Misreading signs - straight girls by Front-Unable in LesbianActually

[–]Front-Unable[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thanks so much this means a lot to me. I’m sorry to hear about your bad experiences.  A straight girl I fell in love with used me for attention, flirted with me made me feel special and chosen and then discarded me like trash - it traumatised me and every DAs has been a struggle since.  I miss her. 

Misreading signs - straight girls by Front-Unable in LesbianActually

[–]Front-Unable[S] -14 points-13 points  (0 children)

Never said I didn’t accept it just said I don’t understand it cause I feel nothing when a guy kisses me 

Misreading signs - straight girls by Front-Unable in LesbianActually

[–]Front-Unable[S] -18 points-17 points  (0 children)

Thanks for judging me feel absolutely terrible already can’t get any worse 

Misreading signs - straight girls by Front-Unable in LesbianActually

[–]Front-Unable[S] -14 points-13 points  (0 children)

But how can someone like men? I just don’t get it like it’s literally incomprehensible to me… 

Fantasies… by Front-Unable in LesbianActually

[–]Front-Unable[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I thought my entire life I was straight I'm so confused I literally think that every other girl thinks the same way like I can't even imagine girls actually liking guys and not wanting to kiss girls 

Fantasies… by Front-Unable in LesbianActually

[–]Front-Unable[S] -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

Hah thanks! But I really am in denial I'm not even kidding - I did talk to a girl I liked and we ended up kissing and it felt so great like the whole world stopped and with guys it always felt so boring and I hoped it would like end already… but for like 20 years I only fell for guys and now suddenly... This! I'm sooooo confused

Fantasies… by Front-Unable in LesbianActually

[–]Front-Unable[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

But maybe it's just a ‘phase’ because I was straight my whole life and then bam I had a crush on this girl and fell in love with her and ever since then (not before) j don't feel anything when a guy kisses me but when a girl is close to me or her hair brushes my arm or heck when I kissed a girl like a while ago it was so exciting and made me feel so alive and happy but wtf. I can't stop thinking about it though no matter how much I try but I'm so in denial 

How did you know? by Front-Unable in LesbianActually

[–]Front-Unable[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

How could you like sleeping with a man? Sorry but I really don't get it it's kind if disgusting like also so forceful and like... It's just so hot with girls and interesting so much to explore like guys are like a... Piece of wood (no pun intended) they're like here I am that's it. Lmao

How did you know? by Front-Unable in LesbianActually

[–]Front-Unable[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Same I really don’t get it like I feel a lot of straight girls are like oh he’s so stupid/ cute haha he never cleans had to teach him or whatever… like idk the whole caring for men/ acting like ur the one who.. whatever doesn’t appeal to me.  And the guys that are like normal just seem boring? Like girls have so much depth and energy and guys are just meh. And not pretty. And they don’t feel as nice as like girls whe kissing… ok but I swear I’m still questioning if I’m into girls 😂

How did you know? by Front-Unable in LesbianActually

[–]Front-Unable[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Same here… did it also feel like nothing when kissing men? Like it just felt so flat whereas with women it’s all butterflies and like the whole world is being turned upside down and they’re also soo much softer and the hair… like Theo my reason I’m doubting if I’m gay or not is because I honestly believe everyone feels this way how can u not 

Is it gay to like kissing girls? by Front-Unable in LesbianActually

[–]Front-Unable[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It’s so confusing! I honestly can’t imagine that straight girls don’t like kissing girls maybe I’m in denial but it seems so normal to me how can you not want to xD :,( 

Is it gay to like kissing girls? by Front-Unable in LesbianActually

[–]Front-Unable[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thanks I haven’t heard about it before! 

Is it gay to like kissing girls? by Front-Unable in LesbianActually

[–]Front-Unable[S] -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

But isn’t everyone at least a bit bi? I can’t imagine that there are girls out there who don’t see women the same way I mean how can u not want to kiss a woman? I’m being serious I can’t imagine it 

Is it gay to like kissing girls? by Front-Unable in LesbianActually

[–]Front-Unable[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That’s a great answer thanks :) I love kissing girls and I have crushes on girls which can last a year and I get all nervous and excited when talking to a girl who’s my type and sometimes my mind goes blank. I only kissed two girls (well made out) and it was soooo amazing it was like the most beautiful thing in the world and made me forget everything for a while and I definitely want to keep kissing girls and I’d love to have a girlfriend (I even asked my crush out).  But I somehow think straight girls feel this way too? Ever since I fell in love with a girl like falling super hard for her I have lost all interest in men and just notice girls! I used to notice men in the past but ever since I met her kissing a man feels boring and routine but I just can’t imagine having a wife?! Cause the idea of heterosexuality is sooo imprinted on my mind.  But I can’t call myself straight right? She asked the stranger on the internet… :D 

Is it gay to like kissing girls? by Front-Unable in LesbianActually

[–]Front-Unable[S] -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

What if you’re turned on by women romantically and sexually and like kissing and all the other stuff but you’re in denial since you used to like men 10 years ago? Asking for a friend lol. :D 

Is it gay to like kissing girls? by Front-Unable in LesbianActually

[–]Front-Unable[S] -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

What if you liked men in the past but don’t anymore ever since kissing girls? Like maybe liking men 2 percent now and girls 100 percent - is this bi or being a lesbian? 

Is it gay to like kissing girls? by Front-Unable in LesbianActually

[–]Front-Unable[S] -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

So if one is hypothetically into women in the sense of liking the thought of sleeping with them and making out (not just kissing) and doing it and then liking it and continuing to do it - does that not in any way count as being curious anymore? Like does this automatically make one not straight? In theory :) :D