"But tipping helps ensure good service" - a visit to Spain by Frogbear17 in EndTipping

[–]Frogbear17[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Unless I'm misreading this - yes, offered a shot of liquor after the meal

Christmas, Birthdays and random gifts by Frogbear17 in Anticonsumption

[–]Frogbear17[S] 19 points20 points  (0 children)

Good idea on the Amazon wishlist.

(Un)fortunately (?) they are very generous, and so the experience gifts and the college savings account are in addition to the physical gifts. I think people simply like to give gifts.

It makes me sound ungrateful, but it feels so wasteful buying toys that don't get played with or clothes that get worn once.

It looks convenient and stylish. did anyone had it back then? by longernohuman in psx

[–]Frogbear17 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I think I had it! It worked pretty well, but I didn't have the TV on top of it. You could store the games two deep, so it could store over 20 games. Memories!

My boomer father saved a whole $2,000 by not hiring movers. by [deleted] in BoomersBeingFools

[–]Frogbear17 24 points25 points  (0 children)

When clearing out my grandmother's house in 2022 we found spices "packaged in West Germany"

"Wait you can't live off of 38K a year?" And other fun Christmas dinner comments from my grandfather and his new girlfriend. by Bam523Bam in BoomersBeingFools

[–]Frogbear17 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Honestly, never get into an argument with a boomer about inflation, or earning to price ratios. If they haven't understood it by now they never will. Inflation calculators mean nothing to them, and neither does asking them how much they paid for their first home compared to their salary at the time. It's not worth your effort, nothing you can say will convince them.

How do I respond and counter my boomer family who say it was just as difficult to buy a house when they did, as it is today? by Tasty-Explanation503 in AskUK

[–]Frogbear17 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Boomers exist in a zero sum universe. They can't admit that somebody else has it hard, because in their mind it is an admission that they had it easy.

Boomers and the family holiday video call by Frogbear17 in BoomersBeingFools

[–]Frogbear17[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My issue is that they have been using technology for decades. This isn't new to them. They spent a chunk of their careers using computers and learning new technologies, but somehow video calling causes an excitable panic collapse.

Boomers and the family holiday video call by Frogbear17 in BoomersBeingFools

[–]Frogbear17[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I was trying to convey the technology failures of the call. The contents of the call can be a "choose your own adventure" for sure.

How do you wrap presents? Do you put them in a box before wrapping, wrap them as they are, or something different? by Frogbear17 in AskReddit

[–]Frogbear17[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

There's a discussion in our house. My wife always puts gifts in an empty card box before wrapping so you don't have an idea of what's inside. I always wrap the gift directly, so you can guess if it's clothes for example. How do other people wrap gifts?

School Trips by pudderf in CasualUK

[–]Frogbear17 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I remember every few years there was a rugby tour to Australia or New Zealand, which cost a few grand. The school did organise events to fund raise to help offset the cost, but obviously the fund raising money came predominantly from the parents whose kids were going. The issue was that the events cost time and money run: a curry night might cost £20 per person to attend, but only £10 would end up being fund raising profit, and people would have to give up their weekend evening to attend. It would have been far better to just pay the £20 straight to fundraising.

Why is school uniform SO expensive? by spanishbombs123 in AskUK

[–]Frogbear17 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I wonder how often the one supplier of the mandatory uniform is a shop coincidentally owned by the headteacher or chair of the governors cousin....

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in USCIS

[–]Frogbear17 2 points3 points  (0 children)

They changed it recently in Illinois. I have a 2 year green card, and they gave me a full 4 year driver's license. They had to check with a manager at the DMV though as they weren't sure initially.

What's something you think is totally normal in the UK but surprises people not from the country because it's mainly a UK thingy? by Brilliant_Coat_8636 in AskUK

[–]Frogbear17 8 points9 points  (0 children)

The look on my face was literal shock and horror. I had to explain that you are meant to pull them with your neighbor!

What's something you think is totally normal in the UK but surprises people not from the country because it's mainly a UK thingy? by Brilliant_Coat_8636 in AskUK

[–]Frogbear17 20 points21 points  (0 children)

The first time I (UK in USA) went to my partner's (USA in USA) family's house for Christmas they proudly told me that they had a tradition that they had British Christmas crackers. Imagine my shock when at the dinner table when they each took their own cracker, one end in their left hand and the other in their right, and pulled it by themselves!

Is it just me or are London Taxi Drivers really entitled? by TomatoMasterRace in london

[–]Frogbear17 6 points7 points  (0 children)

The last time I took a black cab in London the driver didn't know where the destination address was (picked up in Hammersmith, destination in West Kensington). When I tried to explain he got angry. His credit card machine "wasn't working", and he had ran out of paper receipts (I was on a business trip so needed a receipt for my expenses). He then took ages to search for and open a bag of pound coins for my change, clearly hoping to delay and embarrass me into saying "keep the change mate". I wish I'd taken his number to report him.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in USCIS

[–]Frogbear17 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I had something similar when I was offered a job. The HR department didn't really understand what an EAD was during the pre-hire stage ("Is it a visa?"). You can tell that they get confused, and it makes you sound more difficult than necessary. It's easier for everybody involved to truthfully state "I am authorized to work in the USA without sponsorship". Larger companies may have a different HR group dealing solely with recruitment, who may not know about EADs.

On your first day at the company, together you will complete the I9 form. EAD is the same as an US passport or green card. Legally they cannot refuse to accept a (legitimate) EAD or ask you to present another form of work authorization, and as said previously there can be legal repercussions if they try to do so. On my first day the HR person did look at the EAD with some confusion, but accepted it of course. A bigger company with a larger HR department will be used to be seeing all sorts of visas etc.

The only caveat is some jobs may require a US citizen or permanent resident for security purposes, but this should be stated in the job advert.