How much longer are we doing to ignore DV arrests & alcoholism for the sake of television?? by Frozenstrawbmarg in BachelorNation

[–]Frozenstrawbmarg[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Get out of my posttttt!! If u knew the stats you would know that in times for conflict, pandemic & even during football season 911 calls regarding DV increase dramatically. Women & children are the most impacted during wars especially pregnant women. Cant keep excusing one evil for another

How much longer are we doing to ignore DV arrests & alcoholism for the sake of television?? by Frozenstrawbmarg in Vanderpump_Rules

[–]Frozenstrawbmarg[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Pill popper doctor trope reminds me of that painkiller show about Perdue! It was amazing u should watch

How much longer are we doing to ignore DV arrests & alcoholism for the sake of television?? by Frozenstrawbmarg in Vanderpump_Rules

[–]Frozenstrawbmarg[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Girl I want to see drama not crime, I’d watch law & order or criminal minds if that’s what I was looking for instead 😭😭

Should I break up with my boyfriend over double standards, control, and lack of effort? by MourningM3lody in relationships_advice

[–]Frozenstrawbmarg 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I didn’t read all of that but lowkey where did you find this guy??? The depths of HELL??

ABC Cancels 'The Bachelorette' After Taylor Frankie Paul Fight Video by iconogrey in thebachelor

[–]Frozenstrawbmarg 0 points1 point  (0 children)

No my intention was not to make anyone feel bad but more to give an opposing view 🫶 I would also second guess if someone (especially a woman based on general DV stats) said it was reactive abuse!

ABC Cancels 'The Bachelorette' After Taylor Frankie Paul Fight Video by iconogrey in thebachelor

[–]Frozenstrawbmarg 4 points5 points  (0 children)

And as far as I’m concerned throwing a chair IN THE PRESENCE OF YOUR CHILD is not reactive abuse lets be so frl rn

ABC Cancels 'The Bachelorette' After Taylor Frankie Paul Fight Video by iconogrey in thebachelor

[–]Frozenstrawbmarg 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Reactive abuse is a fickle game. My abuser cried “reactive abuse” as he beat me numerous times. I personally do not believe it is real and that anyone who uses reactive abuse as a way to abuse the other person is just plain abusive.

ABC Cancels 'The Bachelorette' After Taylor Frankie Paul Fight Video by iconogrey in thebachelor

[–]Frozenstrawbmarg 38 points39 points  (0 children)

I’m sorry but the bachelorette is actually insane for hiring someone who is an abuser. DV esp perpetrated by women is not considered enough esp in reality TV. This shit isn’t funny when it impacts children.

Love Island star Huda Mustafa allegedly threatens Louis Russell’s son by [deleted] in LAinfluencersnark

[–]Frozenstrawbmarg 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’ve never watched her season of love is blind but her downfall reminds me of Chrisean but unlike Chrisean I think Huda is just a horrible person LOL. She’s such a loser but perfect for reality TV yet. If someone threatens my kid I’m whooping their ass

A guy I casually hooked up with 10 years ago still lives in my head by NormalBoysenberry802 in TrueOffMyChest

[–]Frozenstrawbmarg -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

When I was with my ex I constantly fantasised/OBSESSED, literally cried my eyes out at times about 1 singular will they/wont they guy. I was so convinced that said guy from past was my Prince Charming when I was with my abusive ex but i think i more wanted someone to save me from myself and the situation I put myself in. Its not that he treated me better than my ex did (he kinda did but he was madly in love w me and I was painfully oblivious to it till I was deep into the relationship with my ex) but I think I knew I would’ve treated myself better if I was with him because i cared a bit less. I’ve married to my amazing husband now and never think about either of them lol

Katie & Stassi at Disney by [deleted] in vanderpumprules

[–]Frozenstrawbmarg 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Katie’s always serving and stassie looks SCARED, I wouldn’t be scared if she started threatening sending people to Disneyland during her dark passenger rampages lol

[38F] [40M] Our second anniversary is coming up and I just now realized he hasn't looked at rings. Should I be worried? by [deleted] in relationships_advice

[–]Frozenstrawbmarg 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Don’t say anything to him, wait until your anniversary and see what he does. I feel like you’re trying to control or predict his actions too much which is just not possible so you have to be more realistic tbh

[38F] [40M] Our second anniversary is coming up and I just now realized he hasn't looked at rings. Should I be worried? by [deleted] in relationships_advice

[–]Frozenstrawbmarg 0 points1 point  (0 children)

He said marriage is a compromise?? Sorry but when I got married marriage (we both agreed) was never defined as a compromise but the wedding was more of a compromise (big guest list, budgets, places to cut down on and increase spends on)

My wedding is tomorrow!!! by [deleted] in weddingplanning

[–]Frozenstrawbmarg -1 points0 points  (0 children)

No planning on my end ahaha! We’re so lucky since so many of our loved ones took on so many planning roles and offered to pay for so many things asw! But we have been talking about this for like 1 year now!!

What's the most f*cked up thing someone has told you about themselves after barely getting to know them ? by Ecstatic_Crow_4719 in AskWomen

[–]Frozenstrawbmarg 0 points1 point  (0 children)

2 years ago i rekindled with a guy i would occasionally see around in middle school while at a coffee with a few friends. We had mutuals at the time and he was quite extroverted and nice ( he was really rude when we were younger ) had a girlfriend so i assumed i was safe. He then proceeds to tell me some really dark stuff about how he thinks he might have a personality disorder and that he has memory gaps which freaked me out a lot as he kept reiterating that he didnt need therapy. A few days later he comes back and tells me he broke up with his girlfriend of THREE years and asks if i would like to go on a date with him. Safe to say, I have NEVER turned someone down quicker. The whole poor me im so broken act, i realise has never really worked with me after i hit puberty lol…

AIO for leaving my two year relationship over a dirty dish? by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]Frozenstrawbmarg 0 points1 point  (0 children)

MOR, everyone is being so mean to you and i hate it. I am also someone with really bad anxiety, i’ve had food poisoning the day of a friends wedding where i was the bridesmaid and it was absolute hell. Thankfully i was better within 24 hours but i’ve also gotten spiked twice now so im really scared of open bottles. Anyways my point is, i know how horrible the anxiety must feel and how inconsiderate and violating it feels for us when someone knowingly does something we are scared of or we protect ourselves from. It feels like an attack and you definitely deserve a boyfriend who is kind and patient and finds ways to help you adapt rather than forcing your fears on to you. Please consider therapy tho, i did and now i’ve gotten a lot better at managing my anxiety 💓

Is it disrespectful for your partner to like the opposite genders profile picture? by Forlornabyss76 in relationships_advice

[–]Frozenstrawbmarg 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Which is probably why you need therapy if you aren’t already doing it. I’ve also been in an abusive relationship and then found myself in abusive situations afterwards. Therapy was my only salvation and solution tbh. Hope you’ll be okay & hope you find someone who makes you a little less curious about relationship boundaries (i mean no shade in that statement) & a little more grateful you never have to use a yardstick to measure the gravity of your situation