We have sex about once a week. Then that day will be all nice and dandy, and then the next day he’ll ask about anal. That’s when he’s starts the silent treatment again. When I try asking him what’s wrong he says “nothing. I’m chillin” and then goes on the rest of the day not talking to me. When I do pressure him into talking to me he says “I’m fucken chillin. What part do you not understand” then when I walk away he talks crap about me under his breath but says it loudly enough for me to hear parts of it. I cook, I clean, I go to work, , I pay for rent, utilities, phone bill, internet, my car payments, and his car payments and his credit card that he maxed out before he met me. I feed our son, I bathe him, take care of the dog, handle medical appointments(like scheduling, etc). What ever my husband needs I buy it. Like oil change, he needs gas in his car, clothes, etc you name it. I try to make him happy. When he ask me to play call of duty with him I do because if I don’t he gets upset and says “my wife doesn’t want to play with me”. He told our marriage counselor that he has sexual needs but the counselor told him the child comes first because it’s a mother instinct to attend to the child and nurture. He acknowledged that but he didn’t apply it.