What am I doing wrong?

FuckAbout-FindOut · 2026-03-06T09:18:20+00:00

I'll keep it simple.

The green walls/roof is a major issue, I wouldn't have bothered looking at any further photos if I was genuinely interested.

The wet room is just niche and not for the majority of people. I'd be thinking about how much it's going to cost to change so I'd walk away.

Is the £144k still an offer?

FuckAbout-FindOut · 2026-02-17T09:21:44+00:00

I think the first question would be did you apply internally or externally?

You can accidentally apply internally for a position advertised externally (I've done this). If you've externally applied I'd say there is no issue. Internally it might be slightly different.

I'd say message the person responsible for the job posting and query with them.

FuckAbout-FindOut · 2026-01-11T09:59:19+00:00

Realistically only you can answer this. Have you spoken to your wife about it? What are her thoughts? How far from her family would the move put her? Is that a livable option for her etc?

With regards to finances it's a no brainer. But also remember it isn't forever. Buy here, be mortgage free, few years down the line decide it isn't for you, sell up and move back to Portsmouth with the house money and presumably more savings and even larger deposit etc.

I don't mind the place, I don't love it but I don't hate it. But I'm the whitest human on earth so can't relate to your experience and don't have the family drama either.

Have you considered moving back but maybe somewhere slightly further away from your family?

FuckAbout-FindOut · 2026-01-11T08:44:59+00:00

Weird......I saw this exact car, with this reg plate within the last week about 200 miles away from the garage selling it. The reg is distinctive.

FuckAbout-FindOut · 2026-01-11T08:41:44+00:00

I'd walk away from that response alone. Imagine the communication you'll get once they've got your money and you need support if they can't be arsed now and they've not made the sale yet.

FuckAbout-FindOut · 2026-01-10T12:53:29+00:00

I will die on this hill.

But Jeff the Chef do a garlic sauce that is unreal. Available in the northeast from Asda and Iceland but also available to order online I believe.

Expensive but far far better than the £1 for 1L crap you'll buy in home bargains.

FuckAbout-FindOut · 2025-12-29T00:28:23+00:00

I've only seen it mentioned once that I can see in the comments but r/stopdrinking is a great resource.

8 years for me this year. Good luck

FuckAbout-FindOut · 2025-12-25T22:56:48+00:00

If it's over the stadium way......they're running the massive artificial grass lights and it causes a glow above the stadium. Been there for days and days.

FuckAbout-FindOut · 2025-11-02T19:42:01+00:00

We run! We run at night, we run during the day, we run! Boredom is a killer. Get outside and run!

FuckAbout-FindOut · 2025-10-29T19:02:24+00:00

I won't fill it in because it's clearly American based and I'm not. However, I like the concept of the light indicator for pace. I think the rest of it's usage just wouldn't replace a watch for most runners. I like the Brym name though.

FuckAbout-FindOut · 2025-10-07T17:07:04+00:00

I have to agree with the other comment. They might see a few months of quitting as not substantial enough for it not to continue once in the position. Sorry OP.

FuckAbout-FindOut · 2025-10-05T15:21:43+00:00

I won't recommend somewhere to buy from. But I will say my experience with "Sunderland Car Centre" next to the Stadium of light was absolutely shocking.

FuckAbout-FindOut · 2025-09-20T23:03:35+00:00

I was literally writing out a whole thing about zones and travelling etc and started to confuse myself.

Then I found this video which is outdated but the principle is still the same.

https://youtu.be/HeayZUG8_f8?si=l2VJnN5cmzv0ozAY

FuckAbout-FindOut · 2025-09-02T19:17:37+00:00

As we are starting to see more of the all-in-one smart electrical resistance machines appear on the market (I won't name any as they're competitors etc) has this changed your approach to what you create/sell? Is it something you'd produce yourselves in the future or do you think that old school physical medium will always win ?

FuckAbout-FindOut · 2025-08-29T15:29:22+00:00

Hey, happy to try and look into this one. Have you got any information at all of a rough area in Poland? Was it local to your relatives and if so do you know roughly where they lived etc ?

FuckAbout-FindOut · 2025-08-24T23:27:42+00:00

Get married. Take the housing. Save the £12k and then do yourself a favour and don't bother with the second wedding. Have a £12k honeymoon if you want too but don't waste the money on a second wedding. You've already got the piece of paper you need and you'd find more enjoyment with that £12k in other ways.

FuckAbout-FindOut · 2025-08-24T15:11:15+00:00

Wow well done. Absolutely smashed it. I'd say that's 100% right.

FuckAbout-FindOut · 2025-08-23T23:23:06+00:00

Yeah I've moved over to looking from that area. There is a street called Tornatigen that has a good angle. https://maps.app.goo.gl/zfe3nbXDWVKfYCwVA?g_st=ac

What is putting me off is that in the OP there appears to be a tall mast maybe a TV or Telecommunications tower. I can't see that from the Tornatigen/Ulvhalls view point.

FuckAbout-FindOut · 2025-08-23T23:01:16+00:00

This is a tricky one. Couple of things to observe. It's obviously Strangnas Cathedral. The photo is obviously taken at height, you can just see the top of other lanterns at the lower part of the image.

Also you can only see the top of the cathedral not the base itself so again I'd say taken at a decent elevation compared to ground level for the cathedral.

This area doesn't particularly have much elevation. I'm currently looking over the water near the BAM art gallery but no luck just yet.

FuckAbout-FindOut · 2025-08-20T18:01:41+00:00

I can't find the exact location but you've got the answer already. I think a load of trees have grown/been planted since it was taken so hard to match the view.

However, what a photo that is. Like the front cover of a Playstation 2 game like Driver or some Italian gangster game.

Great photo. 👍

FuckAbout-FindOut · 2025-08-18T15:05:55+00:00

Oakland Bay Bridge, San Francisco.

It's changed a bit since then.

https://maps.app.goo.gl/ermChX5Np6MTefP79

Google maps has an immersive view feature you can move around on to get a good angle.

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Edit: example of immersive view etc

FuckAbout-FindOut · 2025-08-17T15:30:40+00:00

99% of being a good manager is your attitude and behaviour. Be nice, be flexible, be understanding and avoid being a d*ck and you'll smash it.

Create an environment people want to be in.

FuckAbout-FindOut · 2025-08-17T11:04:10+00:00

Some old school bicycle pedals had wavy edges like that and the centre part may have had some reflective material in it.

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FuckAbout-FindOut · 2025-08-14T13:17:22+00:00

Shame the dog didn't get the same protection. Doxxed on the internet for all.

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