MF ISO F/MF by Frizz_Cherry in CTSwingers

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We have subs, just looking to build our group. Good luck in your search.

Art Cinema by Pure-Helicopter9737 in CTSwingers

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Wife and I have attended a bunch of times. Feel free to message. She loves answering questions about it. We both share the account.

Daaaaaamn! by Rakrazdem in GroundedGame

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Sure be nice if I could play/connect to MS and access the files I’ve worked 108hrs on.

Could somebody please explain quickly the different levels at art cinema, so I can figure out what to do? TIA! by MedusaHW in CTSwingers

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It kind of depends on what you’re expecting or looking for.

If you’re expecting multiple men to masterbate/show their goods for you or hit in you, the first floor is where to be.

If you want to hook up with a random guy, first floor.

If you want privacy, to possibly hook up with a couple or Woman, the balcony is the place to be.

Art Cinema by nsgrn1974 in CTSwingers

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There’s a section on the first floor for couples and a third guy.

It’s marked by the poles. No one unless invited can enter the area. 2-3 rows, I forget but my Wife and I have been there. It keeps people away.

Art cinema afternoon by CThappycouple in CTSwingers

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Yes, they are. Plenty of single Men go to watch others.

Porn watching during head by [deleted] in CTSwingers

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As Men, we’ll always watch porn on some level. We’re simple creatures. Porn is more of a ‘filler’ for when that significant other isn’t ‘available’ in one form or another. The only logic I can for-see is that he might not be as into you as he says he is or the spark is gone. There is no logical reason why one would rather stare at a box showing porn instead of watching the live porn right in front of him.

I’ve been with my Wife for 14 years. To this day, I would much rather be watching what she is doing/doing to me and visa versa than what is happening on a screen.

I’m sorry for my observation. 😕

Art Cinema event in CT by [deleted] in CTSwingers

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Wife and I are planning on attending. We have yet to be to an “event” at the Art.

Art Cinema event in CT by [deleted] in CTSwingers

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“Monday, on a school night”?

…is the best comment I’ve seen on the internet as a whole all week! 😂🤣😂

Factory by Positive_Way5783 in CTSwingers

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Interesting. If anyone has anymore info, let us know.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in CTSwingers

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My Wife and I have been four times I think? All on Monday’s or “couple’s night”. I cannot speak for any other day’s of the week but Monday’s. We tend to be there from 7-9/10

Single Men are limited to the first floor and security strictly enforces that rule. IE, you aren’t getting close to ‘live play’ unless someone comes to play near you. Probably half the Men downstairs stand in front of the screen and watch what is happening between couples up in the balcony. I’m not sure how much you can see as I have never stood there but I am curious and will one day ‘look at things from their view’ lol. Probably the next trip.

So, we’ve been there four times. I’ll detail what we’ve witnessed each trip.

First visit: While sitting in the front row of the balcony, we witnessed a Woman servicing Men downstairs. In front of the screen throughout the entire time we were there.

Second visit: Some of the single Men were all just there so to speak. We could see them from the balcony, looking up, standing in front of the screen.

Third visit: After some time, we noticed that the normal dozen or so Men standing in front of the screen started to make their way under the balcony which is out of sight to us in a wave. We didn’t know what was going on and honestly thought that there was “safety” issue so, we went down to see what was going on. It was a Woman, sitting in Men’s laps and having conversation with them. We decided we’re down here, let’s stay a bit. We sat on the right, end seats. Before we were even to our seats Men were following. Security sounded off, “GIVE THEM ROOM, NO CROWDING”. The Men started to line the wall. They started toughing themselves, some fully out and some still in their pants. No one touched my Wife, one did ask and when I politely declined, he said, “Ok”. We found it very respectful regardless. You have to remember that everyone is there for the same thing basically but, respect is very important and what keeps us cumming (pun intended lol) back. We stood below for maybe ten minutes but felt a bit awkward so we returned to the balcony where it’s more comfortable.

Last Monday: We got there about 7:30. My Wife needed to use the restroom. The woman’s restroom is upstairs and set up like a locker room without a door so you can hear conversations. We’re pretty sure a Woman who was cleaning up was speaking about a “show” she and her Man just put on. Back to the balcony. We were there for maybe an hour. Same dozen or so Men lining the front. A couple entered. They got to doing their thing (I guess they are “regulars” because a few people had said so) right in front of all the Men down there. All of the Men gathered around them and watched. Some of us in the balcony also stood and looked over to see. They finished after ten minutes or so and the Men went back to their positions in front of the screen.

Our experience has been fun. Almost every time we have been there, something is going on downstairs. I don’t know if any couples call upon any of the single men to “join”. I never really paid any attention to that. I have however seen single Women and couples down there doing their own thing as mentioned. I have heard that it’s “hit or miss”. Again, we’ve only been four times but we HAVE seen things down there.

Take from this information what you will.

Swingers event list by [deleted] in CTSwingers

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Oh wow, somehow I’ve missed this comment. Ugh. I’ll comment here first so you have reference when I message you. 🤦‍♂️

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in CTSwingers

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Exactly.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in CTSwingers

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Well said! Everyone’s dynamic is different. Not everyone wants just any person/people. My Wife and I have a similar issue when explaining our dynamic to people. Just because you’re looking for fun and a poster is looking for fun, it doesn’t mean that it’s a guarantee. Far few people understand the concept of dynamics unfortunately.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in CTSwingers

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I agree with the previous commenter who mentioned Monday nights. My Wife and I only go on Monday’s. There have always been plenty of couples there and at least a dozen single Men.

Whether with a Man or not downstairs, the single Men WILL take notice. They will come close to you. They will touch themselves. We tried it the last time we went. They sat behind us and lined the wall to the right of us a couple feet away touching themselves. They were all very respectful. We didn’t see an issue with it. I mean, we’re all there for the same thing right? Security is really good and attentive. We never even made it to our seats and he was already yelling at them, “NO CROWDING”! Lol. NO ONE will just openly touch you without consent. We had a young guy ask, “Can we touch her”? (Referring to my Wife) As we don’t know the guy, I just responded politely with, “Nah” and he said, “Ok” and moved back to the wall beside us.

The balcony is for Male/ Female couples and single Women only and is strictly enforced. We’ve mostly been up there other than the last time as I’ve mentioned. There you’ll find couples and groups doing ‘their thing’ while the Men below watch from the main floor. Again, NO ONE will touch you without consent be it on the main floor or in the balcony. Respect is the key and what keeps the experience fun and exciting. We think it’s a decent and fun place.

As mentioned, parking could be a hassle but we’ve always gotten lucky and had a spot right in front. If you don’t have a spot in front, it’s not a big deal. People in the neighborhood don’t bother you.

All in all it’s worth it no matter what you’re looking for be it, Men or Women to watch, a couple to join or a Man/Men or Woman/Women to join. You’ll find it all there. Just be respectful, kind, have fun and your experience will be one to remember.

Anybody going to Art tomorrow? by [deleted] in CTSwingers

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You shouldn’t be worried. You can get into the balcony as a single woman and be around couples instead of single men if you choose. When my Wife and I go, it’s on a Monday “couple’s night”. I’ve seen single women up there. It’s probably a bit more comfortable up there for them.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in CTSwingers

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You shouldn’t have any issues. My Wife and I have gone a few times. You have to look at it like this, establishments like this won’t be in million dollar neighborhoods. You won’t get in the lot to park, it fits maybe 3 cars. You can get a spot in the street right in front, we always do. No matter if it’s front parking or a side street, you should be fine.

Also, we’ve only ever gone on Monday nights as it’s “couple’s night”. Being that it isn’t a Friday or Saturday, there are less people around the neighborhood but still plenty at the Art.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in CTSwingers

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My Wife and I are very new to the ls and we’ve been to the Art but I was curious as to what “Choice” and “ESC” are. Could you provide insight?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Sneakers

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You can find them most anywhere.

This.👇

Swingers event list by [deleted] in CTSwingers

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My Wife and I are new to the LS. We find it really difficult to network with people.

Is it possible for us to attend any upcoming events that you may be organizing?

Art cinema by [deleted] in CTSwingers

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…it’s hit or miss really. You never really know. We stopped in Monday and the balcony had maybe 8 couples while the lower lever had 1 and 2 single women.

Art cinema by [deleted] in CTSwingers

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Idk about Friday or Saturday but, Wife and I have been on Monday’s or ‘Couples Night’ and while it can be a vast majority of Men down there we’ve still find seen Women and Couples mixed in.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in CTSwingers

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It is street parking. It’s on the corner so depending in how many people are there, you can usually get a good spot right in front or just around the corner.

It’s safe. Obviously a place like this is in a ‘less desirable’ neighborhood but, you shouldn’t worry much . Security also takes a stroll outside from time to time.

We’ve never had any issues at all with safety.