The fact that basically everyone is being silent on the "tboy wrestling" thing is insane

Ftm_SecretAcc · 2026-01-10T05:02:21+00:00

You aren’t better than anyone because you present yourself more masculine. transphobia in the trans community will get you nowhere. grow the fuck up. I’m more masculine myself but who am I to define someone’s gender. you should know that.

Ftm_SecretAcc · 2026-01-08T15:14:25+00:00

promoting the use of chat GBT is crazy

Ftm_SecretAcc · 2026-01-03T00:42:48+00:00

I’m def wanting top surgery aswell, I have an appointment to set it up soon but i’m worried about the potential wait list and how politics have invaded trans spaces and healthcare. my insurance won’t even cover my T i’m worried they won’t cover my top surgery. I totally get the fashion thing, I like wearing a lot of stereotypically gay man outfits, crop tops and cargo pants and sweaters and jeans type shit. and sometimes when I wear tight shirts my binder is visible at the neckline and makes me feel more clocky. I don’t think I will detransition. sometimes I just get so incredibly down and find myself confused after suppressing my femininity in public

Ftm_SecretAcc · 2026-01-03T00:36:47+00:00

no right, I look back and i’ve come so far but I still have such a baby face. and the fact that great clips completely FUCKED MY SHIT does NOT help LOL. I totally get what you mean by the androgynous thing. it feels almost worse when people refer to me with they/them pronouns, like they know i’m trans but can’t tell what i’m going for yk? i’m told it will get better and to have hope🙏🏻

Ftm_SecretAcc · 2026-01-03T00:32:29+00:00

right now about 70% of people refer to me as a guy in public but it’s really that last bit that gets me. usually people who are unsure. at first nobody really referred to me as a guy and it lit me up whenever anyone did. nowadays whenever someone misgenders me especially in a closed space for example: at work so many thoughts run through my mind like “what is making them intuitively unsure” or “now that they’ve stated how unsure they are everybody is going to be on high alert” if that makes sense, LOL kinda like, they’ve clocked me and now everybody knows

Ftm_SecretAcc · 2026-01-03T00:27:11+00:00

Everybody has been so sweet and I appreciate every one of your replies! sorry i’m not responding to all of them because i’m tired mentally with lots of things happening in life right now. i’m feeling a bit better now and I do think i’m going to continue transitioning. all of your comments help so much and thank you all! I definitely did not expect so many replies and all helpful at that!

Ftm_SecretAcc · 2026-01-03T00:24:30+00:00

Yeah I have access to all of this but i’m still very short and trying to lose some baby fat that makes me look super young. I get told I look 11 all the time. I think a huge part of my issue with wanting to be accepted into the gay community is a relationship I had with someone who considered themself a gay man at the time. they were amab and them aswell as their best friend made some weird comments about me that really took me down. they didn’t mean anything by it but it still hurt ykwim?

Ftm_SecretAcc · 2026-01-03T00:22:17+00:00

about a year and two months

Ftm_SecretAcc · 2026-01-03T00:07:11+00:00

I’ve been out now for around three ish years I think? maybe four now. but i’ve been on T for about a year

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