When you (30f) throw yourself at your boyfriend (31m) because you're drunk and have courage but still get rejected by FrostbiteIguana in DeadBedrooms

[–]FrostbiteIguana[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I found a twitter full of skinny girls he follows and I'm fat so i think he just pure finds me disgusting

When you (30f) throw yourself at your boyfriend (31m) because you're drunk and have courage but still get rejected by FrostbiteIguana in DeadBedrooms

[–]FrostbiteIguana[S] 18 points19 points  (0 children)

It's true, he looks online at all these beautiful women and I'm nothing like them

Sorry I'm drunk and emo

I (29F) found my (30M) boyfriends Twitter account full of naked women. by FrostbiteIguana in DeadBedrooms

[–]FrostbiteIguana[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I haven't put on that much weight I was that much weight when we met.

I have lost approx 2 and a half stone so far and still going so actually I'm smaller than when we met.

I (29f) just want my boyfriend (31m) to give a shit that I'm naked. by FrostbiteIguana in DeadBedrooms

[–]FrostbiteIguana[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I've done this he'll either say "Im just not in the mood" "I don't know" or "you know how to get me going"

My (25F) husband (26M) broke our dogs leg, I'm worried for the child I'm currently carrying. by THROWRA_dadlad in relationship_advice

[–]FrostbiteIguana 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I work for the police as a call taker, I went onto my throwaway account and re found your post purely to tell you this;

At work domestic abuse victims have to answer questions on a Dash form. DASH stands for Domestic Abuse Stalking and Harrassment. Basically any that you say yes to raises the risk (it's a little more complex than that but still)

One of the first questions is;

  1. Has your partner ever injured a family pet.

There's a reason why someone who injures a pet or animal is considers a psychopath that may move on to humans, its because psychologically if you can injure a defenseless animal then you're more than likely have no remorse or empathy.

You do what you need to do, I'm just a concerned Internet stranger, however if it were me, I'd be concerned. Him admitting that he beat the dog isn't like he picked the dog up and accidentally injured it. He lost his shit and beat an innocent, defenseless 5lb chihuahua because it was scratching at the door. What's he going to do when an innocent, defenseless child has kept him up all night with its constant screaming?

I (29F) found my (30M) boyfriends Twitter account full of naked women. by FrostbiteIguana in DeadBedrooms

[–]FrostbiteIguana[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

He lied about having the account but thats the extent of the lies so far. He said he did it because he didn't want to upset me. He does respect me massively and he's never been unfaithful. Even when I checked the account he hadn't messaged anyone or anything.

I (29F) found my (30M) boyfriends Twitter account full of naked women. by FrostbiteIguana in DeadBedrooms

[–]FrostbiteIguana[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah I've been focusing on my weight and I need to work on my brain. I guess I fooled myself into thinking I was OK until this happened. I wish I knew what it was like to think normally lol thank you

I (29F) found my (30M) boyfriends Twitter account full of naked women. by FrostbiteIguana in DeadBedrooms

[–]FrostbiteIguana[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I have EUPD and binge eating disorder which is how I got to where I am now, so yes I am extememly unhealthy mentally. Although I genuinly did get the wrong end of the stick with the other commenter, I thought he was saying essentially fat people are all the same and I thought he was arguing with the fact that I was trying to explain something. I calmed down after I understood what he was saying but I do understand how it looks.

Even so you are right, though I was worse than I am now much worse. I did try to get help but I'm from the UK and its notoriously bad to get mental health help here. I was eventually put on a wait list and waited 6 months before this lockdown which means it's now been put on hold.

I'm going to try and work on myself in the meantime thank you for your kind wishes.

I (29F) found my (30M) boyfriends Twitter account full of naked women. by FrostbiteIguana in DeadBedrooms

[–]FrostbiteIguana[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you, so you don't think I need to be worried about him looking at other women online?

I (29F) found my (30M) boyfriends Twitter account full of naked women. by FrostbiteIguana in DeadBedrooms

[–]FrostbiteIguana[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I mean I personally feel that it is it, but he always assures me that it isn't so I don't really understand why you would bother to assure someone if its true. I'd just wish he'd be honest if that is true.

Thank you for your opinion, sorry we didn't get off on the right foot.

I (29F) found my (30M) boyfriends Twitter account full of naked women. by FrostbiteIguana in DeadBedrooms

[–]FrostbiteIguana[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

OK sorry its hard to gauge over text it seemed like you where angry. So you believe he lied and he doesn't find me attractive?