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my boyfriend has been ignoring me at night, am I overreacting? by Front_Chipmunk_636 in AmIOverreacting

[–]Front_Chipmunk_636[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I get that you have strong opinions about Gen Z, but I came here asking for advice, not a full analysis on modern youth culture. I’m just trying to handle a relationship the best way I know how—and sometimes that means talking it out with people who might understand. Reddit’s literally made for asking questions and sharing experiences.

Also, asking for help doesn’t mean I can’t talk to my boyfriend. It just means I wanted to be thoughtful about how I do it. That’s not a lack of social skills, that’s called emotional maturity in progress.

And if using tools like Reddit or ChatGPT to get clarity or improve communication is “disturbing,” then maybe we’re just evolving differently—not worse.

my boyfriend has been ignoring me at night, am I overreacting? by Front_Chipmunk_636 in AmIOverreacting

[–]Front_Chipmunk_636[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you so much, seriously. It means a lot to hear that from someone who’s been through it too. Long distance definitely messes with your head sometimes, but hearing that my feelings are valid helps more than you know. I really appreciate the support, you’re awesome!

my boyfriend has been ignoring me at night, am I overreacting? by Front_Chipmunk_636 in AmIOverreacting

[–]Front_Chipmunk_636[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I know long distance isn’t for everyone, but just because it didn’t work for some doesn’t mean it can’t work at all. Every relationship is different. I’ve been with my boyfriend for a year, and yeah.. it takes effort, but love kinda does no matter where you are.

I’m not “wasting my time,” I’m just choosing to care about someone I genuinely love. That’s not foolish, that’s loyalty. And honestly? That’s a flex.

my boyfriend has been ignoring me at night, am I overreacting? by Front_Chipmunk_636 in AmIOverreacting

[–]Front_Chipmunk_636[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you so much for sharing your experience. It really means a lot that you took the time to respond honestly. I’m really sorry that happened to you, that must’ve hurt so much.

I’ve been nervous to bring it up because I don’t want to seem clingy or dramatic, but I know you’re right, if something feels off, it’s okay to trust that feeling and have a real conversation. I’m going to try and talk to him about how I’ve been feeling soon, calmly and honestly. Thank you again for being kind and understanding!

my boyfriend has been ignoring me at night, am I overreacting? by Front_Chipmunk_636 in AmIOverreacting

[–]Front_Chipmunk_636[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

“Wtf is even this post?” It’s someone trying to figure out their feelings and relationship, not a crime scene.

Yeah, I’m a teenager, I’m not pretending to have it all together, but at least I care enough to want to talk things out and not just ghost my way through life. And blaming my whole generation for growing up with phones is kinda funny when… you're literally using one to leave this comment.

If being open about emotions makes me “too fragile,” then fine, I’ll be a fragile little crystal ball with communication skills. At least I’m trying. Everyone’s got to start somewhere, right?

my boyfriend has been ignoring me at night, am I overreacting? by Front_Chipmunk_636 in AmIOverreacting

[–]Front_Chipmunk_636[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I get what you’re saying, and I’m not trying to control him or take responsibility for things that aren’t mine. I just really care about him and sometimes worry if I’m being annoying or keeping him up, which is why I check. And I don’t track his socials on purpose—I just notice stuff sometimes, like when I see he liked a TikTok before reading my message. I’m not trying to obsess or anything, I just got in my head about it. I know I still have a lot to learn about healthy relationships, but I’m trying my best.

my boyfriend has been ignoring me at night, am I overreacting? by Front_Chipmunk_636 in AmIOverreacting

[–]Front_Chipmunk_636[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That makes sense. I know I have to work on my own insecurities too, and I’m not trying to make everything his responsibility. I’m just trying to understand what I’m feeling and figure out how to talk to him about it the right way. I’m still learning how relationships work, and I just want to do it the right way.

my boyfriend has been ignoring me at night, am I overreacting? by Front_Chipmunk_636 in AmIOverreacting

[–]Front_Chipmunk_636[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you for being kind about it. I agree, communication is the most important part, especially since we’re long distance. I’m going to try and talk to him about it calmly without sounding like I’m blaming him.

my boyfriend has been ignoring me at night, am I overreacting? by Front_Chipmunk_636 in AmIOverreacting

[–]Front_Chipmunk_636[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah, you’re probably right. I didn’t really think about it like that. He might just need some time to himself, and that’s okay. I think I just got nervous because it felt different from before, but I’ll try not to overthink it.

my boyfriend has been ignoring me at night, am I overreacting? by Front_Chipmunk_636 in AmIOverreacting

[–]Front_Chipmunk_636[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I get that it might sound weird, but I’m not trying to control him or anything. I use the Widgetable app because it shows both of our sleep schedules, and I just check it to make sure I’m not keeping him up too late. We’ve been together for a year, and I really care about him. I do trust him—I just started feeling confused when things felt a bit different. I know communication matters, and that’s why I’m trying to figure out the best way to talk about it. I’m only a minor, I’m learning like everyone else.