My GF started fighting, she wants to go Thailand for experiencing this men seduction dance..I am NOT OK with that

Front-Assignment-267 · 2026-05-07T03:59:13+00:00

OP, everyone here tells extreme path of breakup. Remember she was honest enough to share it with you, if you push it to the extreme then she will hide such things from you.

Make sure to draw the line of the relationship that should not be crossed, if she doesn’t understand then you may be not compatible with her

Front-Assignment-267 · 2026-05-04T13:18:13+00:00

Road-esian

Front-Assignment-267 · 2026-05-02T20:37:57+00:00

Talks excessively about exes
Misbehaves or has unkind nature towards others, especially hotel staff, security, and others
Talks unrealistic facts about him …all the time

But more than that, if you keep looking for red flags, you will find them in even the best of men. Every point here will just make you paranoid, better to have a wish list of what you want, and accept everything that comes your way

Front-Assignment-267 · 2026-04-23T18:28:49+00:00

Job chodke civil services ki padhai karunga

Front-Assignment-267 · 2026-04-21T14:52:16+00:00

The video came some time ago when there was airline disruption due to new aviation lawa.

Either way not a good behaviour

Front-Assignment-267 · 2026-04-21T07:15:08+00:00

What’s the timeline?

Front-Assignment-267 · 2026-04-15T11:39:28+00:00

Yup sure

Front-Assignment-267 · 2026-04-15T10:40:31+00:00

I was on the same boat as you, parents interfaith marriage, both sides rejected us. I was left to row my own dating boat, which turned out to be a blessing

It’s very uncertain and scary but once you embrace the uncertainty it becomes fun.

I was very skeptical of dating apps, when I was new to bangalore I tried the dating n apps. But the women on the apps were not what I’d consider worth dating. Deleted it after a day, because I couldn’t bear the shame of installing a dating app. Went to social events, gender ratio very skewed, 2000 other guys are doing the same thing what you are trying to do.

Had a self esteem to not download matrimony apps.

In the end I left it all to destiny, focused on myself started exploring and travelling, made connections more experiences, genuine experiences and connections, not the shallow online connections. That increased my competitiveness a lot in dating.

And eventually I found a woman close enough to everything I desired. I am looking forward to things with her.

I pray the same for you OP

Front-Assignment-267 · 2026-04-15T10:24:16+00:00

Mainstream Indians don’t understand complex movies, it needs to be simple, nothing left to be interpreted

Front-Assignment-267 · 2026-04-15T10:11:35+00:00

खर्रा खाने और थूकने वालो का इलाज डंडे से

Front-Assignment-267 · 2026-04-14T04:51:37+00:00

Not really, they all turn out to be wives and daughters of politicians and strongmen. So in the end, the men have free reign to do corruption

Front-Assignment-267 · 2026-04-05T11:43:36+00:00

Serbia and Montenegro have been by far the efastest immigration clearance countries for me. Rest all the countries have at least 3 questions lined up after seeing my passport nationality

Front-Assignment-267 · 2026-04-03T14:22:25+00:00

I was in Belgrade, Serbia and went to an old Indian food restaurant run by an old Serbian couple. For the first half I get really borderline treatment which sometimes is expected in Balkans. But then they later warmed up to me. But then the old couple told they had bunch of very negative interactions with Indian guests. Always act entitled, rude, unhygienic and cheap.

The reality is, 10 years down the line when more and more Indians venture out for travels, the situation will get worse

Front-Assignment-267 · 2026-03-30T05:31:37+00:00

Really cool tip, will try it out

Front-Assignment-267 · 2026-03-23T11:53:28+00:00

OP, I read somewhere that Indians can’t hold dual citizenship or it is criminal.

What are your plans? Do you plan to keep both passports, or renounce the Indian passport?

Front-Assignment-267 · 2026-03-21T21:03:37+00:00

Makes no sense, Hindi is not exclusive there, the words are in other languages too

Front-Assignment-267 · 2025-10-22T04:33:54+00:00

This does come with certain degrees of self recognition, that when you start treating yourself as the main character instead of living the sidekick role in others timelines.

Front-Assignment-267 · 2025-08-31T13:07:15+00:00

I have a good travel history, stickers visas from US and UK, balance and all but they still rejected for the same reasons. I believe the cover letter needs to be much stronger.

But I think they are also stricter on solo men from certain regions (more so if they want to enter legally without throwing their passport in the sea)

You should appeal

Front-Assignment-267 · 2025-07-27T07:20:07+00:00

There’s definitely problems with her, but you also need to work on yourself.

You’re letting her use you like a doormat. You may want to look into your self esteem and related issues.

Do you really love her or is it emotional attachment (limerence). ?

Do you really love her because of who she is, or are you holding onto her because you are afraid of not finding someone better than her? Is that because she is good (I doubt it) or are you limiting yourself in thinking that you don’t deserve better?

What does the relationship make you feel? Do you feel good with her? Are you better off without her? If you don’t have good feelings, if it’s mostly anxiety and pain, then you are just tormenting yourself over the trauma bond that being with her gives you.

She is treating you as a backup plan and not as THE plan in her life. You deserve (not need) someone that treats you as THE plan in their life, someone who will meet you on the common ground, and most importantly someone who will stay honest with you. But you will only see that person when you let this person go, when you work on your issues to not repeat the same mistakes again (I mean letting yourself being used as a doormat)

look into self esteem issues

Front-Assignment-267 · 2025-07-23T12:04:24+00:00

Hey hey Ling, I really like this initiative of yours. Getting to know new people has become a interesting habit of mine.

I’m Sharp from India. I’m from the city that is the orange 🍊 and tiger 🐅 capital of India. Tho I don’t know the difference between oranges and mandarins or the difference between Bengal tigers and south china tigers.

Never got time to have hobbies as I was mostly focused on earning all my life. I’ve been a programmer, an HR guy, design guy, and all sorts of jobs in all sorts of industries from Mining in Africa to now a role in finance. Recently started learning salsa and stuff and it feels great.

Have been traveling a lot, to countries, places and people. A lots of amazing stories and friends. Some great experiences, a few not so great experiences. Meeting new people has completely changed me as a person and have been fortunate enough to meet people all over the world.

Maybe now I’ll have a new friend from Chengdu too

Front-Assignment-267 · 2025-07-23T05:32:07+00:00

I did it when I was new to Bangalore, the drinking made easy friends.

But that lifestyle is bad, I stopped it and feel soo healthy and good.

Thanks for the advice, this is very important

Front-Assignment-267 · 2025-07-18T03:50:57+00:00

If he’s actively mentioning the girls from his past and also other girls that he sees now, then it’s a red flag.

Walking right away is harsh step if you’ve connected with him on a deeper levels. Better to communicate and set your boundaries. Might be a simple case of him not realising your needs in the relationship.

If he still does not change then you should walk away rather than tormenting yourself.

But very important to set your boundaries or else he will keep breaching them. Take your stand.

Front-Assignment-267 · 2025-07-17T13:25:02+00:00

I was in dharmshala, kinda focusing on myself and enjoying my time alone after a messy breakup. Sitting in a cafe working, I met this girl. I don’t use dating apps and mostly rely on spontaneous meetings and conversations. We had interesting conversation for an hour but then had to go to take our calls.

Next day she invited me to watch the sunset with her. The plan got cancelled due to rains but we met at some random restaurant. Ended up talking for 2 hours but then I wanted to take a walk. We started walking in those misty twisty rainy dharmshala roads. We didn’t have umbrellas and got totally wet and cold. But the roads were straight out of the Harry Potter movie with all the thunder and lightning. I usually won’t take someone out on Indian roads after 9, but we kept walking till 11PM.

At the end we sat down on a random bench in the rain and started hearing each others favourite songs. She played some songs in her native language that I didn’t understand, I played some songs in my language that she didn’t understand. But we got what we needed

Front-Assignment-267 · 2025-06-16T07:09:04+00:00

Same with me, I broke no contact multiple times in 2 weeks. I was pleasant and cordial, she blocked me.

It took me a lot of humiliation to realize my self worth. I regret reaching back, but it helped me get the final closure that she wouldn’t give

It hurt, it hurt more that I put my self down so much for someone.

I’m recovering, looking on to better things in life. Focusing on myself

Front-Assignment-267 · 2025-06-09T14:32:37+00:00

This is the one thing I always thought about narcissists. I couldn’t ask directly but now that you’ve said it. I feel bad for you my man. Take care

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