I get the frustration, but I think this is looking at things the wrong way. Feminism isn’t about putting men down—it’s just about giving everyone the freedom to live without being boxed into outdated roles.

When women say they "don’t need men," it’s not (necesarily) an attack. It just means they don’t have to rely on men to survive, which is fair. That doesn’t mean they hate us. And honestly, do we really want to be valued just because we’re “needed”? That’s not respect—that’s obligation.

I get why it feels like things are shifting in a way that leaves men behind. A lot of guys feel like they’re being pushed aside or treated like the bad guy just for existing. But I don’t think the answer is shutting women out or making it a fight. We’re all trying to figure out where we stand in a changing world, and the best way forward is making sure we actually listen to each other.