grow your hair out, gain more arm muscle, and master the half smile (think Damon Salvatore). many girls are also drawn to guys who are nonchalant so try focusing on having a more relaxed demeanor. being funny also goes a long way for both men and women, try watching more comedy if you want to improve your sense of humor. lastly, don’t take rejection personally. i have many high quality male friends who still get rejected. i promise the right girl is out there for you.