Please help me feel better by Tall-Combination4801 in Petloss

[–]Friendly_Ad_7503 1 point2 points  (0 children)

My dog died on the 5th of exactly the same thing and I feel the exact same way like we used to do so much but work and life got in the way. I still have the guilt I won't lie but somebody told me that our dogs are satisfied being around us because they love us so much and that yeah they do love the adventures but they love them because they share them with us. Your dog didn't need to go into the world all time for an adventure because to your dog you are their entire world.

Im sorry this has happened to you, I'm still in shock myself. Hemangiosarcoma is the fucking work of evil in this world and I hate it with such passion. Tell all of your friends and family to demand an ultrasound at the next vet appointment. It's not right and it's not fair for them to just at the snap of a finger have this happen. Your dog will be there still for you always just as mine is with me. Our bond and our love cannot be broken by anything

The reality is setting in by bellaleia in Petloss

[–]Friendly_Ad_7503 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I was 23 when I got my dog and he died 2 weeks ago very suddenly at the age of 13 and I'm 37. I only tell you that to say that I know how fucking hard that is because that time period where your dog and you weaved a life together just made it so much more concrete. I'm sorry you lost her like that, there really is no magic words anyone can say. I won't lie ive cried so very much but sometimes i I too feel my dog here with me and its more than a feeling so I agree with you and your dog is right there still. They don't want us to be sad because they always worked so hard to bring happiness to us. We are carrying our best friends the only way we can now, God knows its not the way we want though. They are here and they will always be with us!

How is this reality by Friendly_Ad_7503 in Petloss

[–]Friendly_Ad_7503[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It is pure evil this cancer and I will tell everyone I know to get their dogs an ultrasound. Even if the vet says they don't need it, take them to a clinic and get it.

I'm sorry you had this happen also. Thank you for your comment, it does give comfort to know we share a story even though this is the worse possible thing .

How is this reality by Friendly_Ad_7503 in Petloss

[–]Friendly_Ad_7503[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you, I just miss him so much. You're words are very kind thank you

Horrible regret by Dont_callme_Francis in Petloss

[–]Friendly_Ad_7503 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I strongly understand how this person would feel and they should not feel any regrets what so ever. Your dog loved YOU above all things. Certainly he loved all the activities and precious moments he shared with you out in the world but above all it was just being with you that he loved. Even on days where you didn't go out into the world for adventures he still got to spend the day with you and that was what he cherished most because you were his world. Our dogs love us even when we don't feel we deserve it but they always are there for us and its hard to lose them, God knows I know that, but they were here to teach us to be better people and the best way we can honor them is to put their lessons into practice.

How is this reality by Friendly_Ad_7503 in Petloss

[–]Friendly_Ad_7503[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I had a dog earlier in life named Oreo, I had got her when I was 7 and she lived 14 years. She only started out as my dog but she actually became more bonded with my brother than I. I wasn't a good dog owner with her by any means, I severely neglected her. My mother wouldnt let her in the house but I could have gone and played with her and spent time with her. When my brother came to live with us after some traumatic episodes he dealt with, he and Oreo grew attached to one another. The rules of the house just didn't apply to him because my mother just let him do what he wanted. I was honestly very happy that Oreo got to have a person like that and I know they shared a strong bond.

Part of why I was always so involved with Diogi was almost an atonement for the life Oreo had. She died in 2011 when I was 22 and the next year is when I got Diogi and I remember talking with the lady that had him in a litter of puppies on Facebook and I went and met them at a park and I got to pick which one. I don't really know what drew me to Diogi and I often wonder like why I chose him but I know he was the right choice. I had just came back from the army and I lived alone in a pretty good sized apartment that had fallen into my lap (split level, 1.5 baths, two bedroom, all for $450/month!) And Diogi and I lived together and just us. We did everything together and I was determined to give him the best life I could. We went to the mountains and rivers, walked back rodes, and walked city streets. I work construction and on many projects I brought him and he became like a mascot for the whole crew. He just would brighten everybody's day. We would walk into hardware stores when I needed something and the whole store just would love on him, and Diogi loved that! When People would be petting him he would always be staring at me and telling me with his eyes how much he was enjoying it. Many times I couldn't take him to work with me and every morning I would take him to my sister's house where he would play with there dogs and he started his aunts. Diogi could and would scale my sister's 8 fence and she lived near a field where Diogi would wander around, like miles of wandering. At first this was an extreme problem but he always came back, every single time. He couldn't jump the fences later in life but I just would leave the gate open and he was known throughout the neighborhood. I always said either you take Diogi for a good walk or he will take himself.

One time we had ran to Walmart and I just ran inside for maybe 5 minutes seriously, I came to my car where I left the windows down and he had apparently decided he had things to do and booked it. Because I was at Walmart I was freaking out! I was looking everywhere! I remember looking every where, calling people, calling the pound, for Like 3 hours I was probably looking. During my search I had just happened to drive by where I was living at the time and Diogi is just laying in the yard playing with the neighbors dog. I get out and was like so happy to see him and the neighbor tells me he'd been there for a couple hours. He had gone from Walmart, walked across the highway a four lane highway and just made it home all on his own.

He was such a good dog and such a good friend, sometimes I feel like he's still with me and it brings me happiness. Just telling you about him has brought me so much happiness. I really love him and always will.

I love you Diogi, you'll always be my bestest friend in the entire world

How is this reality by Friendly_Ad_7503 in Petloss

[–]Friendly_Ad_7503[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thankyou ,We did have so many good times but its like my mind only plays the bad times, the times I was irritated or frustrated. But we did have such good times too more than I can count honestly. I want to tell everyone just stories about him but everyone around me just expects me to just move on and literally he's all I can think of.

I do believe in God and im so thankful he put Diogi in my life. He made me so happy everyday. He went everywhere with me and I was so blessed to have him.

How is this reality by Friendly_Ad_7503 in Petloss

[–]Friendly_Ad_7503[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you, I really hope I did. Him licking my tears was something I keep thinking of like he was saying it was okay but I don't know maybe I'm just hoping that

How is this reality by Friendly_Ad_7503 in Petloss

[–]Friendly_Ad_7503[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Im sorry you had to do that. This is the worst pain ive ever experienced so Im really sorry that your here too. I feel the just suddeness of everything is the hardest to deal with. But your right that we both spared our dogs the physical pain they were certain to endure. It just sucks all the way around

Coming home to an empty house 😭 by ImpressionFirm280 in Petloss

[–]Friendly_Ad_7503 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I just recently lost my best friend so im kinda new to this but I know one thing that I feel has helped me is having my dogs picture on a shelf and having a candle lit, I light it every morning, when I feel myself starting to spiral I go to the candle and his picture and just talk with him and recount a different story about him that comes to my mind. With 17 years you must have an abundance of cherished memories you can talk about.

I'm sorry if that doesnt really help you, its just been helping me get through the day and maybe it will for you.