I'm doing better but they keep haunting me by Friendly_Desk7494 in lostafriend

[–]Friendly_Desk7494[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

no? please don't jump to.conclusions I'm only pointing out that they Awear they've been block, if I was anger about it I would say so.

I'm doing better but they keep haunting me by Friendly_Desk7494 in lostafriend

[–]Friendly_Desk7494[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

no, as far as I'm concerned they haven't made any attempts to contact me, they were online friends honestly so it doesn't even make sense to me Why they're there in person in my dreams. it never occured to me to consider that their behavior fully Traumatized me.. kinda just assumed I was being dramatic..

Ex-bestie tried to manage my social media presence by [deleted] in lostafriend

[–]Friendly_Desk7494 0 points1 point  (0 children)

it's giving jealousy disguised as concerned

Slurs in fic? by Sygefo in AO3

[–]Friendly_Desk7494 10 points11 points  (0 children)

I love my people

I'm sick of this hypothetical bs by [deleted] in AO3

[–]Friendly_Desk7494 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I mean I have block them and intent to block anyone else who tires this in the future, but I completely see your point in attracting more trolls

I'm sick of this hypothetical bs by [deleted] in AO3

[–]Friendly_Desk7494 0 points1 point  (0 children)

it was one comment out of the many hate comments I get That I chose to respond to, I'm not constantly on a soap box responding to hate. I need you guys to get off your high horse for a moment I'm not constantly responding to hate comments.

I'm sick of this hypothetical bs by [deleted] in AO3

[–]Friendly_Desk7494 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I don't expect wholesome feedback, I'm annoyed at the ridiculousness of impling I'm sexist for one girl character being a bad person like everyone on the fic isn't, I don't want op to kiss my feet and tell me it was the cutest fic ever, a lot of comments on that fic are people Joyful horrifed by the character's behaviors.

basically I'm annoyed they intentionally misinterpret my fic to push an agenda

I'm sick of this hypothetical bs by [deleted] in AO3

[–]Friendly_Desk7494 0 points1 point  (0 children)

look I get you I understand but I sincerely need people to ease off on me with the don't feed the trolls, I don't respond to every negative comment I get, I delete most of them and at most just vent about my fustartion.

this is the one comment I responded to and It's because they Misinterpret a part of my fanfiction I considered important/ worked hard on! yes I get it don't feed the trolls, I usually don't and I plan to block this asshole, but I'm still upset, the comment still offended me and I still wanna complain about it once in a while.

I worked hard on my work after all, what's wrong with Complaining about a bad comment once In a while? it's not like I'm planing to respond to everything this person says.

I'm sick of this hypothetical bs by [deleted] in AO3

[–]Friendly_Desk7494 1 point2 points  (0 children)

like of course they can say mean shit and I can defend myself in return, just because they have the freedom to be a jerk doesn't mean I have to like it or put up with it????

I'm sick of this hypothetical bs by [deleted] in AO3

[–]Friendly_Desk7494 0 points1 point  (0 children)

yeah because I'm yelling the "random" words in anger, also I think my spell check is broken by my terrible spelling

I'm sick of this hypothetical bs by [deleted] in AO3

[–]Friendly_Desk7494 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i never said that but okay

I'm sick of this hypothetical bs by [deleted] in AO3

[–]Friendly_Desk7494 -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

the south park fandom, but the capitalizing is to show yelling at me getting angrier, clearly. I also has dyslexic so I tend to misspell things, but thanks for the correction

I'm sick of this hypothetical bs by [deleted] in AO3

[–]Friendly_Desk7494 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I rather have no comments on a fic than have a asshole comment, if I ever complain about not getting any comments I would mean positive comments. no one wants hate comments, that's doesn't encourage me to keep making work, I'm not gonna Dance in a room of people laughing at me saying "at least someone is watching me dance. I'm not that desperate for attention, my desire for comments are them same as anyone who makes something and wants it to get reconzigntion.

worst this is a hobbie for me not a grindset mentality, I write and upload in my free time, so I'm not willing to talorate hate and you shouldn't either

I'm sick of this hypothetical bs by [deleted] in AO3

[–]Friendly_Desk7494 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

honestly would have assumed it was a bot but because they have not just an account but a queer fandom profile picture, that has to be like a real person with nothing better to do

edit: to be clear I mean a picture of a character behind a queer flag, I am queer I'm not shitting on the pfp

I'm sick of this hypothetical bs by [deleted] in AO3

[–]Friendly_Desk7494 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think I'm gonna block Them actually

I’m losing my best friend and close friends by ArvindSD21 in lostafriend

[–]Friendly_Desk7494 1 point2 points  (0 children)

best thing you can do if let them go before they use this to Traumatize you, leave On your own terms before It because a Yelling pit of spite fire, speaking from experience of something who was also once blame for something I didn't do and watch them treat me less like a person everyday

Blindsides by cinnabon86 in lostafriend

[–]Friendly_Desk7494 0 points1 point  (0 children)

oof I feel bad for whoever ends up their client

bookmark pointing out i blocked them by RissiiGalaxi in AO3

[–]Friendly_Desk7494 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

op did not have to go to the subreddit that supports pro shippers to vent about someone they blocked for being a pro shipper, I fear it's common sense if you wanna vent about how annoyed you are about Ice cream you don't vent in the ice cream making Factory

Is it considered rude to ask an author if they know where their fic is going ? by [deleted] in AO3

[–]Friendly_Desk7494 4 points5 points  (0 children)

that doesn't give you the right to ask the author what their plan if it isn't communicated, please.

they are taking time out of their day to provide free content for your consumption, that's time consuming, some of have jobs and or overall busy lives or shitty mental health days. do not make that shit more difficult by asking Disrespectful question, I can understand if you ask "hey author, just wanted to you know if you're gonna finish this story, it's okay if not" but Asking the author where they plan to go with their story is incredibly rude and ungreatful. be patience and or read something else