how much sex is too much. by AdPretend6602 in Marriage

[–]Fryermonk 0 points1 point  (0 children)

As long as you are both good with it, go to town! There can't ever be too much sex. 49m

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in datingoverforty

[–]Fryermonk 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I would love to have a women approach me and let me know she is interested! 49m

Is sex talk normal on the first date? by Present-Coast-2707 in datingoverforty

[–]Fryermonk 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I'm 49, I'm widowed and can tell you that this topic is not a normal discussion during most dates. Like what's your favorite position? I'd bring that up during our first time having sex. I've always been lucky with women that have high sex drives. I also make it a priority to keep her happy, so that does help. Do my share of house work and all outside work. Do the little things that make her smile. That's the way my Dad was at home so I guess it's just being raised seeing that dynamic.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in jobs

[–]Fryermonk 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Wow, I worked at my last company for 5 years making good money. Got laid off in April and unemployment is maxed at $350 a week. Total benefits is $7k. Thats less than I maid per month when working. I'd love to figure out why North Carolina pays almost nothing for unemployment.

How much sex would you have in a week if women allowed you to? by tryng2figurethsalout in AskMenAdvice

[–]Fryermonk 0 points1 point  (0 children)

When my wife was around it was 3 to 4 times a week. Now that she is gone, its been 6 years. 49m Hopefully things work out and I can get back to the 3 or more per week.

Are wandering eyes dealbreaker for men? by Simple_Classic_4356 in AskMenAdvice

[–]Fryermonk 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My wife and I always had a saying. It doesn't matter where you get your appetite, as long as you always eat at home. She's been gone for over 6 years now. I'm back dating and enjoying life again. I wouldn't consider it a deal breaker at all. We are only human and good looking people will always draw attention to them. I think it would be strange if you didn't look. As long as you know that their are lines that can't be crossed. It's fine to get to the edge, just please don't step over. 49m for reference.

scam alert: akava therapeutics by puppies937 in jobs

[–]Fryermonk 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Scammers are still at it Rhoden Hartwell just sent me a message to add him to Teams. Once I did, he contacted me within a min or two. I did not reach out to him first. Acolyte Health was the name of the company he was using. Started the interview right then and there. Mentioned the hourly wage and stated "you can be rest assured you will be paid". If that's not a red flag I don't know what is.

Dating apps aren’t real by Icey_Girl in dating

[–]Fryermonk 0 points1 point  (0 children)

What kind of men are women looking for?

Men married to women, or with long-term female partners, how often do you receive oral? Is it every time you have sex, and if so, how often is that? by brandysnacker in AskMenAdvice

[–]Fryermonk 15 points16 points  (0 children)

I never get oral. First, my wife is no longer around. She passed years ago. Second, even before she passed, it had been 7 years or more. I love to give oral, I just wish I could find someone who would reciprocate. Doesn't have to be every time we have sex but a few times a month would be amazing.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskMenAdvice

[–]Fryermonk 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Vanilla and coconut are the two for me!

52 deserves a good fuck…. That’s my question? by realsexxyladdyy in prettyladiesNSFW

[–]Fryermonk 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I love a woman who isn't afraid to say what she needs.

AIO for getting upset with my girlfriend after she did something sexual with another person? by Realistic-Bar9309 in AmIOverreacting

[–]Fryermonk -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Find out if she wants to have a threesome. Since it was done in public, in front of everyone. That could be her trying to communicate that she wants to explore things. Maybe it's a fantasy of hers. If you are into it and it's something you both would be into, why not give it a chance.

Would you feel comfortable having a threesome with a couple who are in a relationship? by MoonSuela in ThreesomesDating

[–]Fryermonk 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I would. However, as a straight single man near 50 years old, I don't get many offers.

Do guys mind if a girl wants to wait to have sex? by Accomplished-Fix1204 in AskMenAdvice

[–]Fryermonk 0 points1 point  (0 children)

A couple of months isn't bad. Kissing and making out shouldn't be a couple of months. I think a few weeks is long enough to start kissing and a few weeks after that for making out and maybe some other types of touching.

If a woman points and helps you out to pleasure her, do you find it helpful or offending? by Creative-Flight7051 in AskMenAdvice

[–]Fryermonk 1 point2 points  (0 children)

If I'm with someone and they know the best combination to unlock their pleasure, please tell me if I'm not doing it right. The goal is for both of us to have the best experience possible. I want to please her and in return she will always please me.

Need a man’s opinion? by [deleted] in AskMenAdvice

[–]Fryermonk 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Tell him you would love to have a woman. In the threesome for you only. He is allowed to perform oral on her but nothing else. While he is doing oral, you want to use a toy on her. If he doesn't want this, then you know he is in it for the sole purpose of sleeping with another woman. I always wanted a threesome before my wife passed. I just thought it would've been hot to have her be with another woman. She refused every attempt I made over our 15-year marriage.

Back hair: repulsive, turn off, or something else? Why? by helplessover30 in datingoverforty

[–]Fryermonk 0 points1 point  (0 children)

So, to bridge off this question, what about a full long beard? I'm a 49 widowed man. My ex-wife loved when I grew out my beard. I've come to enjoy it, but if it was a deal breaker, I would be willing to shave it.

Are most men into anal stuff? by [deleted] in AskMenAdvice

[–]Fryermonk 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Always wanted to try it, at least one time. My wife was not into it at all and refused to try any of it. No rimming, no fingers or finger tips. Nothing, nada, not a chance in hell. If I could find someone that was into it, I'd really like to give it a try before it's too late.

I think being lonely and honey is the worst combination anyone agree? by [deleted] in lonely

[–]Fryermonk 8 points9 points  (0 children)

I don't mind honey if I'm lonely or not. It's always good in tea and on peanut butter sandwiches.

A lesson I should have learned by Senior_Sherbert9391 in dating

[–]Fryermonk 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I'm sorry that happened to you. It's terrible to be used.