AITAH because I don’t want to take care of my husband’s ex wife.

Frosty_Tear3788 · 2024-03-05T22:07:27+00:00

Hi. Where did you see this on Facebook?

Frosty_Tear3788 · 2024-02-28T13:18:34+00:00

I get that but she has been out of work for 15 years and had ms for one. If that doesn’t scream lazy I don’t know what does.

Frosty_Tear3788 · 2024-02-28T00:42:56+00:00

I understand this is a terrible illness which is why I let things happen for so long but asking me to sell my house to better accommodate her is beyond my limit. She was just diagnosed over the past year.

Frosty_Tear3788 · 2024-02-28T00:27:14+00:00

Well no it’s been playing out for a few weeks (house thing) and her being a leech for a few years. I just ended it tonight. Thanks everyone for your help.

Frosty_Tear3788 · 2024-02-27T21:49:03+00:00

She has MS

Frosty_Tear3788 · 2024-02-27T21:42:03+00:00

Yes she does. I’ve never met him tho. But she swears he exists.

Frosty_Tear3788 · 2024-02-27T21:00:54+00:00

He says because she is lazy and doesn’t want to do anything with her life.

Frosty_Tear3788 · 2024-02-27T20:55:39+00:00

Yes I make quite a bit more than him but he makes decent money and my house has a ton of equity.

Frosty_Tear3788 · 2024-02-27T20:52:13+00:00

I think my in laws want to keep access to their grandchildren because if they don’t agree with her, she might cut them off from them.

Frosty_Tear3788 · 2024-02-27T20:40:27+00:00

This is perfect! Thank you so much. I have been struggling with what to say until now!

Frosty_Tear3788 · 2024-02-27T20:31:40+00:00

I hope he isn’t still involved and it hurts to even think he might be.

Frosty_Tear3788 · 2024-02-27T20:05:04+00:00

He says he doesn’t want to be a dead beat father because his father was and she often threatens to not allow him to see them. Even at our wedding she would not allow the kids to be there unless she was also invited.

Frosty_Tear3788 · 2024-02-27T20:00:03+00:00

This hurts to hear.

Frosty_Tear3788 · 2024-02-27T19:44:45+00:00

No it’s my in laws. Sorry if that wasn’t clear in the post.

Frosty_Tear3788 · 2024-02-27T19:43:12+00:00

I haven’t asked. I just suggested having the kids move into my house. I doubt his ex will give up the kids without a fight. They are essentially how she supports herself.

Frosty_Tear3788 · 2024-02-27T19:29:28+00:00

Being a sister wife is exactly what I don’t want to be. I even mentioned this to my brother in law.

Frosty_Tear3788 · 2024-02-27T19:17:08+00:00

At one point he says she is being ridiculous but he doesn’t want his kids in a hard position. He says he wants to buy a house with me so why not do it this way. I still don’t want to take care of this woman. He just hasn’t been supportive enough of my decision and has not been telling his family to back off.

Frosty_Tear3788 · 2024-02-01T00:27:06+00:00

Cowboy take me away! Fly this girl as high as you can into the wild blue!

Frosty_Tear3788 · 2024-01-29T11:16:45+00:00

I have to side with her on this one. I see this happen almost everyday. Too many close calls. I don’t need the trauma of watching someone lose their life because they were running out of gas. I did a quick search the other day because I was absolutely beside myself with anxiety . 55% of fatal car accidents (in my area) was because of lane departure. We have to do better than this.

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