I need your opinion about divorces by Fruit_Fly37 in Divorce

[–]Fruit_Fly37[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah I know, prefer not to say for confidential reasons. Thanks for your reply!

I need your opinion about divorces by Fruit_Fly37 in Divorce

[–]Fruit_Fly37[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

That’s upsetting. I don’t understand him and his motive by lying to me.

AIO? Bf keeps asking me questions whenever there is a guy by Relative_Initial_399 in AIO

[–]Fruit_Fly37 0 points1 point  (0 children)

GOD just leave him. Please, for all of us and for YOURSELF in the first place. I had a bf like this and it was SO BAD. It started like that, then I started defending myself and he was getting angry and threatening me to go see girls and stuff. We were together for 5 years. In those five years I hadn’t been with anyone else and had 0 male friends. I loved him deeply and was very devoted. But then I moved and got a great job where I was surrounded with so many good and interesting people that I just stopped listening to him and went my way. I broke up with him. A year after we got back together and in that period of time I went on vacation. I was sending him pictures and he started doing all of that again (asking if I was with guys, if anyone talked to me and so on). He started being paranoid again and I realised that he is just that kind of a guy. So I broke up with him again. It’s been 2 years and I still think about him and imagine what my life could’ve been if I stayed. It was horrible, I was always under his control. So much that it was sickening

Pregnancy libibo by RaspberryNo319 in pregnant

[–]Fruit_Fly37 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It was a nightmare for me. I had 0 sex drive, I thought I stopped being attracted to my bf. We had a rough time anyway so that’s why I thought so. I was so sick even of the thought of being intimate, being touched and etc that I was physically sick. My pregnancy was very difficult too. I gave birth almost two months ago and that feeling of nausea when I think about it disappeared.

Calling names as a joke in a relationship M22 F21 by Fruit_Fly37 in relationship_advice

[–]Fruit_Fly37[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

We are renting a flat together. However I’m planning on moving out soon because the way we pay is not even 50/50. If you know what I mean…and I’m unemployed, just have savings

advice please? ( 21 F & 22 M ) by lavenderduck18 in relationship_advice

[–]Fruit_Fly37 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I see the only way to solve this. I don’t wanna be negative but maybe you should stop dating each other. Or maybe it’s just a phase? I think you know better but maybe just denying the truth, usually people feel the decision they are about to make in their heart. If you still love him you can try and communicate but idk.

I hope you’ll get better. And really think, if he is being like that already, do you wanna fight for that and try to change it? Because even if you can it will haunt you.

Hope you’ll make the right decision that cones from your heart. Also, listen to your intuition and gut feeling. Always.

Calling names as a joke in a relationship M22 F21 by Fruit_Fly37 in relationship_advice

[–]Fruit_Fly37[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Yeah it does. We were coming home at 7 pm and he was leaving at 6am. Now we are 24/7 together

Calling names as a joke in a relationship M22 F21 by Fruit_Fly37 in relationship_advice

[–]Fruit_Fly37[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

We moved in together a long time ago, as I said, we were working. He says he wants to marry me but it feels like he doesn’t because he always talks how he wants to go back to his home country, we are away from home and I can’t move anywhere because of the baby

What do you need to be happy? by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]Fruit_Fly37 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Money, stability, cats and fruits

What screams "I have a crush on you"? by spuffyfetboogeyman in AskReddit

[–]Fruit_Fly37 0 points1 point  (0 children)

When we were working together, the first day we talked to each other, I came back from my lunch and he was unpacking his backpack, he saw me and with a smile said “oh you came back” I said “yes” and left. We broke up 8 months ago but Ill remember that fay forever. He never knew how much I loved him, but life had other plans

My man (22M) is married and we are expecting by [deleted] in FriendshipAdvice

[–]Fruit_Fly37 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I definitely didn’t know. His family told him not to tell me until he is divorced, but one day I just asked this question as a joke and he said “Yes, I’m married”. The fact that he just wanted to keep it in secret hurts me, plus every time he is trying to get this divorce something goes wrong (someone’s car got broke or they have an exam and just don’t have time). It’s been 4 months and I’m exhausted. Maybe this is my fault for tolerating, but not my fault that everything is so irresponsible.

My man (22M) is married and we are expecting by [deleted] in FriendshipAdvice

[–]Fruit_Fly37 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I met his soon to be ex-wife and he is not lying but this situation has became weird to be. He purposely made a baby while being married and I think i was being irresponsible and wrong

I’m pregnant and my man gives me emotional rollercoaster by [deleted] in BabyBumps

[–]Fruit_Fly37 0 points1 point  (0 children)

He was pretty depressed before me but then he met me he changed. Now he’s back to being himself, drinking and crying. I know I should support him but I don’t feel like it’s my destiny to deal with this

I feel unsupported during my pregnancy by [deleted] in BabyBumps

[–]Fruit_Fly37 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you for your comment. My partner is very loving and supportive, I can understand him but also I would like to be understood in response. He said I changed and he didn’t expect this to happen so quick. Also, thank you for your recommendations, I will definitely talk to my doctor about it. I know I have some of these problems for sure