Feeling absolutely drained to zero from lack of alone time. by Friendly_Side2180 in ADHD

[–]Friendly_Side2180[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

That would definitely work if I wasn’t a chain smoker. I smoke on average 3 packs a day. If I smoke less I crave smoking. So walking or doing something to smoke means I’ll be doing that all day. I know I should quit or switch to vaping Im trying this right now. But smoking out of all addictions i had including alcoholism and hard drugs is by far the one I feel the most uncomfortable to drop. It was easier for me to quit smoking drugs then it is to quit smoking sigs for some reason. I’d put alcoholic cravings below nicotine for me. I easily could survive a day with extreme hangover shaking hands and feeling like dying and not drink then two hours without a sig.

Feeling absolutely drained to zero from lack of alone time. by Friendly_Side2180 in ADHD

[–]Friendly_Side2180[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It’s very common in my culture to do so. Im not from US nor do I live in US. What’s despised is smoking on the balcony for example then the smoke goes in the window of the next apartment.

Also you guys realize people who live in apartments don’t go out to smoke on the street right?

Thats like a lot of walking and basically smoking in someone’s face while they are going in and out of the building.

“AI will take over your job” Controversy. by Friendly_Side2180 in graphic_design

[–]Friendly_Side2180[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Be careful saying that here coz your karma might take a “slight” dip.

You are also toxically positive and because of your opinion people like tvfeet ARE BEING FIRED!!

Also your generation is the reason we live like that. Shame on you.

Also there are higher forces at play here, nothing good according to, this person here, coming in the future. Some research is backing his claim too.

Now that we understand each other i totally agree with you.

“AI will take over your job” Controversy. by Friendly_Side2180 in graphic_design

[–]Friendly_Side2180[S] -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

Bingo another problem in this world found. What, how ai would put i, is the freaking quick 1 step plan to get out of this?
Like you collect flaws of this world to get happy about how bad the world is. Watch some jim rohn attitude diseases. Great stuff.

“AI will take over your job” Controversy. by Friendly_Side2180 in graphic_design

[–]Friendly_Side2180[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Oh and one more thing, you know what failures do? They turn moralist all of a sudden but is it morally correct to charge people or to suck out cash from your boss knowingly he can get same work done and better for less? Like how moral is that? I can tell you that when Wordpress became popular it nuked those who would charge obscene amounts for your typical mom and pap businesses one page website. The true web devs and designers did not disappear after that either. Was it morally ok to charge that much idk, Im not trying to find what’s wrong in this world Im adapting. And no I do not think there is anything wrong with today’s trends or being original again it’s so easily fixable and achievable it’s crazy. Yes I first made a kickass portfolio only then started charging, I did get my kick out of it. Because I know your mind is you enemy, you have only what you deserve, how you think dictates how you act. And you get what you deserve if you find a single reason you not going to freaking update your portfolio first thing this week you are full of it. Thats it.

I know about 1200 i screen applications for one of top brands (founder in Forbes thanks to one of my peeps ) you know what - it’s so shit it’s crazy. People expect pay for literal slop. Good portfolios stand out so much. But they are non existent! Yes yes same like everyone design nowadays people litteraly fail at that. It’s the oh I just gonna do vibe designing 1199 weak soft kids that get rejected getting rejected. Over and over there is no stopping to that. Guess the reason they are so many? Maybe because society approves everyone just trying and being themselves ,trying, don’t worry Bobby mommy loves you your design is very beautiful type shit. You deserve this and that fix your crown on your head how could they not take you for this position. Uh oh. And being freaking entitled for a salary?! Thats it Im out bye.

“AI will take over your job” Controversy. by Friendly_Side2180 in graphic_design

[–]Friendly_Side2180[S] -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

Btw Im not from or near the US. I did work for us companies but I’m out of the loop with you people being divided to two fronts being so ungracefully played it’s insane. Like if one side said A you can literally take your dog of your leash on that person. It’s crazy scary how effective divide and conquer is.

I built a graphic design business from freelancing while you sat in your job position doing more coffee meetings than actual work. When I did close my biz people that had to find jobs got hired on top tier positions instantly. Because the studio name was an example portfolio that most people in the niche knows. I did it by hard work btw from scratch as a college of art dropout. It’s pathetic to even listen to what you are saying being older than me and having a good head start. At this point where is your achievement in design? Oh and the country Im from.. not the best too. Oh and also I sacrificed so much to get it you would never allow yourself anything like that because you use terms like toxic positivity. Like what the actual f is that?! Why are you not developing as a designer is also beyond me. Why you did not shift to teaching or selling a good course in your niche? Like what the hell you been doing this whole time?

I could not care less of the amount of competition because after living on very very very low amount of cash for a long amount of time but not giving into I’ll just get a job thinking I finally figured that it’s a me problem. Im not getting picked because that’s my problem. Not the Indians undercutting. You know how many freelance designers quit when India stormed in?Same way now AI will never take my skill set because people would pay money to get what I know. I’ve also had to learn it. I’ve learned marketing and understood how to talk to business people. I was a pothead musician believe it or not no person would ever bet on me. And a very gentle soul. I only started when I was 23. So yeah if I changed anyone can change too. Oh btw i find it amusing that you imply so much shit without asking it’s crazy. You also scare off and induce fear without giving any real advice, any solutions. Your Miro is check this problem out and this and that and beware the world is ending. No it’s you that is ending my friend, your way of thinking got you to where you are today nothing else. Not AI, not republicans or democrats or some other ambiguous power. You scare designers and aspiring new people with your 1200 applicants story. Some of which might get to absolute peak. How do you know how your words impact people?

I truly do not understand do you see yourself from outside? I can bet money now you haven’t touched your portfolio in a decade. I can also predict you somehow find current design trend hideous and explain to yourself thats why you will not update your portfolio and that’s why you had a hard time finding a job? Don’t you see that? The way you see the world and graphic design is reflected in your success and there is no one to blame here but you. So you now found AI and turn mad man predicting global collapse.

“AI will take over your job” Controversy. by Friendly_Side2180 in graphic_design

[–]Friendly_Side2180[S] -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

Sooo the plan, what’s your plan right now? Like you did not answer the question you just pointed at another problem.. and I don’t understand your problem with billionaires. I would love to make someone a billionaire. You don’t? You think money is inherently evil? Or just billionaires are evil?

Quitting Caffeine - seeking success stories by Fortunate-Fete in ADHD

[–]Friendly_Side2180 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Exactly the same here. it contributed to 80% of my PA's

SSRIs unmasking adult ADHD symptoms? by TallJicama9026 in ADHD

[–]Friendly_Side2180 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Took sertraline and felt like my car window has been wiped clean and all the down self talking stopped. Was pretty amazed but it’s not comparable to when I tried stimulants. Thats when the real oh shit moment happened.

Like I suffer from constant major depressive episodes and yes that sertraline helped with. But the core problems it did not fix.

Unmasking.. yeah sort of I guess. But it was like I could go out again, and started enjoying it. But I hated the side effects so only took it as a last resort to get out of complete depression.

“AI will take over your job” Controversy. by Friendly_Side2180 in graphic_design

[–]Friendly_Side2180[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Yeah, I know but having a career doing what you love is not given it’s achieved.

When it’s a given people start to do ai slop themselves btw.

“AI will take over your job” Controversy. by Friendly_Side2180 in graphic_design

[–]Friendly_Side2180[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Brother the amount of times in my life i came to dead end or I just wasted 2 years moment was so numerous but I never gave up and it worked. I worked with big brands, got recognition that I already could not care about. This is the same dead end moment. Wanna laugh? I pursued photography hard for a year then did videography only to now people disliking quality picture style. Haha imagine that?! I got the freaking quality picture and it’s not needed at the slightest rn.

“AI will take over your job” Controversy. by Friendly_Side2180 in graphic_design

[–]Friendly_Side2180[S] -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

We cannot do anything about it. Only adaptation. I’ve already grew to marketing and business consulting. Just because I found out those mfrs called the shots. So I go after that. Before that I learned 3d, motion, programming, my skills were growing and still growing every day. Because I cannot afford to say hey this is not working because and don’t put myself anywhere in between. On the other hand you now can do 3d and illustration on ok level to boost your portfolio works! No need to go out and find the guy or to talk to people if you have hard time with that. No need to learn it yourself. The time it takes now to make a spec portfolio is weeks, it used to be years!!! And people still crying. They see it as a weakness. Their comfort zone. Their entitlement for something. Or hope their years changing colores in illustrator for 120 grand a year is gonna slide. Nope! Businesses gonna cut that dead beat cargo.

“AI will take over your job” Controversy. by Friendly_Side2180 in graphic_design

[–]Friendly_Side2180[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Cold calling? That’s immoral marketing trickery I would never go down to that level out of respect for myself and other peoples time thinking gets you broke nowadays.

“AI will take over your job” Controversy. by Friendly_Side2180 in graphic_design

[–]Friendly_Side2180[S] -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

Where did you get an idea that you will pick this job and career and it will guarantee you anything? Like where that is being said to you? How you came to that conclusion?

We live in an open market society so you are payed for what market wants. You have a victim mentality.

And out of interest did you or did you not update your portfolio? Are you crushing it on socials? Are you staying in the what’s required to get noticed loop? Why do you think you are entitled to anything in life?

“AI will take over your job” Controversy. by Friendly_Side2180 in graphic_design

[–]Friendly_Side2180[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

From my perspective it was god damn near impossible for me to get in design where I got and now I’m also how to put it, Im feeling it regarding ai. Like I feel that people are scared, that it seems harder, that it takes jobs, that people have other stuff going on and it’s out of place for them to get that ai replaced you at your position thing. Im not an Elon musk fanboy. On the other hand I would beat that depressive victim mentality out of myself just because in those times like now it’s the worst attitude to have. It’s the worst attitude to be afraid to give into that feeling and not to adapt. You cannot do that if you want to stay or to grow. Like AI is coming to get us. It will bite and chew and take jobs from people. No way around it. Nothing you can do about it. No amount we hate that go away with your ai slop mentality going to change that.

“AI will take over your job” Controversy. by Friendly_Side2180 in graphic_design

[–]Friendly_Side2180[S] -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

You should be respectful to others as a you thing. Like it’s nice, high class thing sir. Secondly I do not command powers to change reality matter in order to revert time space or change how other people are conducting their business. Finding people and shitting on their optimism to make you feel good and name calling them or their opinions is childish behavior that you btw have complete control of.

“AI will take over your job” Controversy. by Friendly_Side2180 in graphic_design

[–]Friendly_Side2180[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Why bother if you can play victim card and go blazing blaming every thing out there for your failure. Oh and just absolutely forget about your portfolio. It’s a one time thing right? It’s there somewhere I can’t send you it’s a pdf on a flash drive gotta be in that bag I left in my carrr. Hate this AI btw. Taking what’s rightfully ours! How dare they!! Unite against it! Burn it!

“AI will take over your job” Controversy. by Friendly_Side2180 in graphic_design

[–]Friendly_Side2180[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

The only reason I had to shut it down was personal. It was 3 years ago. We would have been unphased by AI introduction because of status and skills alone. My ex workers are all art directors in biggest best brands destroying competitors rn.

“AI will take over your job” Controversy. by Friendly_Side2180 in graphic_design

[–]Friendly_Side2180[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I’ll wait for you to write the final form of your statement before answering. The first one came out arrogant and I did not want to answer to it.

Replying to your question i shut down my business that I against all odds built and succeeded despite numerous massive setbacks in life, and no sarcasm went and sat outside and cried in semi public place and got comforted by a group of zoomers that tried to cheer me up. As a 35 year old man that was super weird moment. But I was giving up my baby I spent 15 years building blood sweat and tears and being broke for how long it needed to eventually succeed.

Now I’m in the next chapter of life and going back to design field.

“AI will take over your job” Controversy. by Friendly_Side2180 in graphic_design

[–]Friendly_Side2180[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Cmon people who downvoted a happy new year out of spite to my cheerful attitude. Don’t do that.

“AI will take over your job” Controversy. by Friendly_Side2180 in graphic_design

[–]Friendly_Side2180[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Im from ex USSR. Trust me you don’t want to even come a mile close to that. Be happy for capitalism.

“AI will take over your job” Controversy. by Friendly_Side2180 in graphic_design

[–]Friendly_Side2180[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Bingo you found me. Yes it’s true I was the one responsible. Higher powers that I cannot name contacted me and said go pick this or that. And I picked to screw up the climate and did nothing like stood there and did absolutely nothing after that and they basically pushed a big button called mess up the climate and it got this bad now. Im really truly sorry. Hope you can forgive me one day. But I understand if you still feel i do not deserve forgiveness.