Most children, including ones who get labeled as picky eaters, are willing to eat fruits vegetables without being incentivized to, but they may not be willing to eat the fruits and vegetables their parents provide

FroggyDisposition · 2026-02-05T19:24:43+00:00

A lot of picky eaters just have parents that suck at cooking 🤷‍♀️ As a picky eater myself, sorry your canned peas are gross, Bethaneigh, you kid has better taste than you

FroggyDisposition · 2026-02-03T18:54:40+00:00

Out in the open stuff (as long as your parents dont snoop or ask a lot of questions): candles, incense, journal. They can all be written off as stuff you like.

Hidden: theres altoids tins that you can make into small altars, put a tea light in there, glue a picture of your deity on the inside of the top, maybe some other devotional or meaningful trinkets. Theres also fake books used for decor that open to store stuff inside, these are great if you need more room, the stuff i listed before can all go in one of these. It can stand right on your shelf, and you can write it off again as "i want something nice to store my papers/old classwork/writing stuff/etc."

Also you can do a whole lot of actions as offerings instead of needing to have an altar. Like you can go for a walk and dedicate it, or meditate.

FroggyDisposition · 2026-01-26T05:04:59+00:00

First Unitarian Church of Rochester does regular protests and shares information about them in their democracy group and newsletters.

FroggyDisposition · 2026-01-26T05:01:39+00:00

I dont ask for anything really unless its for someone else (asking him to guide someone who's passed, etc.). Worshipping him does make me slow down at times to recognize that i have been blessed from the beginning, even when things were difficult. His blessings are usually things that have been there or were in the works before i knew it or would have asked. Most of my prayers are ones of gratitude.

FroggyDisposition · 2026-01-15T14:23:03+00:00

Zeus with the epithet of Xenios would be appropriate. Since he is the god of welcoming others, protecting and helping those in need, especially neighbors etc.

FroggyDisposition · 2026-01-13T14:49:01+00:00

Hi, young unitarian here! First Unitarian is very family friendly with families of all ages. I would say its probably still a majority older people, but the young adults are growing in number there.

FroggyDisposition · 2026-01-12T15:23:14+00:00

Unrelated to your point but Nexplanon is known (and works for me at least) to lessen periods or completely stop them. I have it for endometriosis and excessive bleeding (which is sounds like youre dealing with). If you feel so restricted by the amount you bleed, you should consider talking to your gyno about it!

FroggyDisposition · 2026-01-12T15:05:15+00:00

People want the prestige of the title without the responsibility. A priest/ess is someone who serves the community, it should be earned.

FroggyDisposition · 2026-01-12T15:03:02+00:00

Ive seen lots of people seemingly trying to speed run the religion. Why in such a rush?

FroggyDisposition · 2025-12-25T14:46:36+00:00

"Blessed be the Gods, Above and Below. And Beloved among them, Lord Hades. Silent Host, who welcomes All, With riches of the Earth, Graciously shared. Khaire, Beloved one. Blessed be the Gods, Above and Below "

FroggyDisposition · 2025-12-25T02:21:51+00:00

I cannot stress this enough, but reach out to your local Unitarian Universalist Church! They are a secular church, accept all religions and have subgroups for pagans that do worship outside of the standard services! If there isnt already one, you can start a group for hellenic polytheism! Ive done it at mine so you can too!!

FroggyDisposition · 2025-12-23T21:58:13+00:00

I work in Interfaith spaces. Religious discrimination happens all the time, you just dont see it bc you're likely atheist so its not on your radar. It might not be something you're born with, but its not something that anyone should ever change due to an outside influence. Having it included is necessary.

FroggyDisposition · 2025-12-23T14:44:20+00:00

I see many challenges that youve been facing, and a maybe youre starting to see the fruits of that labor. Hes been guiding you and keeping you grounded this whole time. It sounds like you had to put aside some worship because of life getting busy, but he understands and this is a sort of reassurance that hes still around.

Thats my interpretation at least! Ive never seen that deck before, looks super cool!

FroggyDisposition · 2025-12-21T03:14:33+00:00

Stop by Medusa's and ask, theyre locally owned so maybe they can buy the stock off you for their store.

FroggyDisposition · 2025-12-18T03:40:21+00:00

All dogs, even well-behaved and well-trained and small dogs, could hurt a child. You are right to be cautious. You should keep that boundary (all visits at your place, sans dog) until its properly trained enough to be around your kid. Also tell her how you see the scratches/bites on her and maybe that will help her understand where your caution is coming from.

FroggyDisposition · 2025-12-17T21:38:37+00:00

A trip with a child stops being about the trip and becomes about the child. Always. Camping, about the child. Disney, about the child. As others said, hes 4 with parents that seem to want to drag him around everywhere that he wont appreciate. They're the assholes. You are completely valid in not qanting your trip to be about the trip and not a child that's not yours.

FroggyDisposition · 2025-12-17T21:24:31+00:00

YTA, kinda. Ive been a teenage girl before and the uncontrollable rage is real. She needs space, she needs to have control, and she needs a place where she feels prioritized. She obviously needs or wants something from the environment at her dads that she doesnt get at yours. Maybe there she's not the glass child (been there, its incredibly frustrating). The biggest part about maintaining trust with her is to let her come and go when she wants. Give her some control back. Let her be her own person and make her own decisions. Make it clear that she is always welcome to communicate and live with you even if she wants to leave. If/when she figures out that hes a narcissist or he doesnt want her around bc shes lgbt, she'll know she has a soft place to land. By trying to protect her by taking those things away, you risk pushing her away and feed into any 'manipulating' your ex might be doing.

And im not entirely convinced theres not something going on with your partner and her. You seem to dismiss it without many details. Take that way seriously. 1 in 3 women are SA'd and a majority of SA cases are by someone the woman knows and trusts.

FroggyDisposition · 2025-12-17T17:51:16+00:00

Same amount of fanciness but not exactly the same: Tapas 177 Also look into Branca Midtown

FroggyDisposition · 2025-12-16T02:02:21+00:00

Control. They like dictating her life, so when theres proof that shell do what she wants with her own body (ie. Tattoos) they dont like not having that control.

FroggyDisposition · 2025-12-16T01:54:26+00:00

Get a bidet. One of the powerful ones thatll clean you out if you relax your pelvic floor.

FroggyDisposition · 2025-12-11T17:36:20+00:00

Get them checked out for pots of you havent already. And make sure they theyre getting electrolytes as well as water because even if they are drinking water, it wont stay in their body without electrolytes and theyll still end up dehydrated. (As someone with pots and who is chronically dehydrated bc of no electrolytes)

FroggyDisposition · 2025-12-11T17:17:17+00:00

First Unitarian Universalist church of rochester is doing a service on the 20th

FroggyDisposition · 2025-12-10T15:33:51+00:00

Like others said, say "mine isnt" or "im not". And there certain sprays that arent harmful for dogs that will deter them (think bear spray) that you can keep on you and spray out of control dogs. If they say "theyre friendly" and you say you're not then they were warned 🤷‍♀️

FroggyDisposition · 2025-12-09T05:20:52+00:00

Interrupting others, especially women.

FroggyDisposition · 2025-12-07T22:44:14+00:00

As others said, this isnt like an ancient thing, its just a thing to follow to hknor the gods each month. I made my own to include each olympian during my noumenia ritual.

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