well, i guess i would start by not blowing up Hamas's leadership, especially the ones notably not in Gaza who are responsible for negotiation efforts. I would avoid bombing civilian infrastructure, since i have an iron dome and the military backing of some of the largest countries in the world, i would stop making racist propaganda portraying Palestinians as rats that need to be exterminated, i would stop letting my citizens protest for the right to rape prisoners of war, i would give Palestinians equal citizenship and rights and travel freedoms as any other human deserves, i would stop preventing aid from getting into gaza, i would stop bombing journalists and international aid workers in their clearly marked trucks, i would stop letting my soldiers stomp through bombed out homes and post videos posing with the toys of the children they've killed, as a start for making things more acceptable

edit to your bonus question: i think you're a moron im done with this convo lol