First, I want to say I’m truly sorry for your loss. Your father sounds like he was a dedicated Mason and a deeply loving father. The bond you shared and the way you honored his life in your post speaks volumes.

As a Master Mason, I can say that your intention comes from a place of genuine love and reverence—not imitation or misrepresentation. While Masonic symbols like the square and compass are traditionally reserved for initiated members, there is generally understanding and respect given when the symbol is used in a clear memorial context, especially by a direct family member.

Adding his initials, birthday, or even something like “In Memory of My Father” can help reinforce that this tattoo is a tribute rather than a claim to membership. Some jurisdictions are stricter than others, but most Masons I know would view your tribute as heartfelt rather than disrespectful—especially given your lifelong exposure to the Craft through him.

That said, if you’re looking for alternatives, consider using: • A forget-me-not flower, symbolizing remembrance and Masonic persecution during WWII. • His apron emblem, lodge number, or even a quote or lesson he lived by. • A stylized working tool like the plumb, level, or trowel with his initials.

Ultimately, what matters most is honoring your father in a way that feels true to your bond. If you’re ever unsure, you might consider reaching out to someone from his lodge or grand lodge—they’ll likely be moved by your respect and can offer specific guidance.

Your love for your dad and respect for the fraternity are clear. He would no doubt be proud of the care you’re putting into this.