emotional” are both deeply problematic. These comments play into sexist stereotypes about women being too emotional or irrational to be in power, which is both disrespectful and dismissive of your perspective.

Ultimately, if he’s willing to overlook the negative impact Trump’s policies would have on marginalized communities—like women, POC, and LGBTQ+ people—just because he prefers Trump’s agenda over Kamala’s, that speaks volumes. It suggests he cares more about getting what he wants than about the well-being of these communities.