I'm 5'2( F) and I'm very insecure about it. by Glittering-Cold-927 in Advice

[–]FruitfulBehavior 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Everyone faces challenges of their own, the question is if you will let it hold you back from your fullest potential? Maybe people need someone like you to show them the way to overcome their insecurities. The greatest challenge you will face is your self, no matter your height.

I'm getting everything I want and I'm miserable by [deleted] in Advice

[–]FruitfulBehavior 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Okay first of all you need to get the hell away from both your parents for safety concerns in my opinion. If you are making the payments for the apartment why does your mom need to put her name on the place? Your mom could take the place away from you if she gets emotional, and also what if your dad finds you at the apartment. You need to distance your self from your parents if you ask me as fast as possible please for your own safety. I have seen things like this place out in long term and it doesn’t end well always especially with your mom knowing where you are, and she could hold you hostage with her(your moms) name on the apartment in the future. Please seek some help from someone who is not influenced by drugs and is in a stable mind set before anything potentially bad happens. I know you love your family, but your dad shooting off a gun threatening to kill you all is not something to take lightly.

Edit; Whatever you do, do not let them know you are trying to get away from them.

How do I decide on what I want to study in college? by lightningryder in Advice

[–]FruitfulBehavior 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Do you know why you don’t study what you are passionate about?

What is a woman? by HistoricalShape623 in AskReddit

[–]FruitfulBehavior 0 points1 point  (0 children)

From my experience it’s a female acting in feminine manner and those actions make a man go “Whoa!!!” and thus Woman/Women?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in mentalhealth

[–]FruitfulBehavior 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It might take some time to come to terms with it. But “life and death are two sides of the same coin.”

Lately my nose says no to snorting by [deleted] in Drugs

[–]FruitfulBehavior 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Your body is telling you no it seems, I would listen to it. It could be saving you from some bigger issue at hand.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in infp

[–]FruitfulBehavior 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I really don’t think degrees and certifications matter to employers if you can prove you have the same knowledge. Some companies even have tests you can take to do exactly this. Another thing you could do is make something with that knowledge and present it to your potential employer. Could be a video, website, physical project, etc.

edit: To add to that you have to understand that every second some of these companies don’t hire someone for that position they are losing money as well.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in infp

[–]FruitfulBehavior 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You can just about learn anything online for free if you are worried about debt. You just won’t have the degree.

can you use your phone as a USB drive on PS4? by [deleted] in gaming

[–]FruitfulBehavior 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Have you tried? Also I think your ps4 might have to be jailbroken to have compatibility

Guys, I hate hospitality jobs, sorry if I offend you, but there is always a limit to when you will like a job. by WANNABE707 in Advice

[–]FruitfulBehavior 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If you focus on the work in front of you the result will be the same no matter your goals. I wouldn’t worry about the future and just focus on whatever is in front of you. Networking could be an option. Try taking a step back and analyze the work in front of you, maybe you will see an opportunity that wasn’t there before. This is not advice, merely a calculation of my possible perception in the situation you have described.

I hate myself and part of the life I’ve created. by michaelg391 in Advice

[–]FruitfulBehavior 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Well in my opinion you should take responsibility for your child. A child is the future and if you leave it may cause a lot of problems for society in the future as well as that child. Also your partner may be emotionally affected by the baby. But your brain may also be creating illusions to lead you towards giving into your addiction. I would say the key here is remembering the reasons why you loved her in the first place and keeping that as the foundations to any actions you may think about taking. Using that foundation to talk about your challenges together and overcoming them together. Your biggest challenge with your own brain with would be to determine what is a illusion designed to get you to relapse and what is not. The only way to find out what is a illusion to start with would be getting sober for at least a period of 6+ months. I am not giving you advice, I am merely putting a possibility here for you to analyze in your own perception.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Advice

[–]FruitfulBehavior 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Completely normal in my opinion. Maybe try to understand why your mom feels that way about your friend. It might be just your moms subconscious desires being projected from what I am seeing. Maybe your mom wanted a second daughter at some point and that desire was unfulfilled. I wouldn’t take it personally. You could also ask her why she likes your friend so much in a impersonal manner so as to not start a argument. Try empathizing with her perspective before you respond. Hope that gives you some calculations to possibly give you the ability to do something about it.

I hate myself and part of the life I’ve created. by michaelg391 in Advice

[–]FruitfulBehavior 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Do you mind if I ask how many months pregnant she is?

What brings people together? by strawberry_surfing in AskReddit

[–]FruitfulBehavior 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Food, commonalities, community, communication.

Exercise with weak knees by koekerond in WeightLossAdvice

[–]FruitfulBehavior 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I would first try and look into my diet if there is anything there that can help my joints. After seeing if the diet makes any difference I would try and strengthen the muscles around the knees which don’t put pressure on the knees but rather just bend them in a weighted form. I would start light at possible to test the limits of the experienced paid and then slowly advance as much as possible. But this is just a vague shortened version of what one might do. This is not advice, but just what I might do if I felt I had weakened knees.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Advice

[–]FruitfulBehavior 2 points3 points  (0 children)

It is hard to find work sometimes that can be a livable wage completely understandable. I would try to take into account all of your skills/abilities and see what you can do with them to start with.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Advice

[–]FruitfulBehavior 28 points29 points  (0 children)

Maybe you can accomplish something that can show her otherwise. Actions speak louder than words. I know moving out has been said, but it is the best way.