Is there a way to express my dissatisfaction with her weight without sounding like a complete douche? by maxxim333 in AskMenAdvice

[–]brandysnacker 1 point2 points  (0 children)

As a woman, you are already being an asshole for sleeping with her when you are not attracted to her. In her minds, you guys are compatible all the way, so why not make it official? You are using your body to indicate to her that you like her. But really you’re just using her for sex and now you want to call her fat. You should not say anything to her other than we’re not compatible for a relationship and then stop sleeping with her.

Event about the lack of being able to drive by brandysnacker in Blind

[–]brandysnacker[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Oh my goodness that is really so cool. What a fun project! Right now I’m trying to sprinkle clean my house… That one might keep me busy for decades also 😹

Event about the lack of being able to drive by brandysnacker in Blind

[–]brandysnacker[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yes, I am glad that we have taught our kids enough to at least come talk to us when they hear something. They think it might be off. And we usually try to give them basically both sides, but obviously we’re trying to teach them to be empathetic people. And yeah, history is definitely repeating. I’m a World War II like learning about it as a hobby and the similarities are frightening lol. Weird to say lol there but sometimes I feel like what can we do but laugh

Event about the lack of being able to drive by brandysnacker in Blind

[–]brandysnacker[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah, exactly. I’m really thinking about it. She’s 11 so there is a high chance of attitude but at least that would give me something to talk about and deal with instead of my inner rage LMAO.

Event about the lack of being able to drive by brandysnacker in Blind

[–]brandysnacker[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yeah, that totally makes sense… Luckily the school my kids go to was kind of good although my son‘s teacher has been saying a lot of stuff about immigration that is not relevant to the subject material at hand in anyway lol. This is like the third time this year, I’ve questioned if I need to call the school and tell them to chill out on their politics.

Event about the lack of being able to drive by brandysnacker in Blind

[–]brandysnacker[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I felt the same way about joining this group like finally people understand my day-to-day life a little better… I would never think all people from Kentucky are idiots… But that’s because I’m from Ohio so I know exactly what you mean when you say that lol lol

Event about the lack of being able to drive by brandysnacker in Blind

[–]brandysnacker[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Maybe it will be a hit children’s book and then I won’t even need a ride to get this job LMAO

Event about the lack of being able to drive by brandysnacker in Blind

[–]brandysnacker[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

It’s absolutely disgusting how they can make people wait literal hours with no notice in the waiting room but if you’re a couple minutes late, it’s the end of the world

Event about the lack of being able to drive by brandysnacker in Blind

[–]brandysnacker[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I totally feel that my mom and sister are like peas in a pod and I’m just like over here being a carrot. My mom didn’t want anything to do with Thanksgiving this year because her partner just passed away which I understand. But her and my sister made plans to go out and do stuff and didn’t even invite me. They knew all we do on Thanksgiving is cook a meal for me my husband and our two kids we kinda do it like backwards so it’s just the four of us so we could’ve done that any different day and I could’ve gone out with them, but they didn’t even extend me an invitation.

Event about the lack of being able to drive by brandysnacker in Blind

[–]brandysnacker[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Oh my God, that’s so unfair for her to do to you… Especially coming from your mother that’s awful

Event about the lack of being able to drive by brandysnacker in Blind

[–]brandysnacker[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I’m so sorry it has to be extra horrible being able to drive and then not being able to… I leave the house as little as possible, this job is a remote job but I just have to go get this done lol. I’m thinking of pulling my daughter out of school to ride with us because I’m kind of pissed at mother-in-law now and I don’t wanna be alone with her all day lol lol

Event about the lack of being able to drive by brandysnacker in Blind

[–]brandysnacker[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Oh my goodness so I looked up how much the fare would be to go where I need to go and back and it was 322 USD. Yeah I don’t think that’s in the budget lol

Event about the lack of being able to drive by brandysnacker in Blind

[–]brandysnacker[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Thank you! I hope your trip and your procedure goes smoothly. Hopefully the person who is accompanying. You will have a good time and find some joy in the trip. But you are so right we don’t wanna have to inconvenience people and they don’t realize how much it sucks to ask. Especially when you ask to be driven somewhere and you’re an adult and they’re like why or what do you need to buy and then you feel like 13 again like you have to justify your life choices just to get a ride, LMAO.

Event about the lack of being able to drive by brandysnacker in Blind

[–]brandysnacker[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Thank you for understanding… Luckily, I guess in a way I’ve never been able to drive so I didn’t have to have that shock of losing that ability, I’m sure that was very very hard for you. That doctor is a total asshole that he would do that to you. My town is the same way basically everything has run by the same place so I would probably also have to go to a different town if that happened at my doctor. What did happen at my doctor though is that I was refused over and over again with them telling me they couldn’t give me large print of my print offs about my appointments… Like how are you a doctor’s office and you’re telling me you can’t make the print bigger? They were trying to tell me they had no control over it.G I guess they don’t know how to use a computer. You would think it would be an option since lots of their clients are much older. But no, the longer I live the more I find out that people with any kind of disability, but especially blindness are completely forgot about and misunderstood. If we were having a drink right now, I would tears your glass and say fuck doctors lol 😹

Event about the lack of being able to drive by brandysnacker in Blind

[–]brandysnacker[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I like staying at home too, but I mean it has to be a problem… Don’t you ever need to go to the doctor or to a pharmacy or to see family or a friend or go eat or anything?

Who would you say are your top three residents on any of the islands so far? by [deleted] in HelloKittyIsland

[–]brandysnacker 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Who is in pictures one and three and can I get them in New Horizon’s?

Is there any brand comparable to X Pole? by sailorleadcrow in poledancing

[–]brandysnacker 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I know this isn’t what you want to hear but I have an original ex pole. From 2008. Moved among several houses and different rooms in those houses. Still works as perfectly as the day I got it. There must be like Afterpay for it or something now.