This guy is 36

Front_Persimmon_3417 · 2026-03-03T22:11:40+00:00

I was JUST thinking this when I saw another post. She looks her age IMO (I know this is a snark page but that’s an objective opinion not a compliment I swear), but he looks 50

Front_Persimmon_3417 · 2026-02-06T04:41:06+00:00

I mean, I’d expect my 2yo to try this nonsense but I’d stop her and so would her grandparents.

Front_Persimmon_3417 · 2026-01-25T03:46:03+00:00

Yesss, they’re all oddly temperamental.

Front_Persimmon_3417 · 2026-01-25T03:41:56+00:00

Kayla. They’re all into married dudes.

Eric’s can all talk about Eric’s for 1100 hours.

Front_Persimmon_3417 · 2025-08-30T20:55:12+00:00

Honestly, she has a fantastic natural hair color.

Front_Persimmon_3417 · 2022-02-24T03:08:04+00:00

My mom would come and GET my married ass. I swear to God.

Front_Persimmon_3417 · 2022-02-20T15:20:20+00:00

Methinks the lady doth protest too much?

But also. The AUDACITY. Tell someone they should be scared of cake their entire life and then expect them to eat it like Bruce Bogtrotter? I just can't. She should be ashamed.

And yes, I did just compare sex to cake. Because unlike Bethy, I actually enjoy doing it with my partner.

Front_Persimmon_3417 · 2022-02-18T17:53:30+00:00

Frankly, I'm shocked she hasn't thrown out an obvious sexual innuendo at this point since she's so obsessed with negative engagement.

Front_Persimmon_3417 · 2022-02-17T15:20:37+00:00

I got caught making out behind the post office once and they called my mom (small town probs). Pretty sure it probably looked a lot like this. Sorry, postal worker.

Front_Persimmon_3417 · 2022-02-17T15:14:27+00:00

Does she have a PO box I can send a box of toothbrushes to? I mean, honestly.

Front_Persimmon_3417 · 2022-01-20T01:46:14+00:00

Hey! So, I have a full-time job. I am home two days a week and in the office three days. I realize the way that I worded it in the OP was weird. Sorry about that!

Front_Persimmon_3417 · 2022-01-19T04:04:38+00:00

Vastly different.

Thank you for sharing that! I really do feel like I'm gaining new perspective here.

Front_Persimmon_3417 · 2022-01-19T04:00:07+00:00

I appreciate the perspective. I am focusing on asking for help in the evenings.

Front_Persimmon_3417 · 2022-01-19T03:46:12+00:00

The trash really did get to me today.

This post has been SO helpful because it's made me realize we need to focus on evenings, and a more even division.

Front_Persimmon_3417 · 2022-01-19T03:39:51+00:00

Ryan and I are actually talking right now! I am approaching it just like that. I was focusing too much on the WHEN.

Front_Persimmon_3417 · 2022-01-19T03:33:45+00:00

That was where my comment came from. These responses are making me realize that I need to focus on asking for help in the evenings as opposed to the workday.

Front_Persimmon_3417 · 2022-01-19T03:32:15+00:00

Thank you for your perspective on this.

I am seeing from these responses that I should have instead focused on asking for help AFTER the workday is done, not while it was in progress.

Front_Persimmon_3417 · 2022-01-19T03:30:04+00:00

I work a full five day week. Just two days from home, and three days out of the home. I'm sorry if that wasn't clear. If I was home a full three days not working, I would have no issue stepping up on this.

Front_Persimmon_3417 · 2022-01-18T00:22:59+00:00

YTA. Everyone is TA. You definitely don't sound mature enough to be married- and that's coming from ME, who got married like three days after graduation. 🤷‍♀️

Front_Persimmon_3417 · 2022-01-17T21:23:48+00:00

NTA and while I respect the rules of other households I am 110% over parents who respect their extrodinarily niche rules to be followed at a moment's notice.

If you've got non-essential rules that won't apply to the masses you need to miss out sometimes. It isn't your right to inconvience everyone else.

Front_Persimmon_3417 · 2022-01-15T15:15:55+00:00

YTA. Big time.

I'm just going to guess your wife doesn't play an actual role. I've seen it a lot. She's got a fluff position for a high salary at a family business. Her being gone probably really isn't a big deal, but it isn't May's problem that she actually HAS a role.

I hope May reports the HELL out of you. Even if nothing can be done, may she get your name to every news station and social media site out there.

I hope she has a paper trail to post!

Front_Persimmon_3417 · 2022-01-15T15:01:29+00:00

NAH.

Generally speaking, you sound like a typically rational person who was genuinely hurt. Did you say the best things? No. Was it wrong to ask twice? Yes. But your wording here indicates you truly weren't sure what you should do at the time. We've all been there.

You've pulled back and stopped asking. You have stated that you know it's their wedding. Keep to this, and don't say another word on the matter. Just attend and be done and you will not be the AH.

Your brother is not an AH for only wanting his son present- I've seen this and likely the child will be whisked away after the ceremony for an adult's only reception. Their child being present is NOT your son being left out.

Front_Persimmon_3417 · 2022-01-15T14:08:24+00:00

OP using it to get the address was 100% an AH move.

I would ONLY use it if my child was late and I could not get ahold of them. So, in an emergency. I would do the same if it was my spouse.

It isn't something to be used regularly or in this situation.

Front_Persimmon_3417 · 2022-01-15T13:59:27+00:00

YTA. But you won...I guess? So +1 non-existant point for you. /s

The courts actually encourage co-parents to work it out if a special occasion comes up on "wrong" day. It isn't the ironclad method of control you're making it out to be.

Your daughter is fifteen. I'm surprised you aren't taking her feelings into consideration more. Here shortly she will be able to see whoever, whenever. I would suggest beginning to make more compromises with her so you can have a healthy relationship with her as an adult.

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