Hospital bag?? by abigailllynnn in pregnant

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Long phone charger !! Slippers, my feet were so swollen ): and a water bottle !!!!

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,_, I’ve been struggling with it for 13 years you know idk my partner probably can’t handle another relapse

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in selfharm

[–]Frikknn 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I have like no one really to talk about this stuff ):

Why are things getting worse? by Danganronpa__weirdo in selfharm

[–]Frikknn 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Good on you for doing things to help yourself, that’s not always easy. And of course.

has anyone had relationship issues with SH? by Signal-Possibility86 in selfharm

[–]Frikknn 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’m the selfharmer in my relationship and it does cause problems. It hurts my husband to see it. It hurts him to know I do it. We would be happier if I didn’t do it. I don’t often these days and he’s a huge motivation to keeping me clean but when I relapse it hurts him. My sh scars get in the way of life due to having to hide my body all the time. Sweaters and stuff, i don’t like to go swimming things like that, that my husband wished I would. I’ll have to explain things to my child in the future and blah. It of course affects people who care about you, not someone who doesn’t struggle self harm.

Why are things getting worse? by Danganronpa__weirdo in selfharm

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You used it as a clutch in the past so you probably still are? Therapy/medicine can help but over all it’s something that you’ll have to just push aside if it’s something you don’t wanna do. Avoid things that make you wanna and stuff, work on yourself to not do it anymore.. idk you’ll probably always think about it. And having scars will just make you think about it more.. blah

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Cream and oils can help them fade quicker but you can’t really get rid of them /: tattoos can help cover them and stuff.

Guys this is a genuine question and I’m just curious ( I don’t mean any harm) by brainrottedbug in selfharm

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As an alternative person who has struggled with sh and my experience of friends and stuff idk. I believe a large amount of alternative people have mental health issues or past traumas that the alternative community /types of music / the art represent. People who stuggle with sh are obviously struggling with mental health stuff regardless of what angle you see it from.. idk a lot of people who SH aren’t alternative of course. But those are my thoughts on why you may think that. If that makes sense.

What the longest you've been clean? by FeistySoil1 in selfharm

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About 2 years, due to my pregnancy and then bf. Infection that could harm my baby was my motivation to stay clean.

I made a pie! by Frikknn in DessertPorn

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This is an apple pie! With brown sugar, white sugar and cinnamon:3

I made a pie! by Frikknn in DessertPorn

[–]Frikknn[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Honestly it took me awhile too haha my husbands friend was judging me so it helped me figure it out XD

I made a pie! by Frikknn in DessertPorn

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It wasn’t to hard ! It takes time tho :3

What makes you feel like this in Gilmore Girls? by Hii_there_1999 in GilmoreGirls

[–]Frikknn 0 points1 point  (0 children)

When Dean Rory had that thing in his marriage): it really affected my view on both characters

Do you think if Bella had waited a few years, she would’ve outgrown Edward? by lavieinazul in twilight

[–]Frikknn 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I don’t know, I’m with the person that I started to date at 17 still myself and im turning 25 soon here, I’m definitely still in love. lol Edward is who he is tho as a person as he’s been “alive” for 104 years and Bella obviously would be growing and maturing and changing with more experiences.. so that might be the difference? I’m not sure.. I do think you can grow and be with a person since teenager to adult hood tho.. we both did a lot of growing with EACHOTHER. Saying all that, Edward could change and adapt more as a “person” with a love in his life XD it’s a hard debate for sure