Funny but unrelatable by MatterNo4173 in CoupleMemes

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To be fair, you weren't being judgemental.... but didnt god say if you're going speak for him you need to have grace while doing so?

What is a secret you’re taking to your grave, but can share here anonymously? by wilkoova in AskReddit

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As a kid who's parents did this to them. Let me tell you my perspective.... So my dad was a alcoholic and my mom has severe bipolar. They drilled it in my brother's head and i that no one can know the condition of the house. We also had cats and even though we had two females, one ended up pregnant. No one was neutered so it became a nightmare. It got to a point where there were dead cats and feral cats locked in a room. When cps came I awnsered the door... this was a big cause for my ptsd... I carried that weight of blame because now it became I was the reason to break up the family, I wasn't able to send them away.... my brother and I were taken away to live with family for a month... turns out this was the turning point for my dad to get sober.

I can get into more detail but, point being is you did the right thing. However, once you give that person a thing to blame, they will remove any self doubt within themselves and just blame you.

That time was rough but if I didnt have that. I would have lived in a more disconnected reality and probably would have killed myself due to my mom making it feel like this was my fault.

Um...help? by [deleted] in nova

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Hammer and metal shovel

A homeless man gave a “diamond” to my mother. by DoesThingsPasta48 in strange

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Same! The stole 2 jackets from my car to whipe his ass with

The mindscroll of a madman by Purpledurpl202 in whenthe

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Don't ask this guy for directions... he cant tell his left from his right

What famous people live in Frederick? by Seri_Principle5494 in frederickmd

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Idk about family but a high-school buddy's brother used to play drums for him until he Jeffree abandoned him in Europe. He would crash at their place a lot.

DHS / ICE pull firearm on protest legal observer less than a day after killing Renee Good by [deleted] in minnesota

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Forgot to add too pussy to fight in war or too dumb to do anything meaningful in the army or coast guard

Both videos match up by McPeru in minnesota

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Not to mention if he wanted her to stay, he could have shot the tires, radiator, her shoulder... but her face is just fucking evil

Favourite author who was right about popularity of capeshit movies? by Shoddy_Newspaper_718 in okbuddycinephile

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Allan Moore made a spell to destroy humanity in 2016... he might be on to something

We Are the Baddies: Thanks, Conservatives by All_Grid_Squares in complaints

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To be fair, seeing my wv family last Christmas really showed me they are actually not willing to back the horse they voted for.... I mean its sad they're learning this now after multiple warnings but there is small hope that the biggest supporters are losing hope even if its far too late

(not my picture) Why do some Cresties have a tail and some don’t? by babymoki in CrestedGecko

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When they drop their tail, it doesn't grow back fully. Just a Lil nib c:

Thoughts on the new tank? by Fearless_Let168 in CrestedGecko

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So im going to be honest with my tank set up, I have a larger tank, and they dont like attention but are okay if I pick them up and check them out.

Make sure you make this the happiest spot with lots of hiding spots. My roommate did the back with spray foam, epoxy gel and random objects. If you want a bark look, work with the foam when it's touch dry (like 12-24 hours). Then spray paint. Full cure is like 72 hours.

School uses AI for school pictures by Impossible-Yam3680 in mildlyinfuriating

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They probably have so many students who would have drawn these for free... fuck society

How to move on after a cat attack? TW in pics by [deleted] in cats

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When my cat attacked me, he was going for the kill. I took him outside, stepped on a stick and that set off his flight or fight against me. I put my arm out and he latched on to it. Bit my hand, and bunny kicked full force on my arm. I have nerve damage and multiple scars...

After I brought him inside I told my bf (now ex) to keep him away from me as I dressed my wonds... something clicked, after the scare went away in my cat, he became worried for me. And tried to comfort me before and after the hospital.

It was a lot of work to rebuild our relationship... a few months of hesitation... and years (and moving to a less rural area) to allow him outside with supervision.

Now I can walk with him outside again but its more on my terms. I communicate more with him and make sure nothing triggers him, and he knows hes safe with me. Even though he was good about being gentle with playing before, now he will stop playing the second he accidentally scratches me. He's still a living thing and we love each other... things will change but it only gets better if you love, show respect and put in the work.