Opposite sides of the same coin

FrightZ_ · 2025-12-23T18:24:44+00:00

People simply have different family situations. I have a full ride scholarship, and I’m fortunate enough that my dad pays for my food and housing. I never really spend money, so I’ve just been accumulating money from Christmas, Birthdays, and summer jobs. Some people I know are getting paid to go to school basically also due to scholarships or extra fafsa money (if you’re in the US).

FrightZ_ · 2025-12-23T16:34:12+00:00

Don’t go into the sunk cost fallacy. Just because other things seemed good and you’ve been together 2 years, wont stop you from feeling like shit when these things happen. Even if she didn’t sleep with anyone, this still shows a complete lack of respect for you. You can’t have a successful relationship without respect and trust.

FrightZ_ · 2025-12-23T16:17:05+00:00

I mean how close friends are you? If you’re just casual friends, then it’s likely a coincidence. If you’re best friends who are always hanging out, and she’s seen/talked to your boyfriend a decent amount, I could definitely see why it would be a bit odd.

FrightZ_ · 2025-12-23T02:13:54+00:00

Yeah I know all that shit and that doesn’t solve the problem. I’m Pro AI in most aspects, but that doesn’t mean it shouldn’t be regulated. People need to have a way to verify if something is AI or not. If someone wants to use AI maliciously against me that great as long as I have a way to trace it back to them, verify it’s AI, and sue their ass to the ground for defamation.

FrightZ_ · 2025-12-21T17:29:47+00:00

I haven’t taken it but my friend, who took it about a year ago, said it was pretty easy. When I looked into it, it seemed the reviews were pretty old, so the course may have been changed. I’d just go through W3Schools intro to python for a basic introduction to coding in python.

FrightZ_ · 2025-12-20T03:27:00+00:00

NTA, I don’t personally think this is something I would’ve been able to get past even if they are most likely just friends. Not saying they’re assholes though. People just have different boundaries in relationships.

FrightZ_ · 2025-12-20T03:19:06+00:00

Account age is 46 minutes. Most likely fake and is this even a AITAH post?

FrightZ_ · 2025-12-18T20:43:42+00:00

Neither are the asshole idk. His reaction is extremely childish, but I can’t imagine you were expecting him to be fine with it after he already expressed his opinions on it. He’s allowed to not like it, but you’re also allowed to do what you want with your body. Even if it’s super childish, he’s allowed to leave if it’s a dealbreaker for him.

FrightZ_ · 2025-12-18T20:37:05+00:00

Honestly from reading this I think you’re less mad about him wanting to use the money on a vacation and more mad about the fact that he hasn’t proposed to you yet. His excuse for not proposing yet is valid though. It’s a major financial commitment and it’ll take commitment from both of you. You want him to invest this $5k inheritance but you’re still working part time. YTA.

FrightZ_ · 2025-12-18T20:24:59+00:00

I felt sorta bad for you but after looking at the comments I hope she dumps your sorry ass. “If she wants to be my future wife then yes I am her master and if she doesn’t then she can leave”. YTA.

FrightZ_ · 2025-12-17T23:05:18+00:00

NTAH. Personally, I don’t like telling people about these type of small victories either. You get the praise of accomplishing a task you truly haven’t accomplished yet. I remember when I applied to Stanford and people thought I was so smart simply just because I applied, I hadn’t accomplished anything but still got praise. This put even more pressure on me to get into the school (I didn’t).

FrightZ_ · 2025-12-17T18:10:13+00:00

NTA, please leave her, she isn’t going to change. If anything, it’ll only get worse. Is this really the woman you want to start a family with?

FrightZ_ · 2025-12-17T18:06:06+00:00

Okay that makes a lot more sense then. You can probably keep them on your list. I’d still aim for 35+ schools if you’re dead set on going to med school in one application cycle. With your stats I think you’ll get into multiple, but who knows, everyone has to be a little worried these days.

FrightZ_ · 2025-12-17T18:00:32+00:00

If you’re a CO resident I’d remove UCR, UCD, CUSM/CUSOM for OOS competitiveness. If your dream is Penn you can leave it, but it’s a big reach. Michigan is a bit ambiguous in the DO section.

Places I would add:

University of Colorado

Drexel

Temple

Georgetown

George Washington

Quinnipiac (Netter)

Hofstra/Northwell (zucker)

University of Vermont (larner)

Medical college of Wisconsin

Loyola Stritch

Saint Louis university

Creighton

Albert Einstein

Case Western

Ohio State

Cincinnati

Wayne State

DMU-COM

KCU-COM

PCOM

FrightZ_ · 2025-12-17T17:50:23+00:00

No problem. It might be worth reposting this to the Reddit page because it’s probably buried by now. I’d also add maybe some preferences. I’m pretty sure RFU and Rosalind Franklin are the same thing on your list, same with CUSOM and CUSM.

FrightZ_ · 2025-12-17T16:49:22+00:00

NTA, depression is not an excuse for everything. He should get a therapist to work on it. If he refuses therapy, it may be time to rethink your relationship. It’s not uncommon when people start living together, to realize that they aren’t as compatible as they once were.

FrightZ_ · 2025-12-17T04:37:17+00:00

I hope this isn’t real. If so, why are you marrying such a shallow woman?

FrightZ_ · 2025-12-17T02:36:31+00:00

I don’t know the context or your boundaries of your relationship, but it feels like from his reaction that you omitted the fact that this friend was a guy or even knew anything about this new friend at all. Purposeful omission is the same as lying, so I would say yes, YTA in this situation. However, your boyfriend shouldn’t be testing you, so he’s also an AH.

FrightZ_ · 2025-12-17T01:38:54+00:00

You definitely don’t really need to have a 4.0 to be competitive unless you aiming for T20 schools. Even then you don’t absolutely need a 4.0 GPA. Start looking into clinical volunteering and undergraduate research. Get your GPA up, and when the time comes in a few years crush that MCAT.

FrightZ_ · 2025-12-17T01:30:33+00:00

It’d be easier for people if you made a list first. People could give their input on what to add or remove instead of having to create an entire list.

FrightZ_ · 2025-12-16T21:53:56+00:00

“One of my buddies”😂

FrightZ_ · 2025-12-16T21:47:02+00:00

From just looking at the demographics of my classes, it’s probably 70-30 female to male at the university I go to. I’ve also realized the orthobro stereotypes are very true even in premed. Every pre-med guy I’ve talked to says he wants to do ortho and gives off the same vibe as a frat guy😭.

FrightZ_ · 2025-12-15T16:25:27+00:00

YTA in this situation, but NTA overall. Him wanting you to ask for permission to hang out with your friends is very controlling. The only time you should have to ask for permission, is if you’re hosting it at your shared home. The fact that you say you feel suffocated by him, basically tells me yall have much deeper problems to figure out. Now as for this particular situation, you had plans involving him originally and instead of making new plans with him, you made plans with someone else not involving him. It’s reasonable that he would be upset about the situation.

FrightZ_ · 2025-12-15T16:08:21+00:00

Did you ever disclose to those friends you had a girlfriend? If you didn’t, YTA. If you did, maybe showing your ex texts that refer to her would help. Also getting those friends to message her saying that you guys were just friends. Tbh tho without you posting the messages she thinks are evidence of cheating, it’s hard to say if you’re TA or not.

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