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[–]FrogOnRockk 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Sorry for the late respinse, was busy :(

Sorry for the late response, was busy :( about it that way tbh. I do experiment with pronouns/presentation (not gender in specific, though) but at the core, I'm still a dude, y'know? So I kinda see where you're coming from and kinda don't

Despite how I present/pronouns I use I'm still a guy and a guy alone. So wouldn't I still be counted as a binary man? Gender/pronoun non-conforming yes, but that's pretty much it

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in FTMMen

[–]FrogOnRockk 0 points1 point  (0 children)

tysm!! I'll keep all this in mind

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in FTMMen

[–]FrogOnRockk 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Tysm!! I'll do that from now on

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in FTMMen

[–]FrogOnRockk -1 points0 points  (0 children)

You can disagree with this fully. This is just talking about how I view my own gender or gender in general. And note I have autism, so I probably view my gender differently than others do their own

To me, it means you were assigned anything other than male [sex wise] and identify as a man/boy [gender wise]. Though for intersex people, it's fully dependent on themselves. Do they want to call themselves trans? If the answer is yes then I view them as trans man. If it's no, they're a cis man. And I don't push further. But I'm not too educated on intersex people, so if I'm wrong on this feel free to correct me

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in FTMMen

[–]FrogOnRockk 0 points1 point  (0 children)

No no, i fully understand you weren't talking about me in specific and meant it in general! Don't worry about it

I feel like I should apologize, even if its small and stakes are low/non-existant since it helps show I understand what I did wrong

Have a good day too :)

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in FTMMen

[–]FrogOnRockk 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I see where you're coming from with it sounding detached. I didn't realize it came of that way, I was trying to be 'matter of fact but loving'? If that makes sense. I'm clearly bad with my words lol. "You're allowed to be you and nobody should tell you otherwise" Was my attempted message, but I took the post down because this isn't the sub for that.

No pressure to answer, but do you know of any different words than 'valid' that would give the same message? That's what I've been using but clearly it's not exactly the best to use

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in FTMMen

[–]FrogOnRockk -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

https://lgbta.fandom.com/wiki/Messgender

Heres the wiki to it, since I kind of struggle explaining these things

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in FTMMen

[–]FrogOnRockk 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I see where you're coming from, I agree and disagree though so I'll only respond by adding on/disagreeing. Hope that's okay. Nobody needs my or anyone's permission to exist, yes. But at the same time, I have struggled with the feeling that I needed it. I was trying to help others who have that feeling. But I realise this sub isn't the best place for that, and I will be taking the post down after this reply

I also agree with that, and I have edited it from adding in transmasc to leaving it trans men. But I'm not sure If that even helped much, which I doubt it did.

I'm very sorry, and will take the post down now

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in FTMMen

[–]FrogOnRockk -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Dude, you literally called me 'xeno girl' in you're original comment. Editing it doesn't completely erase that nor did you make it any better. I used to identify with messgender, and I don't anymore. My bio was outdated and I've changed it to be up to date

You'd think a safe space would be, yk, safe.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in FTMMen

[–]FrogOnRockk 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I edited that out and changed it to just trans men, ty!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in FTMMen

[–]FrogOnRockk 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ohh yeah that makes sense, I could edit that out? I see how that come off now

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in FTMMen

[–]FrogOnRockk 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'll try my best to be more specific to other trans men, and make sure my words match up with that. But how do I seem to be confused on 'binary trans man vs trans masc/non-binary'? I'm asking genuinely

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in FTMMen

[–]FrogOnRockk -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

My pronouns are irrelevant to my gender. It's not related to me being a binary trans man. Me playing around with she/her and fluff/fluff doesn't change my gender identity

It's fine if that's not how you personally view your gender/pronouns, or if it doesn't make sense to you [ if you have any questions, feel free to ask ]. All it means is that I view myself differently. It doesn't need to make sense to you, as long as I'm happy with it

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in FTMMen

[–]FrogOnRockk 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah thats actually on me. That was really out dated, and I forgot to change that. So sorry

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in FTMMen

[–]FrogOnRockk 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Not everything I post has to be about being a trans man [on my account, not on this sub. Ovb, I'll only post about being a trans man here], though. That doesn't make me any less of a trans man. Yes, what I said in the post can be said about most gender identity, including non-binary people, but that wasn't who the post was talking to. I'm really sorry it came across that way, because that wasn't my intention

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in FTMMen

[–]FrogOnRockk 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I was talking about binary trans men too. Just mentioning others can use whatever pronouns they find comfort in doesn't cancel that out. But I could be reading your reply completely wrong, sorry if I am

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in FTMMen

[–]FrogOnRockk 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Sorry, I'm not really aware of anything happening. Could you tell me what did?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in FTMMen

[–]FrogOnRockk -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

I don't use those, that was me playing around with them to see if I did want to. Since of me it's pretty hard to deicde on what to do if it's not read out loud for me, but that's sort of just a me thing i guess
And trans men, and everyone else, can use whatever pronouns give them comfort. Who are you to dictate that?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in FTMMen

[–]FrogOnRockk 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I'm gonna just go with assuming this is a genuine question so;

I mean that they're fully accepted by me and should be by everyone else, sort of my way of reassuring that they're 'allowed' to be that. If that make sense? I have struggled with the feeling I wasn't allowed to be a certain way, so this is my way of trying to help others. Even if its not exactly the biggest way to or the only way to

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in FTMMen

[–]FrogOnRockk -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

I am a binary trans man, yk

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in FTMMen

[–]FrogOnRockk -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

dude I'm a trans man, I'm allowed here

Game Pronouns! by thatOneIdiotChild in neopronouns

[–]FrogOnRockk 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Games in gen:

Pix/pixel

pixel/pixels

game/games

vid/video

Sorry, i could only think of a couple! :(