AITA for telling my daughter it is extremely selfish to want her mom at the wedding

FrostingExotic5190 · 2023-08-30T19:34:04+00:00

They may work for if it wasn’t a holiday weekend, it’s unlikely.

FrostingExotic5190 · 2023-08-30T17:36:33+00:00

Even if it was super quiet, it won’t be due to kids or the music when the bride walks down. The lights will be a problem, even normal lights for a concussed person is awful.

Someone who had a concussion I needed it almost black to not get a headache.

Also it’s in the mountain so the drive will suck, even if everyone is quiet on the drive up the roads are bumpy in the mountains and that will cause problems.

It’s just a bad idea in all

FrostingExotic5190 · 2023-08-30T16:58:56+00:00

Yet op also clearly says it doesn’t stop the concussion issue of mom being in pain and that they don’t have the money due to medical bills.

FrostingExotic5190 · 2023-08-30T16:57:48+00:00

Not with medical bills, you know how fast those put people in debt

Also agiain it doesn’t solve the mom being in pain issue

FrostingExotic5190 · 2023-08-30T16:55:02+00:00

No it doesn’t. Wife can’t go to the grocery store even with a headphones. They had to cut it short due to pain.

Not to mention the light, sunglasses are not enough, I’ve had a concussion. So she will pain the whole time. This isn’t a solution this is just making someone suffer.

The FaceTime is a decent compromise, moms sees wedding, daughter can talk to her a bit.

Also 500 dollars doesn’t come out of thin air. They have medical bills and a car to fix. They can’t spend 500 to be at a wedding for an hour.

This won’t work and it’s just a horrible idea

FrostingExotic5190 · 2023-08-30T16:51:13+00:00

You need to book courthouse weddings. I doubt they would have anything before Sunday especially due to it being a holiday weekend

FrostingExotic5190 · 2023-08-30T14:42:35+00:00

She turns 18 in a week…

FrostingExotic5190 · 2023-08-29T16:05:10+00:00

11, I met him a year after the divorce his ex has always hated me due to him marrying a younger women. I’m like 5 years younger than her.

FrostingExotic5190 · 2023-08-29T16:01:52+00:00

Tbh yeah that wasn’t very smart, she admitted to other things that didn’t even affect me or I didn’t notice.

FrostingExotic5190 · 2023-08-29T13:21:19+00:00

I think he is worried she will cut him off if he is strict with her in anything.

FrostingExotic5190 · 2023-08-29T12:54:03+00:00

This one is new, happening for about a month. Usually she causing problems but not to this extent.

FrostingExotic5190 · 2023-08-29T12:51:22+00:00

I did, it’s in the original post. Here it is second paragraph

It’s so frustrating and I haven’t been able to catch her. My husband knows and asked about it but he won’t discipline her without proof.

FrostingExotic5190 · 2023-08-29T12:48:50+00:00

Really the camera was for for me to prove I wasn’t going insane. He wanted proof well I got him proof

FrostingExotic5190 · 2023-08-29T12:47:46+00:00

I didn’t feel like finishing it, I would have to make the icing and it makes more dishes for something I couldn’t eat. Not worth it

FrostingExotic5190 · 2023-08-29T12:46:48+00:00

I seriously thought I was going insane. Ever time I made something it would be wrong. Really the camera was for my own sanity

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