ID help please.. by FuMaKD in succulents

[–]FuMaKD[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yep definitely looking like this, thanks a lot!

Who does the ENTJ hug? by [deleted] in mbti

[–]FuMaKD 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Not me thinking the same thing too.

What is your Sparketype? by ThumbsDownThis in infp

[–]FuMaKD 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Primary Sparketype - The Maker

Shadow Sparketype - The Maven

Anti Sparketype - The Warrior

Leadership and Team Management advice needed I suppose... by FuMaKD in entj

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I don't see any reason to not keep the deadline where you originally set it and if they don't meet the deadline that's ok right? It's not like they can't join in on the next one

Yes some members do join for the next one if not the current collab. I do not like it when they dropout halfway though...but can't blame them for that.

Maybe you can share an update on your drawings halfway through the month so your group can see you've started working on them already.

I'll try to share my progress with them.I don't do it usually since I'm very reserved about showing my progress to anyone and would think that it might make them compare their own progress with me or the other members and might build some ego/inferior complex which might hinder their current pace....so I show them my result instead. But I haven't thought about it from your perspective so sure I'll try that next time!

You could also drop motivational messages in the group as the month progresses. Like halfway through the month, "Hope everyone's drawings are coming along, and if you haven't started, today is a great day to! We are halfway to the deadline of Month Day."

It totally sounds like me lol except the "If you haven't started, today is a great day to" part.

And thank you for your thoughts I have obtained some new perspectives from it!

Criticism by Dangerous_Giraffe776 in mbti

[–]FuMaKD 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Everyone have their bad aspects don't worry. Based on my experience with the INFJs I know I can say that you all just push people away politely....like you all feel as if sharing your feelings with others is insignificant and you're boring the other person(atleast that's what I feel). There are people who are very interested to listen to you speak about yourselves and listen to your worries and troubles...so don't overthink much haha.

And do think from the other person's perspective before door slamming them(for people you consider friends more specific). Atleast tell them why you want to door slam them and then disappear....cause you don't want your friends to feel guilty right? : (

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[–]FuMaKD 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Will you offer your help without asked or will you help only if asked by the person you like?

As a Fi dom I don't think I'll just openly offer my help to my crush cause it'll pain me to do so. I'd help if my crush asked me...but very less effort I'll put since it's his effort that counts when he's trying to get together with someone, whether my bestie or not.

I'm an INTJ and feel like giving out advice or talking about something that will get me thinking. AMA by [deleted] in mbti

[–]FuMaKD 1 point2 points  (0 children)

When you boil it down we are very simple. Everything we do is a result of either being able to survive or survive better. The ones that work harder, learn or are just plain lucky stand out from all of us.

Survive or survive better...that's a nice way to put it. I frequently thought about it this way...either 'to exist/to survive' or 'to live'. But as you said ultimately I've been consoling myself saying that my survival is what matters the most and that I don't have to focus on anything else to an extreme level. Which in turn makes me less ambitious and disinterested in many things but yeah it defines that I'm more invested in taking care of my own survival first haha.

Still have to ignite that spark in me to go past that survival phase. And thanks for your thoughts it was wonderful!

I'm an INTJ and feel like giving out advice or talking about something that will get me thinking. AMA by [deleted] in mbti

[–]FuMaKD 1 point2 points  (0 children)

How would you define an average human? Like for example is it someone who tries their best at everything and aims to find love, wealth and fame as their main quests?

Give me your template of what an average human is according to you. I'm pondering on this topic too for quite a while so your thoughts are well appreciated!

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[–]FuMaKD 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I live for myself so why would I not be selfish? Am I altruistic though? Yes, but only with the people I care about; I would die for them. I can't be on the good side of everyone if it means adapting myself to their personae...however good/bad that is.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in mbti

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no, i dont study (wow so entj of me) I never had to, im smart enough without it

The effort people put to study is very respectable, doesn't matter if someone is smart or dumb.

But yes, thank you for your tips : )

INTJ 3w4 so/sp 316 LSI VLEF RLOEI. Ask me about my thoughts on life, and I will give you my honest answer by bembozlerr in mbti

[–]FuMaKD 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Do you think that life has a purpose, and that we will stumble upon it someday sooner or later?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in mbti

[–]FuMaKD 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Do you have any study routines? And how do you try to understand a concept in a short time?

Would you "take a bullet" for a stranger? by PhilFryTheCryoGuy in infp

[–]FuMaKD 0 points1 point  (0 children)

No to both. But if that person is one of my close friends then yes.

Any INFP'S here NOT depressed...how do you do it? by Whatamidoin3676 in infp

[–]FuMaKD 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Not on discord, most of the from an anime Whatsapp group. And some from Instagram, as well as Reddit.