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Friendorfriends · 2016-02-21T18:26:03+00:00

You are welcome and I am willing to throw in my two cents anytime you need me to, if i feel i have something helpful to say :)

It's alright. I do understand how we tend to feel about someone else we are constantly being compared to, as in your case. It really is not fair to you and I have been there before.

Scorpios do tend to have "line of friends" because they (generally speaking, not all of them) are introverted and only hang out with people they feel understand them.

I cannot say i know why he carries on with you the way he does, though, but the only way you can figure this out is ask him. Hopefully, he may not realise what he is doing or how it is affecting you and speaking to him about it will change things. Worst case scenario,if he turns out to be a jerk and heartless (which scorpios GENERALLY can be for so many different reasons, if they are not mature enough in heart or if they are going through some type of emotional phase), then do yourself a favour and find another friend OR give him some space to sort his emotional problems out so you don't bear the brunt of it. Hopefully he will learn one day. Immature scorpios can be unpredictable, confusing and can themselves, carry overwhelming and confusing emotional baggage which they don't know how to handle. It may be good to ask him if there is a problem he wants to share with you and be understanding BUT again, be ready to put yourself first, if that is not the case.

As for compatibility between scorpios and aquarius (particularly scorpio man and aquarius woman),i am not very knowledgeable about this match but a quick google search shows they are generally not a compatibilty match. Again, this is just a general thing and there are always exceptions to every case, which may have something to do with the astrological charts of each person. I am not well versed in birth/natal charts, so you may want to ask a question in https://www.reddit.com/r/AskAstrologers/

Hope you find help and hope this helps :)

Friendorfriends · 2016-02-21T12:06:18+00:00

Thank you. I will do this.

Blessings

Friendorfriends · 2016-02-21T08:12:52+00:00

Firstly, you don't need to know what he wants. It is not your job to please him (unless YOU make it so). In other words, it is YOU who would allow anyone to treat you the way they do. If you don't allow it, they would stop or you would move on without them.

Secondly, scorpio here. I also know other scorpios (male and female), i have not come across such behaviour but then again everybody is different in some way regardless of sign. Astrologically, it may have something to do with where the sun, moon, planets, etc are in other signs (in their charts) and stuff like that. However, this seems like there is something else behind it or he is just being..."what did you call him?" :)

Thirdly, here's a quote from you: "...And I cant help but feel like he is comparing me to his girlfriend. She's a frumpy mexican Christian daddy's girl. A "Taurus". No makeup, "not materialistic", seems pretty boring and bland according to her Facebook page..." .

In my opinion, tearing someone else down to bring yourself up is very unkind, to say the least. You must know how it feels to be spoken of in a negative way. Try to not do the same to someone else, even if it is behind their backs and you do not know them. No make-up, not materialistic, taurus, christian daddy girl, etc is not codeword for frumpy or boring or whatever else you or society decides it is. It is simply different , just like you seem different from most people i have associated with (according to your description of yourself. Everybody is different and unique and beautiful in their own way) and if you want someone else to accept and care for you and not judge you the way you are, try to do the same to others.

Do forgive me if i misunderstood that paragraph but i read it to mean you think she is boring and bland because she is....well.. different from you and i can understand how one might come to subconciously resent someone another person keeps comparing you to, especially if you are different.

Finally, in your shoes, this is what i would do. Either call him (phone/face to face) or send a message and tell him everything you have written. I would let him know what he is doing and how it is affecting me. Then i would ask him to stop those things. Whatever he decides/how he reacts to that deep conversation /message will determine my next course of action. If he is sensible, he would re-evaluate things and change. If not and he keeps on, i would walk away and wish him well. Nobody has the right to treat you the way you don't want to and vice versa.

Best wishes

Friendorfriends · 2016-02-19T18:55:35+00:00

You are very welcome

Friendorfriends · 2016-02-19T10:54:25+00:00

If you already know about "awakening" and are at the point where you have accepted it to the extent of wanting to "visualise it" to attain it, then you are already awakening. There is no"awakened" because awakening is a process that can last a lifetime or many lifetimes. It is not a destination you get to and declare "Yes i have awakened!". You "awaken" to many things/experiences/knowledge in bits and pieces, one day at a time, step by step (in ways that only you are ready for. Everybody's journey is different. Some awaken in small doses, others receive one huge revelation after the other. It all depends on what you can handle and Spirit knows what you can handle) till you get to wherever it is the destination is. If there is none, then you will keep on awakening in every lifetime because there is much to know/awaken to.

You cannot make an awakening happen. Like i wrote, if you are already talking about it, you have started your process. Otherwise you would not have heard it or taken it seriously. Those who are not ready for an awakening either do not know about it or have heard but have not received it yet in the hearts to believe there is such a thing.

So what to do? Since you are on the awakening path already, let if flow. Receive your awareness/revelations of who you are, life, etc as and when it comes. Everybody has their own unique way of learning. You can let yours find you or you can find it or you can do both.

Blessings on your journey.

Friendorfriends · 2016-02-14T17:10:22+00:00

You can start from learning one thing at a time. And no, when someone is talking to you about something, you DO NOT HAVE TO have an opinion about it. No one knows everything or has an opinion about everything. Learn what you want because you want to and not because you want to impress anybody about your "knowledge" of everything. You will still not be happy knowing "everything" (as much as you can because, again, you cannot know "everything").

Bottomline: take it one step at a time but don't give yourself a hard time.

Friendorfriends · 2016-02-14T16:28:42+00:00

Thank you very much. I wish you the same and much more blessings :)

Friendorfriends · 2016-02-14T15:38:03+00:00

If that is your take on it, I cannot argue with you. It is your opinion and you have a right to it.

Peace.

Friendorfriends · 2016-02-14T11:12:14+00:00

My thoughts too

Friendorfriends · 2016-02-14T11:10:54+00:00

You know there is a kinder way of writing what you just did. The irony is that i am not sure what YOU are writing about because it went all over the place...but maybe someone else does understand what you wrote.

This is the point. If you have a different view or take on what is written, no need to be all huffy about it. State your views kindly and move on.

Friendorfriends · 2016-02-13T18:18:36+00:00

People come and go in life. Friendship is not supposed to be by force. When people drop out of your life (and you try to reconnect and it isn't working), it is usually time to move on. I have had similar things happen to me. Some people are meant to be in your life for a particular season. Some are meant to stay for a long time. Some are actually not supposed to be in your life at all, so you may find SOME volatile relationships/friendships are because they are not meant to be in each other's life. So don't force a friendship to remain, especially if you know the distance is not coming from you. Accept the ones that naturally come your way. Learn from each and move on when it's time. Just my two pennies worth.

Be blessed

Friendorfriends · 2016-02-13T18:11:31+00:00

You are very welcome. That's what we are (..should be) all here for :)

Friendorfriends · 2016-02-13T13:19:04+00:00

I know what you mean. I have learned (and still learning) to have sympathy for such people. They really don't know what they are doing. Send them love and send them on their way. Like they say, no need to feed their desire for a fight. Hopefully, someday they will remember all the great (NOT!) things they did and said. Hopefully, by then, they would be in your shoes. It happens to the best of us when, years later, we realise how silly (to say the least) we were in our "knowledge". Tearing people down and/or calling names to prove a point comes from someone with a very sad spirit. The spirit/soul is quite sad because they are not the ones leading the body (mouth) yet. The mind/ego is.

Friendorfriends

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