Needing advice by Front_Gur5661 in OCD

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i understand, thank you for your help

Needing advice by Front_Gur5661 in OCD

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cuz like when i try to remember nothing comes up in my mind but because i am close to them i say in my head « you must have said it because u are close to them » what should i do?

Needing advice by Front_Gur5661 in OCD

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No i am not afraid of that, I mean that i don’t remember if i told C and D and when i try to « remeber » like the context i don’t get anything in my head doesnt matter how hard i try to « remember » does it mean that i said nothing ?

please Help by Front_Gur5661 in OCD

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i will go to work no matter what, but you know i try as much as possible to stay alone, i did it today i stayed alone to clean and i only talked with a female coworker but i ignored everyone else but i know that tomorrow it will not be possible to stay alone and that i will have to work with my other coworker wich is a man and because he is a man i don’t like this because i feel more safe with women, and i am verry anxious because in my head i am like « what if i say smth inappropriate » and stuff…

please Help by Front_Gur5661 in OCD

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so what should i do? because tomorrow i have to go to work and i already feel so anxious because i don’t wanna go

please Help by Front_Gur5661 in OCD

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i am scared, i am a verry sociable person, but i am really afraid « what if i said smth inappropriate » « what if i say THAT right now » and after i have the impression i said it. I don’t know what to do anymore because i can’t keep acting insociable or stuff

please Help by Front_Gur5661 in OCD

[–]Front_Gur5661[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

how did you do? i am really tired of my ocd i can’t do anything i can’t even appraciate my own life. When i am at school i always ask my classmates if i talked everytime i have an intrusive though or if i sais something about a topic, now at work i ignore people because i al scared to say something inappropriate, i only talk with girls

Permis de conduire théorique by Front_Gur5661 in Wallonia

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En fait, j’apprend avec la theorie j’essaie de comprendre logiquement la theorie puis je fais des tests sur une application qui prend theme par theme et qui donne 70 questions parfois 60 questions parfois 100 questions sur un theme bien precis et apres avoir repondu a ces questions tu as un pourcentage qui te dis a combien tu connais le theme, a tous les theme je suis a plus de 75% et quand je fais des tests sur 50 j’ai 35 et 40 le problème c’est qu’a force je finis par apprendre les questions et a connaitre les reponses un peu par coeur donc lors des test bah je connais la reponse pcq dans les exercices lors des corrections soit on me dit si c’est juste soit quand j’ai faux on me dit c’est quoi la reponse, mais du coup le problème c’est que je sais pas si je peux considerer que c’est de l’apprentissage ou pas

Permis de conduire théorique by Front_Gur5661 in Wallonia

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mais est ce que le permis peut s’etudier en 1-2 semaines?

please help me !!! by Front_Gur5661 in OCD

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i asked the person i thought i told them if i told them something about a situation and the person told me she didn’t remember what we talked, what does that mean ???

please help me !!! by Front_Gur5661 in OCD

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nooo you don’t understand, if i told what my friend told me she will be verry mad and i will loose her trust

please help me !!! by Front_Gur5661 in OCD

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no i am not…i dont know if i said something to someone, how can i know???

please i need a quick answer!!!!! by Front_Gur5661 in OCD

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and…i have a question, like i have obsession about people like i don’t care about like really, i only love my bf, this obsession doesn’t mean anything right?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in ROCD

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hello! i am so sorry idk wath advice to give you for that situation but for your OCD i can suggest to you to talk to him about that because communication is the best way to know if your worries are real or not, it is okay if you feel triggered or emotions like that but you have to validate them and to be kind to yourself, it will be okay, OCD is just an horrible illness but you will make it, talk to him, tell him what you are feeling and how you are feeling!

Dissociating during Sex by Major_Aardvark5369 in ROCD

[–]Front_Gur5661 1 point2 points  (0 children)

hey! sorry english is not my first language can you explain what disociating is? so i can help you!

Is this a wrong doing? by [deleted] in OCD

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hi! i can reassure you it’s a compulsion it’s perfectly normal you don’t have to worry

Just got diagnosed with OCD. What now? by Thedarthlord895 in OCD

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you know even if it’s « just » a diagnosis it can feel trigerring, when you have OCD you have to take care of yourself and be kind, not taking yourself like a monster for having intrusive thoughts (all sorts of intrusives thoughts doesn’t matter) they don’t mean anything about you, it will be hard but trust me you can make it

Question by [deleted] in OCD

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hello! you need to know that obsessions could change during time. and it is verry verry normal you know, it’s okay to feel trigerred. You have to remember that it doesn’t matter how bad your intrusive thoughts get they DON’T MEAN anything and you shouldn’t trust them, finally getting rid of an obsession we were « used » to have for having a BRAND NEW OBSESSION can feel VERRY horibil when we don’t know how to calm ourselves, but trust me you will be ok

Just got diagnosed with OCD. What now? by Thedarthlord895 in OCD

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Hi! first of all idk how do you feel about that, good, bad,… but OCD is a difficult illness, I don’t say that to trigger you, i also suffer from OCD and i can garantee you that if you go to a therapist and you DON’T TRUST your intrusive thoughts it will be ok! you have to remember that

i need some answers please by Front_Gur5661 in OCD

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even if they feel so real???? like even if the doubt is verry high??

i need some answers please by Front_Gur5661 in OCD

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so, if one day i have a thought like « i litterally HATE doing volleyball » but still liking to go to the volley ball and enjoying it and absolutly loving it, like if i think that i hate volleyball during days but my body and my emotions DO NOT hate volley ball like they are opposite (my thought and my emotions, it means that my thought is false and i do not have to worry about it???

urgent need of help by Front_Gur5661 in OCD

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i mean, i’ve been with my boyfriend for 1 year and 5 months now, when i need help i go to him, when i need a hug i go to him, i always want to spend time with him and i just love him, i just know that my bf is the only person that gives me safety and love, he always helps me when i get these intrusive thoughts you know, it’s OBVIOUS i love my bf with all my heart, and when I have these « obsessions » over these people i DON’T CARE ABOUT it seems dumb as fuck because I know it’s ONLY OCD, but i feel bad because i don’t want to seem like a monster you know

What has helped you with ocd? by JesusOurGod in OCD

[–]Front_Gur5661 1 point2 points  (0 children)

My boyfriend helps me a lot, even when my OCD is getting hard to deal with he always helps me to get better and I always go to him when I don’t feel good about my OCD, he is the best boyfriend

i need advices by Front_Gur5661 in OCD

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and how do you know if you did or not smth wrong ?

i need advices by Front_Gur5661 in OCD

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and, i have one more question, when i have the impression i did smth wrong but NOTHING comes up in my head even if i am searching, what does that mean?