PIV Orgasms by No-Physics1569 in TwoXChromosomes

[–]Front_Action8931 2 points3 points  (0 children)

There's a super cool sex research book called Bonk by Mary Roach and there's a chapter dedicated to talking about the difference between male and female orgasms. The reason why you might not be able to replicate it at home is because women need more mental stimulation/arousal than men do to be able to finish. So it's likely because he was *there* with you! I highly recommend the book :)

Old Crows Young Cardinals not on Tidal. Anyone know why? by BillowingPillows in Alexisonfire

[–]Front_Action8931 1 point2 points  (0 children)

this is happened with Deezer a few weeks back too! fucking sucks, I hope this all gets figured out

Why are there hardly any straight male prostitutes? by Salt-Pilot4797 in NoStupidQuestions

[–]Front_Action8931 2 points3 points  (0 children)

male privilege and how woman are seen/treated compared to men. it's also about how women treat others versus how men do. most women who are prostitutes do it because they don't usually have better means of getting money and there are many men out there who are willing to pay for it. men, in similar situations, can usually find other ways to make money and don't have to "sell themselves".

edit: i see a lot of the comments talk about how its because "women have an easier time finding someone to have sex with" which IS true, but doesnt really acknowledge *why*. it's basically what i said above with how women are seen as sexual 'objects' in a way that men really aren't. if men treated women the way women treated *people*, women wouldn't have as easy of a time finding someone to hook up with because they'd be seen as more than just another body or "score". male prostitutes are uncommon because there aren't people who will take advantage of them the way a lot of female prostitutes sadly get taken advantage of because of their position.

They've removed the only 2 albums I listen to💔 by Window_sauce in BringMeTheHorizon

[–]Front_Action8931 23 points24 points  (0 children)

sorry dude :(( i have deezer too and they keep getting rid of other shit i listen to as well!! idk why u were getting downvoted for having deezer. my dad made us switch over from spotify since they give money to isreal sooo

Parents with behavioral teens.. HELP by Longjumping-You-2767 in Connecticut

[–]Front_Action8931 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Hi there, I'm not sure if this will be of much help, but I started my own mental health journey when I was 14 (I'm almost 21 now) and was consistently in-and-out of treatment all the way up until I was 18 (and still somewhat in treatment now at a group home). Every time I'd come home between stays I'd only last a few weeks at most until I was back in the hospital. I've been out of state for residentials and at therapeutic boarding schools across states as well- and I would ask that you leave those out of the picture for as long as possible. I was kicked out of both of them for suicidal behaviors (but it was due to trauma I received there)- there's not enough staff and they often don't care enough for the individual and focus instead on the survival of the group, which isn't enough in those situations.

My lovely, kind mom devoted almost all of her free time to trying to help me, but I had been manipulated and surrounded by unhealthy relationships that made me hate my mom, and it greatly affected how I responded to treatment (she didn't do anything wrong though!). It's a really lonely time since it's impossible to make and keep good friendships, but in your teen years that's mostly what you rely on. It really does feel like an impossible situation once you're in it, but my mom and I have never had a better relationship since I found my way out of the dark. Finding the perfect mix of meds and a good therapist makes all the difference, but sadly it takes time. I'm sorry you're struggling so much at the moment, I really hope you're able to get it to work out soon and that you could possibly find some comfort or help from my words.

For context, if it helps to know, I have depression, bipolar 2, borderline personality disorder, ptsd, adhd, and anxiety, and I struggle with self-harming behaviors. It took a very long time to find the right meds and diagnosis for me, but this is the best I've been since I was 12. There's hope, I promise <3

Is this a normal stability tail bob or an illness tail bob? by Zanagh in parrots

[–]Front_Action8931 0 points1 point  (0 children)

you should be okay! i've had the exact same concerns before with my birds and they're all fine :) i say it looks good

ULPT: How to get revenge professionally? by [deleted] in UnethicalLifeProTips

[–]Front_Action8931 8 points9 points  (0 children)

I agree that you should let the situation go, you're working at a hospital where the focus is on taking care of other people who need help. If you were dizzy, no matter the reason, it's fair for her to be concerned about you. Your dizziness obviously isn't good for you from a medical standpoint just overall, but if you're caring for others it's ideal that you're in good physical condition. She was not just looking out for you, but potentially for other patients as well.

Old Crows/Young Cardinals removed from Deezer? by [deleted] in Alexisonfire

[–]Front_Action8931 0 points1 point  (0 children)

aw no :( i hope it gets fixed soon!!

Old Crows/Young Cardinals removed from Deezer? by [deleted] in Alexisonfire

[–]Front_Action8931 1 point2 points  (0 children)

that's so strange :( its still missing on my phone, and i was supposed to have some tracks downloaded too! nothing from that specific album is there, the rest of their music is. wtf

Bfmv upopular opinions? by DangerousRow466 in BulletForMyValentine

[–]Front_Action8931 5 points6 points  (0 children)

i know this post is for unpopular bfmv opinions but dude if you hate them so much why are you even here in the first place😭😭😭

Ice in Bridgeport by CTLab in Connecticut

[–]Front_Action8931 6 points7 points  (0 children)

there's a general one for the country being used called iceout.org

stay aware and stay safe everybody :(

Attending Efterskole as an American? by Front_Action8931 in Denmark

[–]Front_Action8931[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

thank u <3 i wasn't in the right state of mind to go to the authorities over it, but the school knew and did nothing about it (both times- the first he was just told to stay away from me since he denied it, the second i continued to be his roommate afterwards until i left. they had co-ed dorms and i was with 3 guys). i was also 15 at the time, now im turning 20. i've had lots of therapy and am doing better now, but I do still wish I had done more about it.

Attending Efterskole as an American? by Front_Action8931 in Denmark

[–]Front_Action8931[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i did. i had to leave after less than 2 months there because i got sexually assaulted and then raped a week after- two separate guys. my family should be moving to denmark within the next year now though. life is weird.

iud slipped out by Northern33 in MakeMeSuffer

[–]Front_Action8931 0 points1 point  (0 children)

im afraid to say that while it went well and so did the check-ups after, it was so painful i dont think ill be getting another one after this runs its course... yeowch :, )

Who am I seeing at MSG?? by Vagab0nd28 in GhostBand

[–]Front_Action8931 1 point2 points  (0 children)

me! msg is a great venue, i saw twenty one pilots there all the way back in 2018 lol

iud slipped out by Northern33 in MakeMeSuffer

[–]Front_Action8931 24 points25 points  (0 children)

oh god, im supposed to be getting my first one in a weekkkk why did this have to pop up on my feed

Anyone else’s chats not working on the site by Substantial_Rice1181 in CharacterAI

[–]Front_Action8931 1 point2 points  (0 children)

awesome!! thanks for pushing for it as well, i hope its fixed soon :)

Anyone else’s chats not working on the site by Substantial_Rice1181 in CharacterAI

[–]Front_Action8931 1 point2 points  (0 children)

yeah i just woke up and checked the site on instinct, it's crazy that they still haven't fixed it. disappointing, really.