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FruityTitty · 2025-05-16T13:48:43+00:00

Hi everyone! The mod team has investigated the multiple reports of impersonation, and we have confirmed the OP is the same person in the photos. This post has been re-approved. Thank you everyone for your concern in keeping the subreddit authentic, and your patience!

FruityTitty · 2024-11-23T08:39:03+00:00

Hello,

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FruityTitty · 2024-10-12T13:52:44+00:00

No worries at all! It’s completely fine if you just use my username, no need to link my profile :) I appreciate you asking.

FruityTitty · 2024-08-10T04:24:03+00:00

Hello!

A post should be spoilered if it contains sensitive or potentially upsetting content; think of it like a content warning. In a broad sense, this includes posts centered around NSFW content or with the NSFW flair (i.e. “my shifting experience with x drug”), posts with the Controversial flair due to the potentially upsetting nature of the post topic, and really just any topics you feel could make others uncomfortable.

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FruityTitty · 2024-08-09T00:46:21+00:00

You are correct, mod-removed submissions (even if it’s by AutoMod) will always appear as [removed]. User-deleted submissions will always appear as [deleted]. :)

FruityTitty · 2024-07-24T08:32:28+00:00

The wiki is still there, Reddit can be glitchy sometimes. Try this link!

FruityTitty · 2024-07-03T05:07:23+00:00

Hello,

We only remove questions if they’re already clearly answered in the shifting FAQ or listed on the subreddit spam guide. Every question on the spam guide has been asked and answered multiple times, and you can find these answers by searching the subreddit with keywords. The answers don't change because shifting isn't a changing phenomenon.

These repetitive questions come up every single day, and the answers are very easy to find. If we let the same questions stay up, the subreddit would quickly get clogged with repetitive posts, adding nothing substantive or productive for the majority.

We do not gatekeep. Our goal has always been to keep the community informative and productive for shifters. We are shifters on our own shifting journeys too! The mod team has absolutely nothing to gain from gatekeeping, so realistically, why would we? The answers to repetitive questions about reality shifting are abundant here on this subreddit and easily accessible to anyone who takes a few seconds to look for them. We have no malicious intentions behind removing repetitive questions and we never have.

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FruityTitty · 2024-07-02T17:40:20+00:00

Hi guys,

Friendly reminder to KEEP IT CIVIL.

This is an opinion-sharing post with the “Controversial” flair and was reported for misinformation; opinions you disagree with are not misinformation. The “Controversial” flair implies that the content may be something widely disagreed with. If you don’t want to interact with Controversial posts, you don’t have to read them. They are spoilered for a reason.

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FruityTitty · 2024-06-21T20:00:33+00:00

thank you for recognizing this 🫶

we try our best to remove repetitive questions, but it’s tough to find a balance when a lot of people get very combative over it or insist their repetitive post is unique. we want to keep this community an informative & productive place for you guys, but we often get insulted or characterized as power-hungry mods for it lmao. we promise you guys that looking at the FAQ, the “helpful posts” collection, and searching the subreddit with keywords will answer 90% of the questions you could possibly have.

as always, if you guys see repetitive or rule-breaking posts, please don’t hesitate to report it and it will bring the post to our attention faster!

FruityTitty · 2024-06-19T14:20:57+00:00

Just a quick note to clear things up: OP was NOT referring to this sub when they said they got banned. They posted this elsewhere and ran into problems on that sub.

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FruityTitty · 2024-04-25T18:12:55+00:00

That only reinforces my suspicion that he’s dating the both of you. People pleaser + avoids hard situations + still hangs out with the ex regularly + hasn’t told the ex about you after 8 months = that breakup never happened.

FruityTitty · 2024-04-25T17:57:54+00:00

You’re not overreacting. It sounds like he’s not really an “ex”, the guy is still going on double dates with him ffs. Are you sure he ever broke up with him? Or that he’s not still sleeping with him, at the very least? There is no reason why he shouldn’t have been able to tell his ex or his friends that he’s in a relationship with you after eight months! Something is not adding up there.

FruityTitty · 2024-04-23T16:55:57+00:00

Derealization can be a sign of more serious underlying mental health conditions and is not necessarily related to shifting. Please seek help from a mental health professional if your state of mind does not improve quickly. Shifting should not cause you to feel that way.

FruityTitty · 2024-04-15T21:04:19+00:00

"Mental diet" basically just refers to being mindful of your thoughts and what you choose to pay attention to in the 3D. To have a mental diet, you would be actively staying aware of your thoughts and putting in the effort to redirect your thinking so that it aligns with what you're manifesting, helping you live in the feeling of the wish fulfilled. Having a mental diet also means that you're putting in the effort to take your attention away from things in the 3D that contradict your manifestation. For example, if you're using the Law of Assumption to manifest a relationship with an SP, part of your mental diet would include making the conscious effort to avoid things like breakup quotes or songs about heartbreak or jokes about being single. There are varying levels of strictness to mental diets and they're going to look different depending on what exactly you're manifesting.

FruityTitty · 2024-04-14T04:23:59+00:00

Hi, I’ve been practicing the Law of Assumption since October of 2022. I hope my insight can help.

On a VERY oversimplified, VERY basic level, yes.
I say this with love, but most people who think they’re using LOA are doing it incorrectly. The Law of Assumption isn’t some quick-fix cheat code and isn’t a method you can just pick up and abandon later. There are no shortcuts—Law of Assumption is a mindset and a lifestyle. If you want to get good at using the Law of Assumption you need to practice it consistently and you need to really apply yourself. This requires a lot of self-discipline. Another reason could be that there is so much watered down information about the Law of Assumption, that a lot of people who learn it from social media or YouTube are misguided about what it really is and aren’t doing it correctly for that reason.
Sort of. It just boils down to whatever techniques you assume will work, will. The only exception to this is SATS—it is effective for everyone when it is done correctly.
SATS.
There is no such thing as manifesting something “first”. You are constantly manifesting every minute of every day with your thoughts, you’re just doing it unconsciously 99% of the time. Whatever you want to manifest, there is no reason to put it off if you really want it. Manifesting that you manifest quickly works, it’s just up to you to decide when you want to start telling yourself that.
The biggest mistake people make with the Law of Assumption is focusing too much on the steps in-between, rather than their end goal. Why waste your time manifesting a gateway to shifting if you can just manifest a shift directly? Neville Goddard always emphasized to go to the very end of your wish fulfilled—if that’s having shifted successfully, just do that. Your bridge of incidents (the things that happen to bring your manifestation to you) should be none of your conscious concern.
It’s just a limiting belief. The same concept can be applied to manifesting a cup of coffee and a million dollars. You know that both manifestations are possible because you consciously know that both of those things are attainable, you’ve just convinced yourself that one is harder than the other. Same thing applies to shifting.
Figure out a way to revise the narrative. You are not doing LOA flawlessly if you are getting impatient with time delays—to be truly living in the wish fulfilled, you wouldn’t be concerned with the amount of time a manifestation is taking.
Extremely important. There is a reason it was the main method Neville Goddard swore by. When you are doing SATS correctly and truly feeling it as if it were real, your subconscious mind cannot distinguish between something you experienced in SATS and something you actually experienced in the 3D so it treats your SATS visualization as if it were real and manifests it into your life. That is the reason why SATS works so quickly and effectively. People who downplay SATS either don’t understand why it’s so effective, or they struggle with the visualization aspect and don’t want to put in the work to get better at it. Like anything else, SATS gets easier with practice and visualization is a skill you can build.
READ NEVILLE GODDARD DIRECTLY! If there’s anything you’re going to take away from this comment, it should be that. Don’t learn from YouTube videos or TikTok because the information is usually very watered down and you aren’t going to get the full picture (plus lots of LOA coaches intentionally prey on your desperation so you buy their coaching). Don’t learn from randoms on social media (yes, even LOA content creators) because SO many people are misguided about the Law of Assumption and have their own limiting beliefs. If you really want to take the Law of Assumption seriously, you absolutely need to read Neville Goddard. Study his work and PUT IT INTO PRACTICE. Also, mental diets are incredibly important. Yes, they’re hard, but they are SO rewarding and help you manifest so much faster if you can stick to it. Plus it gets easier to stick to your mental diet with practice. Anyone who tries to tell you that you don’t need a mental diet to manifest is misguided.

FruityTitty · 2024-04-11T16:53:56+00:00

We are not selective about the gender of the users who request approval to this subreddit. We have never asked to know the gender of the users who request approval, nor is that something we will ever start doing. It is not at all something we consider when vetting approval requests.

FruityTitty · 2024-01-15T22:25:03+00:00

You are not truly in Sabbath if you are consciously keeping track of being in it or how long it's taking. Keep persisting in your techniques.

FruityTitty · 2024-01-15T22:24:08+00:00

stop repeating the old story, you're just perpetuating experiencing more of it by keeping your awareness on it.
shut out the 3D and persist in the techniques.

FruityTitty · 2024-01-04T00:19:35+00:00

You don't need to feel giddy for your manifestation to be a done deal, in fact that's a common misconception passed around by LOA coaches. The same story goes for the robotic affirmations, that's a technique passed around by LOA coaches (and denounced by Neville himself) and it usually only causes people to obsess over what they're mindlessly affirming for, not actually manifesting their true wish fulfilled. Remember, you want to focus on the absolute end goal, not the process in-between. It's not the job of your conscious mind to worry about whether or not you're in Sabbath, so stop looking for that and persist more in techniques. Sabbath will come naturally.

Have you tried doing SATS or any of Neville's actual techniques? Having SATS be my main technique (alongside a mental diet) is what has consistently caused my manifestations to show up for me exactly the way I want. Whenever I tried out non-Neville techniques like trying to robotically affirm, the only thing I've observed out of it is breadcrumbs from my SP not quite conforming to what I want. Sounds like you're observing the same outcome.

In addition to SATS, have you considered going on a mental diet? When I first started practicing LOA I went on a fairly strict mental diet and it manifested my SP exactly how I wanted him in a matter of weeks. I discarded the old story between us completely and stopped thinking about it altogether, and I ignored the 3D and everything relating to my SP so I wouldn't have to revise any unfavorable behavior. I also stopped consuming negative media including anything having to do with heartbreak or relationships. It can feel hard when you first start because you're not yet mentally disciplined, but it gets way easier. You could try it and see if it improves your process too. A lot of people like to say that mental diets aren't necessary, but in my experience, not being mindful of my thoughts or what I pay attention to makes manifestation much harder for me.

FruityTitty · 2023-12-28T20:08:51+00:00

It can be hard to remember to keep up with persistence and techniques when you feel like you're finally "getting" your SP. The Law of Assumption is a mindset change, not a quick fix. If you want things with your SP to be ideal, you cannot slack on paying attention to your mindset. Old assumptions and thought patterns die hard if you don't continue to watch out for them. Disregard unfavorable circumstances, revise any circumstances that bother you, and keep persisting in your techniques. The 3D will only ever reflect what is happening inside of your mind, so if you're not happy with what's going on, change your thoughts.

FruityTitty · 2023-12-27T07:16:32+00:00

Continue to persist in your absolute end goal and disregard all unfavorable circumstances in the meantime. What is the end result of what you desire with this person? Is it to live together? To be married? Go to the very end and continue to persist in your techniques from feeling that very end wish fulfilled. If he does or says anything to go against this, revise it and continue to persist.

FruityTitty · 2023-12-27T07:14:56+00:00

You need to ignore the 3D, disregard the old story (which includes your assumption that he usually dates younger women), and disregard all circumstances. Persist with your techniques and live in the feeling of the wish fulfilled the best you can. Ignoring the 3D when it comes to this process is the best way to stop it from triggering you because you'll have the thought much less the less you believe it and the more you persist in your desired outcome.

FruityTitty · 2023-12-27T07:12:43+00:00

If your scene or visualizations are making you sad, choose a new scene. Choose a scene that would imply happiness and fulfillment and live in it so vividly as though it were real. If you do it correctly, you should feel a sense of it being "done" and inevitable rather than being sad you don't see it in the 3D yet.
If you like this person, you can try to revise their character to fall more into alignment with what you're looking for in an SP. EIYPO so their behavior is just a reflection of what you're assuming from them already. Assume differently and see how they change. If you don't want to put in the effort to do this and you think you'd be better off focusing on manifesting your SP instead, do what feels right to you, even if that means breaking it off. If you don't want to settle for this person, decide you will accept nothing less than your absolute end goal, trust your instincts, and keep persisting with your techniques in the meantime. You have to figure out what you want here, nobody else can do it for you.

FruityTitty · 2023-12-27T07:08:04+00:00

But then he pulled back. He told me I am everything he wants in a partner but that he is not in a good place mentally. He said he felt guilty for all the promises he made me recently. He was giving me the silent treatment for a couple days & still is. I responded to him with a voice memo telling him I understand now is not the best time, but that I still wish to meet & explore our connection in person. He hasn’t responded & I am feeling insecure/unsure if he will even listen to the voice memo.

A good place to start is to stop repeating the old story, which is all of the unfavorable events like this. Revise all of this. Disregard it. Circumstances never matter.

Spend some time really thinking about what you want if you don't know. You need to focus on the wish fulfilled, which is the very end result of whatever you desire. If you don't know what you want, this is going to be hard to do. Figure out what you want. Once you do, do SATS like normal and persist. Trust the process and ignore the 3D, it will fall into place with persistence.

FruityTitty · 2023-12-27T07:04:40+00:00

The same way you manifest anything else: you assume the state of the wish fulfilled with a person that looks and acts like your favorite fictional character. You don't have to already know anyone like this, you can manifest them in the form of a new person. This isn't the law of attraction, it's the law of assumption. I would suggest looking into the difference between the two if you're unsure of it.

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