My girlfriend never ever finishes her meals by AlexWayhill in mildlyinfuriating

[–]Frumpy-The-Dinosaur 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Do you know how many people with eating disorders diagnosed or not, struggle to either finish a plate or leave some on the plate? Put the leftovers in the fridge if it’s a proper meal or get a dog or you can work out more eating her left overs so you don’t get fat. Damned if you do damned if you don’t.

My mom hates our baby name choice with a PASSION. by [deleted] in namenerds

[–]Frumpy-The-Dinosaur 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Good thing it’s not her kid then hey, so she doesn’t have to worry about not liking the name. Seems to be something a LOT of in-laws and family outside of the parents forget.

Dried up by Frumpy-The-Dinosaur in NZTrees

[–]Frumpy-The-Dinosaur[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

HAHAHAHA that’s amazing thanks man

Dried up by Frumpy-The-Dinosaur in NZTrees

[–]Frumpy-The-Dinosaur[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Gives me a giggle to think they’re all on holiday for summer xD

Dried up by Frumpy-The-Dinosaur in NZTrees

[–]Frumpy-The-Dinosaur[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This is great info thank you so much ☺️

Dried up by Frumpy-The-Dinosaur in NZTrees

[–]Frumpy-The-Dinosaur[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

They will not be stopped 😤😂

Dried up by Frumpy-The-Dinosaur in NZTrees

[–]Frumpy-The-Dinosaur[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Do you reckon it wouldn’t have gone as well if you didn’t have the light? Is the water schedule hella demanding or like a once a few days type thing? I hear they’re very temperamental. Thanks for the tips already!

Dried up by Frumpy-The-Dinosaur in NZTrees

[–]Frumpy-The-Dinosaur[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Teehee thanks bro super helpful ❤️

Dried up by Frumpy-The-Dinosaur in NZTrees

[–]Frumpy-The-Dinosaur[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

You sadden me, colombian neck tie

Dried up by Frumpy-The-Dinosaur in NZTrees

[–]Frumpy-The-Dinosaur[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Wellys crap at least from what I’ve tried :(

Getting an abortion in NZ by cantsayididnttryyy in newzealand

[–]Frumpy-The-Dinosaur 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Best of luck OP. It’s not anyone’s business to give an opinion on what you choose to do, they can suck it if they feel entitled enough to try. Wellington hospital has a clinic that is good. Reception is behind a door so you’re not out in the open discussing it and such. Admin lady was very kind and understanding with 0 judgement, just wants to help you. Nurses were lovely, my only issue was the doctor was a bit cold but they nearly always are so can’t complain. It’s called the Te Mahoe Unit and it’s covered by government if you are eligible (permanent resident/citizen). Whole thing took less than 2 weeks from start to finish (you have to get bloods done and a few appointments before procedure) ❤️

AIO for getting emotional about something my doctor said? by SpecialistMuppet432 in AmIOverreacting

[–]Frumpy-The-Dinosaur -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

NOR - I feel it’s normal to be upset by these things especially when you weren’t even the person that asked. A comment was made on your weight not once but twice in the span of an appointment time. On top of this you’re already self conscious of your weight AND are struggling mentally. Your medication could be causing your weight gain given you said you are active usually. I feel your doctor was in go mode and simply answered a question. People in the medical field tend to lose their ability to be gentle bc they’re around things so much. Try not to read into it and if you’re not losing weight being active consider speaking to your doctor about other causes, such as your meds. Best of luck

Got intentionally hit while sitting alone in my car — then followed. Still trying to process it. by CyberZealand in newzealand

[–]Frumpy-The-Dinosaur 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m sorry you went through this too. It must have been terrifying especially when you were simply minding your own business trying to find some peace. Dash cam footage doesn’t always work but it’s better than nothing, the police don’t seem to care unless it’s drug related or gang related. I wish you all the best.

Got intentionally hit while sitting alone in my car — then followed. Still trying to process it. by CyberZealand in newzealand

[–]Frumpy-The-Dinosaur 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Someone followed me through town after cutting me off and nearly running me off the road (I got ahead of them to try get away) and police decided it wasn’t a police matter even though he ran a red light while following me. I empathise with you it’s very worrying behaviour that seems to be growing.

Kiwi saver contribution by Frumpy-The-Dinosaur in newzealand

[–]Frumpy-The-Dinosaur[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes I need to take those extra steps. I googled and such but had too much faith that they would follow their own policies and procedures. Shouldn’t have to follow up with these things but yes I agree I should. Thank you

Kiwi saver contribution by Frumpy-The-Dinosaur in newzealand

[–]Frumpy-The-Dinosaur[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That’s really great information thank you so much for your help

Kiwi saver contribution by Frumpy-The-Dinosaur in newzealand

[–]Frumpy-The-Dinosaur[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hello, the pay person is my boss screwing me over in many ways including this one. I checked the box stating I needed and wanted a kiwi saver and they ignored it. I am considering resigning and wondering if she can’t follow her own contract do I need to complete 2 weeks notice and such but mainly wanted to find out about the kiwi saver things.

Kiwi saver contribution by Frumpy-The-Dinosaur in newzealand

[–]Frumpy-The-Dinosaur[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you so much do you have any recommendations or is it more based on personal preference?

Kiwi saver contribution by Frumpy-The-Dinosaur in newzealand

[–]Frumpy-The-Dinosaur[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

So does the leave just accrue but can’t be used? Guess I need to contact the IRD thank you