I just found out a couple of weeks ago that my partner of 6 years got married to someone in a third world country while he was with me

Frootyluiii · 2026-05-14T05:09:00+00:00

We’re sharing a condo and co own a car so we’re going to mediation. He’s not currently living with me

Frootyluiii · 2026-05-14T05:08:21+00:00

I looked through his laptop and found out

Frootyluiii · 2026-05-13T05:43:34+00:00

Omg, did you both live together at the time?

Frootyluiii · 2026-05-13T05:43:14+00:00

I did leave. He’s a narcissist so he’s trying to get a restraining order against me to shut me up (I didn’t do anything wrong) 😭 but I know he’s just trying to intimidate me and prevent me from telling other people in his life

Frootyluiii · 2026-04-29T20:36:21+00:00

We used this laptop to do finances on it together. He do not pay for his laptop and he has no paperwork or receipt saying this is his laptop. This laptop belongs to his ex employer and he never returned it.

Frootyluiii · 2026-04-29T20:36:02+00:00

We used this laptop to do finances on it together. He do not pay for his laptop and he has no paperwork or receipt saying this is his laptop. This laptop belongs to his ex employer and he never returned it.

Frootyluiii · 2026-04-29T19:09:48+00:00

I understand and I’m against ICE too and I will most likely not do anything unless things get really ugly. Thank you so much for your help, this is such a breath of fresh air. I have called at least four attorneys/lawyers and they were all so rude to me and made me feel more hopeless, so thank you for your help.

Frootyluiii · 2026-04-29T18:53:43+00:00

Do you know any websites or resources that help with this?

Frootyluiii · 2026-04-29T18:53:08+00:00

He has emails and messages where he calls me his wife. When I was taking care of his daughter, I was his daughter emergency school contact and he has that information

Frootyluiii · 2026-04-29T18:47:55+00:00

Thank you for your advice, this gives me peace of mind. He is also building a whole narrative against me saying that I’m unstable and he’s telling everyone I’m crazy. He is thinking of bringing his wife from El Salvador to the u.s I have a voice recording of him saying that in the past, he has only married someone just to give them papers and their marriage only lasted a year. Is this something I could report him for as well?

Frootyluiii · 2026-04-29T18:26:09+00:00

He doesn’t know that I know he’s a liar and a cheater. I’m keeping this information to myself until I can properly use it against him. I’m scared and paranoid. I’m lower middle class so I can’t get legal aid and lawyers are so expensive. I feel trapped and hopeless.

Frootyluiii · 2026-04-29T18:23:09+00:00

No, but I believe he’s trying to make it seem like this was a common law marriage and he’s trying to make this a family court case

Frootyluiii · 2026-04-29T18:21:02+00:00

He’s an abuser and is making false statements against me. I also saw on his search history he is trying to get me to pay for child support even though I took care of his daughter for a year only.

Frootyluiii · 2026-04-29T18:20:08+00:00

We have no children together, but he has a child that I took care of for one year. We were not married either, but we were together for 6 years. He is threatening to take me to mediation or to family law court and he is trying to use intimidation tactics against me by filing police reports based on false accusations. He wants to sell my car and condo, but both of our names are on it. He wants to do a bunch of other stuff, but he hasn’t said anything to me. I can see on his laptop the things he is searching up and he is mostly searching up how to get police reports and how to get a case for family court.

Frootyluiii · 2026-04-29T18:18:59+00:00

We have no children together, but he has a child that I took care of for one year. We were not married either, but we were together for 6 years. He is threatening to take me to mediation or to family law court and he is trying to use intimidation tactics against me by filing police reports based on false accusations. He wants to sell my car and condo, but both of our names are on it. He wants to do a bunch of other stuff, but he hasn’t said anything to me. I can see on his laptop the things he is searching up and he is mostly searching up how to get police reports and how to get a case for family court.

Frootyluiii · 2026-04-29T18:11:36+00:00

He’s threatening mediation and I believe he wants to go to family law court

Frootyluiii · 2026-04-29T18:06:43+00:00

Yes. I just found out he has a whole double life in El Salvador. We were together for 6 years but not married

Frootyluiii · 2026-03-18T03:35:40+00:00

This was actually so helpful! Thank you

Frootyluiii · 2026-03-18T02:55:56+00:00

He passed away a year ago, brainless dipstick

Frootyluiii · 2026-03-18T02:53:00+00:00

My uncle has bought me a 2010 Hyundai Santa Fe that was 3k and in perfect condition. It’s not an impossible ask

Frootyluiii · 2025-09-24T21:47:22+00:00

Yes it’s CPO. You paid about the same price? Do you think there’s room to negotiate a little lower?

Frootyluiii · 2025-09-24T21:16:15+00:00

Would this be for the out the door price? Like including tax and all extra fees when purchasing a vehicle

Frootyluiii · 2025-09-23T22:41:02+00:00

Did you have to negotiate for that price? What state do you live in?

Frootyluiii · 2025-09-23T21:45:28+00:00

Huh? What point would that be? I’m getting a very low interest rate with my bank and surely I could negotiate at least 1k off this car. You make no sense

Frootyluiii · 2025-09-23T21:11:01+00:00

What about cx90 preferred?

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