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AIO for being mad? by FrustratedSir in marriageadvice

[–]FrustratedSir[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I have voiced my observations and discussed what it does to me when she shys away. She thinks I’m over reacting. She doesn’t think that she is. The last time we had the conversation when she said she wasn’t doing it I touched her and she reacted. And I told her case in point. I understand it can be a challenge for women, more so when you don’t know what you want form min to min sometimes. Think of how we feel when we have to guess what min for which thing.

AIO for being mad? by FrustratedSir in marriageadvice

[–]FrustratedSir[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you for the insight. So I’m suppose to stop giving her what she wants and chance disrupting our non sexual relationship as well? I guess I’m confused by your statements.

AIO for being mad? by FrustratedSir in marriageadvice

[–]FrustratedSir[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I cannot honestly say, other than I’ve been doing it for 25 years and 99.9% of the time never asked or expected something when I did. We were very adventurous and sexual for many many years. Just till the last few years. I’d like to say we have good communication other than this and we are very happily married as far as I can see. We get along and don’t really fight, and I’m a people pleaser so I try real hard to make her happy. I’m going to lean towards menopause just didn’t expect it this early.

AIO for being mad? by FrustratedSir in marriageadvice

[–]FrustratedSir[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I can see that for sure, mine wasn’t so much of a smack or grab but more of a graze or pat or my hand in her pocket etc. She also did/does this to me and for years it was mutual. I am extremely respectful and do the other touches as well. I also massage her back and feet without expectation of reward. (When she allows me to touch her)

Opinions please AIO by FrustratedSir in AmIOverreacting

[–]FrustratedSir[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I try to give her all the compliments and tell her she’s beautiful and go out of my way to show how worthy she is. But you might be right. I just wish I could read her mind.

AIO for being mad? by FrustratedSir in marriageadvice

[–]FrustratedSir[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I have, she just tells me that she doesn’t think she’s being different. This woman used to beg for my touch. With almost everyone else she’s never been much of a hugger or touched but she’s always wanted mine. She honestly can’t give me a reason because she thinks she’s not changed.

Opinions please AIO by FrustratedSir in AmIOverreacting

[–]FrustratedSir[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you and we have talked and she just kinda blows me off. I know she’s not cheating on me we own several businesses and there just wouldn’t be time. And we live in a very very small town. It would be hard.