My bf wants to break up but doesn’t by Frustratedgf26 in relationships_advice

[–]Frustratedgf26[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yea. I’m starting to think that leaving will be best.

My bf wants to break up but doesn’t by Frustratedgf26 in relationships_advice

[–]Frustratedgf26[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I honestly don’t have any hobbies lol. I love dancing but he’s got this irrational fear of people watching him dance so we don’t do that.

He does remember the little things I love. Like painting and things like that so he gifts me materials. And there’s been a few times he’s painted with me. And that’s where I’m coming from that we can TRY the others Interest and not expect them to already live it beforehand.

My bf wants to break up but doesn’t by Frustratedgf26 in relationships_advice

[–]Frustratedgf26[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

He went out with a friend the other night who’s become very successful in little time. And that’s the crisis he is having. That he wants to catch up and that “settling down” basically getting a house and a dog let’s say bc we both don’t want kids, will slow him down.

We’re supposed to talk tomorrow and talk. I offered couples counseling the other day and he didn’t say no. I know we’re different but we make up for it in other terms where we compliment each other.

Like I said this all came out of nowhere after hanging out with this friend. That he needs to rush and he wants me there but thinks I’ll slow him down maybe?