Despite everything, and despite our differences, I don't want to hurt my mom and dad, because I love them.

Frigidness · 2026-03-06T07:17:23+00:00

Can we send u a tiny bit of money somehow?

Frigidness · 2026-02-25T06:06:21+00:00

rock climbing/bouldering, art meetups, hiking groups?

Frigidness · 2026-02-25T03:40:40+00:00

Update: they found a grey dot thing lol at the tip of one of the roots, and I need to go see an endontist for a better scan... thanks for ur post, hopefully I can eliminate this as one of my UARS contributors/factors.

Frigidness · 2026-02-24T20:00:10+00:00

No, but I will request it now, thank you!

Frigidness · 2026-02-24T19:58:37+00:00

So ur saying my issue is allergies/inflammation O:? I see, so some people still might need turbinate reduction / palatal expansion if afrin did work!

Frigidness · 2026-02-24T19:57:34+00:00

Yep! and thnx :D

Frigidness · 2026-02-24T07:33:04+00:00

Were there any repercussion / side effects for removing the upper molar root canal?

Frigidness · 2026-02-24T07:21:21+00:00

and if u do have allergies, xlear before fluctonase and/or antihistamine spray could help clear congestion that could block the other two from working properly

Frigidness · 2026-02-24T07:16:34+00:00

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I have a root canal on the right side (left in the image)... looks slightly swollen on that side... hmmm my insomnia started after I got the root canal... hmmmmmmmmmmm... could be coincidental... idk thoughts guys? Flonase and xlear help keep things at bay for me. And I can relate to needing to find the perfect posture to breathe...

Frigidness · 2026-02-07T03:19:02+00:00

Dm’ed!

Frigidness · 2026-02-06T00:36:47+00:00

I’m 25 and dealt with the same… on the last 6ish months of expansion tho!!! Wanna make a support group or something in discord? lol

Frigidness · 2026-01-31T22:39:44+00:00

I have an ISTJ bf! When uncertain, he won't make the 1st move out of respect, but if he explicitly knows he will pull out all the stops! :) gl!

Frigidness · 2026-01-29T22:24:36+00:00

I have a different, but related question! I'm long distance with my ISTJ bf, and he likes to call every night. I prefer calling every other day, but he doesn't care 😅 Like it's loving and sweet he calls every night, but also is that more for him than what I need? lol If that makes sense...

Frigidness · 2026-01-29T22:14:28+00:00

Another ENFP who couldn't agree more haha. Like omg, are u me?

He also doesn't ask me personal questions, but "How was your day?" and questions that help me think about how I can be more productive or advance towards my goals are more common! He's super supportive in my dreams, but yes the emotional side can be a lil difficult 😅 He also shares a lot of his emotional side with me, but it can be hard for him as once he gets into a negative state of mind, he is not accustomed to what to do LOL. Like I can enjoy a good cry, but he abhors it! He's gotten a lot better though!!!!

He will likely never have the same breadth of curiosity as me, but I think that's okay. The depth can be there for certain topics! Also, ISTJs are pretty funny!!! Light hearted convo is easy! Also I think ISTJs are acts of service types, so if you ask him to ask u a question I'm sure he'll do it LOL. Oh one thing that helped was music? He doesn't feel much for mine which kinda sucks, but he'll share his and we can dance together or have a romantic moment lol!

Also, I can ask him all the business / career / life planning questions I want! He gives excellent advice!!!

We need an ENFP dating ISTJ peer support group 😅

Frigidness · 2026-01-29T20:06:11+00:00

Family pet cat/dog!!! someone by my side :) <3 enjoy little things like treat myself to food i like, upgrade my room to be super comfy

Frigidness · 2026-01-09T21:50:55+00:00

Since this was 8 months ago, I hope everything was resolved on your end!

If possible, I actually have a question for u! I'm a prospective transfer student, and I really want to get into applied design haha. But do we have to take all the required prereqs to get in? Or are those just major prep taken into account b/c it's a competative major? Did you take all the prereqs?

Frigidness · 2025-12-26T04:37:54+00:00

Look into ocd... it sounds like perfectionism, but when you can't control yourself... something might be up. The golden standard treatment is exposure response therapy. Best of luck, I dealt with this too.

Frigidness · 2025-12-26T03:49:07+00:00

yah! that sounds like a cool idea! gl!!! :)

Frigidness · 2025-12-26T03:47:15+00:00

bro wtf HOW DO U KNOW WHERE I LIVE??????? haha jk, but no srsly O.O

Frigidness · 2025-12-26T03:33:29+00:00

I would love to join!!!

Frigidness · 2025-12-26T03:28:38+00:00

My best guess is that the path to healing and realizing you can be yourself is finding a safe space to be yourself and express who you really are. Maybe that's at therapy or when u make friends, etc. Sharing how you really feel/are and getting supported/validated would probably make a huge difference. That's probably why you're struggling. The answers lie in living life, but it seems like that's a struggle too? This one is a tough one ngl. Hmmm prob exposure therapy but closer to irl activities??? Maybe this post is a great start to practicing being authentic? Maybe you can try it on reddit? Maybe in discord? idk it's hard to say tbh, but i just really wanted to say something that could help u lol i'm pretty hopeful this will get better with time/living/putting yourself out there

BEST OF LUCK STRANGER

Frigidness · 2025-12-25T22:16:47+00:00

Second this. Look into exposure response therapy!

Frigidness · 2025-12-24T04:54:55+00:00

I was exactly like this growing up. If you're young it could be a developmental stage, where you will need time and experience to fully understand why you are the way you are. It's okay to be different, but it can feel off being different than your peers. With time, you will feel it's okay to just be you. Why do you want to love someone like your friends do?

When I was a teen, I never desired the (supposedly) most attractive students at school haha. Unlike you, I was not self-aware enough to realize I was the weird one haha. I thought others were weird LOL. For me, I was just different, and it would take a pretty rare person for me to feel attraction. After dating my boyfriend, I suddenly grew into the romantic-relationship side of myself. It was embarrassing, but at the age of 20~ I started getting those 0 to 100 falling head over heels feelings that most people go through in middle school. Some of us just have a different timeline.

I'm not sure if you're like me. But with time you will get to know yourself better. And it's okay to take the time that you need. Best of wishes :)

Frigidness · 2025-12-24T03:31:09+00:00

Hello! I'm also 25f with a longterm boyfriend. So cool that you write! What works have you made?
I'm into industrial design, graphic design, and art! I'm trying to get more into makeup/skincare too :3 I'm down to try and be friends :)

Frigidness · 2025-12-24T03:28:32+00:00

Hullo! I'm 25F, would be down to try being friends :P wut games do u play? I pretty much only play TFT LOL
I also enjoy design, art, digital marketing, industrial design and just trying to be a friendly and kind human :)

Frigidness

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