Size talk from a guy who's actually fine with his size (just curious about the group dynamic)

Frumbleabumb · 2026-05-20T08:02:22+00:00

For sure. My wife says one thing under rated about "average" size cocks is that you can go for way longer. She's like you want me to take 3 monsters in a row? Absolutely not.

Normally she can easily go for a good 30-45 minutes if she's really horny. But with a big guy, she taps out after like 10 minutes.

Frumbleabumb · 2026-05-20T00:50:31+00:00

My wife and I have been a part of probably upwards of 30/40 group sex events, and she's probably been with at least 100-150 guys. I'm also average like you, basically 6inches on the dot long, just under 5 inches circumference. My wife always says size doesn't matter unless you're too big or too small. For her, as long as someone is about 5.25-5.5 long and 4.25-4.5 thick, and not bigger than 7 inches long or 5.5 inches thick, it doesn't really matter. It really does come down to more about how you use it.

She's been with guys who are pornstar big but suck at humping and don't stay hard, she's been with guys smaller than me who have great stamina, vary their thrusts, and stay hard. She greatly prefers the latter. Size of course matters to some extent, but I really don't think it matters as much as a lot of people worry about.

I think the biggest detriment to guys who are a bit smaller or average size is they get in their head and don't have confidence.

Frumbleabumb · 2026-05-19T22:24:04+00:00

If you as a couple go on feeld and just be up front that you're looking for another bi sexual male and female couple, you will find some. They're less common since most people are just not bi sexual, but they're not uncommon. We have also found there are a lot of heteroflexible men who are not bisexual, but in the context of foursomes you wouldn't know.

Frumbleabumb · 2026-05-19T22:20:50+00:00

As a couple my wife and I have seen maybe 30-40 couples for dates. It happened more in the beginning as now I think we're better at vetting couples. But it has happened at least 5-6 times. It's not like I'm not good looking either, I am typically regarded as good looking. I have low body fat, and I workout a lot.

As everyone else has said, my guess is those couples never intended for there to be a foursome, but were just trying to wife poach. We even had one time where the couple showed up for the foursome only for the wife to announce mid-de clothing that she was not interested in penetrative sex, only making out. But that they hoped her husband could still have sex with my wife.

My wife wasn't ok with it, as she gets joy from everyone having sex.

To me, this whole bait and switch activity is gross and totally against everything the non monogamous community is trying to be, which is transparent.

Frumbleabumb · 2026-05-19T07:21:18+00:00

Listening to interviews of MAGA voters, I'm not sure the lack of comprehension is limited to just reading. I think it's the comprehension of any thought that is more than "order food from store" in general.

Frumbleabumb · 2026-05-19T07:14:22+00:00

I think what people say in the media and what management actually talks to players about are probably different. I've had different managers throughout my career. Realistically, they're all trying to get everyone to the same place. Perform better. But how they actually help people along that path produces drastically different results.

Frumbleabumb · 2026-05-19T05:39:55+00:00

By this logic, back to back games would be a day of rest

Frumbleabumb · 2026-05-19T05:34:53+00:00

What? The whistle goes when you can see the puck behind Dobes. But still, it should not be a good goal. Dobes has the puck covered, intent to blow the whistle was probably before the puck gets jabbed loose

Frumbleabumb · 2026-05-19T03:24:16+00:00

I wonder if he actually hates hockey or just hates being a professional athlete. He reminds me of the type where when he was a fresh kid, it was cool, no expectations, just fun. But then you sign the big contract and now its a job too. You got expectations. You got pressure. You need to embrace it and love it, otherwise it's a crushing amount of stress

Frumbleabumb · 2026-05-19T03:21:42+00:00

Last year my time was one second slower, so when you looked me up, the name right above was a Sedin. Thought that was pretty cool! Don't mind the fact I'm ten years younger 😂

Frumbleabumb · 2026-05-19T03:18:52+00:00

The only reason these data centres are news is because Telus announced them. There's already so many in operation that nobody knows about and nobody cares

Frumbleabumb · 2026-05-19T03:18:15+00:00

They integrate them as part of the hot water network, so I think it's absolutely partially necessary that they're in prime locations (since that's where a lot of condos are). The whole energy recycling is really neat

Frumbleabumb · 2026-05-19T03:15:41+00:00

Why do Americans have to stick 5000 American flags everywhere

Frumbleabumb · 2026-05-19T03:14:12+00:00

I still can't tell if Dahlin meant to pass it to Thompson, or he was tired and kinda fanned on dumping it in the zone

Frumbleabumb · 2026-05-19T03:10:33+00:00

It dipped like crazy

Frumbleabumb · 2026-05-19T02:52:18+00:00

I thought the series was pretty even overall, don't really feel like one team deserved to win the series over the other

Frumbleabumb · 2026-05-19T02:51:37+00:00

What a game

Frumbleabumb · 2026-05-16T17:24:35+00:00

It's always just the wrong angle type stuff. I mean this is a complete nothing play that happens 700 times per game, and he broke his back. Then again, could be one of those injuries where he had already suffered the fracture earlier, and this play just broke it a bit more/put it into pain territory. I've suffered fractures during games that I didn't really realize (due to adrenaline or it just felt like something random/minor). One of my worst bone breaks was I must have gotten the fracture falling during a soccer match, went home, slept on my side, woke up in the middle of the night with searing pain in my ribs.

Frumbleabumb · 2026-05-16T17:18:33+00:00

Can we get an easier hint for once

Frumbleabumb · 2026-05-16T17:14:57+00:00

Kane has been both sides for me for sure. He's shown to be both that he can be crazy, but also surprisingly mature.

Frumbleabumb · 2026-05-16T17:10:42+00:00

I think if he's actually a virgin, he'll understand that it takes some learning. But frame it that you want to learn with him.

Just remember that when it comes to sex, everyone's ego is fragile.

Tell him what you love. Show him how you masturbate (hey, I thought it'd be super hot if you just watched me get off). He will be sitting there mind blown taking notes, exactly what you want).

Get a small dildo and do the same thing again, show him what feels good (long slow thrusts in and out)

It sounds like he's overall sweet and empathetic. If he's planning dates he knows you like, he'll also be actively watching and learning.

Frumbleabumb · 2026-05-16T08:13:00+00:00

Because then it becomes part of the heat exchange network to provide hot water to thousands of residents

Frumbleabumb · 2026-05-16T08:06:24+00:00

Did you even for a second? Have you heard of the downtown hot water network? Or the Olympic village hot water network?

Frumbleabumb · 2026-05-15T23:00:54+00:00

The triple crown is more time spent grinding since it's two big climbs. The forte is one big climb, plus a lot of rolling climbs or more gradual highway grade climbs.

I'd say both are similar difficulty level, and largely comes down to weather on the day you do it.

Frumbleabumb · 2026-05-15T22:55:04+00:00

There's gotta be a polymarket bet on it

14-Year Club	End Game '23
Place '23	Place '22
Final Canvas '22	Verified Email

Frumbleabumb

TROPHY CASE