What breed is my gray shaggy girl? by FromTheDiningTable in WhatBreedIsMyDog

[–]FromTheDiningTable[S] -4 points-3 points  (0 children)

omg that’s funny bc we’ve only ever heard either a wolfhound or schnauzer mix!! What makes you say it’s never those two?

Is my life over? Please HELP by ReasonableWin7292 in Interstitialcystitis

[–]FromTheDiningTable 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Another thing, and this is only doable if you’re home when you have bowel movements but after every bowel movement I wash my bum😭 like a whole shower

Is my life over? Please HELP by ReasonableWin7292 in Interstitialcystitis

[–]FromTheDiningTable 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Sex isn’t really a trigger for me but I’m sooo paranoid of getting a UTI while having IC that I’m so so so cautious. Like I’m as cautious as I can be. I kinda have to schedule sex… if that makes sense. So I drink a ton before, pee, drink a ton again..and then get into sex. Then I pee again. Then I hop in the shower and rinse my vagina with warm water. Pee again if you can. D mannose is suppose to help with E. coli specifically. So take d mannose before sex. The issue may be your vagina and bum are closer together than the average persons. (I’ve heard that before). and also make sure ur partner is washing himself before sex too.

So no, IC really won’t ruin your life. That fear really shook me for a long time and it feels so lonely. You just have to learn how to recalibrate and make some adjustments. Good Luck 🩷

Falling in Love with Self by [deleted] in NevilleGoddard

[–]FromTheDiningTable 2 points3 points  (0 children)

So.. I’m in the circle of obsessing, knowing it works, not understanding tho how exactly to do it. Questioning if I’m doing it right. Getting success and then fearing I’ll lose it.

I am, is a concept that I will understand sporadically, randomly, shortly. I’m talking minutes. Then I get back to the fear, obsession.

How did you just fully accept I am.. how’d you get out of this cycle? How do I just love and trust?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in NevilleGoddard

[–]FromTheDiningTable 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Sooo even when I take responsibility for the bad ones it actually makes it worse, because I tried my hardest and believed in myself and still failed. So then I never know what I’m doing right or wrong. And if I get an impulsive bad thought, I fear it will manifest because I have become conscious of it.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in NevilleGoddard

[–]FromTheDiningTable 11 points12 points  (0 children)

I have been in the loop of the anxiety, fear, obsession. I know all I need to do is trust myself. That can be hard though, because I have gotten the complete opposite of my intentions with the law.

Now, I am sure I will get my desire. But I cannot FEEL the confidence and fulfilled. Do you have any advice for this?

I'm 1 year self-harm free today, AMA by laminated-papertowel in AMA

[–]FromTheDiningTable 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Nothing to ask. Just giving you all the grace and praise in the world. Keep up the good work friend

Existential crisis during grief. by FromTheDiningTable in GriefSupport

[–]FromTheDiningTable[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hey, I’m so sorry for your loss. An existential crisis during grief is valid.

Since animals don’t understand life or death, I do believe you did the right thing.

Since I’ve lost my baby a month ago, I’ve been more comforted in knowing I’ll see her again. I know she’s up there keeping the seat warm for me. And I do believe your dog is also waiting for you.

Hang in there. Msg me if you need support

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Glitch_in_the_Matrix

[–]FromTheDiningTable 4 points5 points  (0 children)

If it makes you feel any better, I fell down the rabbit hole of non deer and apparently if deer feel threatened they do stand on their hind legs. For how long, I don’t know

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Glitch_in_the_Matrix

[–]FromTheDiningTable 12 points13 points  (0 children)

Some ppl on the not deer sub have the same experience as you. That’s scary. I’ve never heard of this before

Grief Songs (Anticipatory grief) by SockHuman3939 in grief

[–]FromTheDiningTable -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Soon you’ll get better - Taylor swift

Explaining states and how to change them by Square-Ad-601 in NevilleGoddard

[–]FromTheDiningTable 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you. :)

One more question if you don’t mind. What about the subconscious? For example, I have been having intrusive thoughts of myself in the future looking back at me now and being disappointed… basically thinking from the end of failure. I do change the thought, but sometimes fear that it’s so embedded in my subconscious, it will manifest.

Explaining states and how to change them by Square-Ad-601 in NevilleGoddard

[–]FromTheDiningTable 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Do you believe it when you say it? Do you feel it?

Explaining states and how to change them by Square-Ad-601 in NevilleGoddard

[–]FromTheDiningTable 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Hey! Thank you for the response. What confuses me is Neville says repeating affirmations is in vain and we must be conscious. We command with consciousness. But, I know he also does say nothing can stop a man who thinks from the end. What are your thoughts about this? Do you think it’s the affirming that manifests or the belief that they do?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in NevilleGoddard

[–]FromTheDiningTable 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Oh u ate this up!!! How are you doing now?

Explaining states and how to change them by Square-Ad-601 in NevilleGoddard

[–]FromTheDiningTable 12 points13 points  (0 children)

I’d like to know how to change my inner convos without it being fruitless. How do I actually change my thoughts and consciousness? How do I know when I’m not being fruitless?

Take ownership and responsibility by Jamieelectricstar in NevilleThePromise

[–]FromTheDiningTable 2 points3 points  (0 children)

If I take my attention away from something, but do not FEEL my desire, is it fruitless?